[quote]vroom wrote:
I don’t know why everyone thinks it is a non-issue to be healthy.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m obviously on the right road myself. However, when peoples entire lives are taken up by career, looking after children, running a household and otherwise looking after all their responsibilities, where do they find the time and energy to actually realize that everyone is lying to them about being healthy?
Honestly, I’m not making excuses, but if it was so damned easy, we wouldn’t be suffering an obesity epidemic.
Yes, while I too believe people are stupid and docile and so on, you also have to cut them a little slack. Obviously life has become structured in a way that such issues have become less important, less valued, by society.
The so called “realities” of the world can weigh pretty heavily on you. If you aren’t yet shouldering those burdens yourself, don’t be so quick to condemn those that are.
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This whole post is money. TIME is the issue here. Our whole society is stacked against making time for exercise.
(1) We spend way too much time at WORK. This is a big problem in my opinion - lets face it, in most careers, an 8 hour day is a flat out pipe dream. If you are working 8 hours a day, consider yourself lucky.
(2) We live too far from work. For people in the big city, living in the burbs, you may be wasting 2+ hours a day sitting in the car commuting.
I really think these are the big two. For some people work + commuting takes up all but a few hours of time. Throw in meals and such, and you’re all but out of time. Then people have lack of sleep problems, because they have so little time to pursue things they enjoy, they cut back on sleep to MAKE time for it, lest they go insane and begin feeling like they are a machine that works and sleeps only. This is tough enough on a single guy - now throw a family in the mix, whom you need to spend time with and you can see you’re to the point where the only free time you have is when you are sitting on the toilet.
Tell someone in this situation “by the way you need to hit the gym for 1.5 hours 3-4 times a week” and they are likely to laugh so hard that whatever they are drinking shoots out their nose. Tell someone in this situation “by the way, instead of hitting mcdonald’s in a 5 min trip, you need to spend 45 mins cooking” and the same result is likely. What free time they DO have is spent on things like their family and things they enjoy, not in the gym (which most people will never enjoy - they may enjoy the results but not the act).
My approach in such a situation would be to tell my boss to “fuck off” and find a new job - but for someone with 3 kids and a mortgage they can barely afford, that’s not an option.
The problems here go MUCH deeper than people’s laziness. For a lot of people its laziness, for some people, modern American life simply screws them over.