She’s a semi-adult. She could shut him down if she wanted to. She’s taking it up the ass from him.[/quote]
Na. Not all women are aggressive and some don’t know how to tell guys to fuck off, I’ve seen it first hand. Especially women who are easily intimidated, they don’t know what to do or say even if they don’t desire it.[/quote]
Then she needs to grow the fuck up, or she’ll end up with 14 kids and a blue taco.[/quote]
I edited my original post a little bit too. I 100% agree with you about the above, I simply didn’t agree that she’s getting her cornhole perforated just because she could be a push over. If something like this was happening to my woman, I would either expect her to handle it herself or if she felt like the guy was actually dangerous to come to me with the problem and then I would handle it.
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I was waiting for you to recover from that weak first post. Phew. LOL
OP…let me get this straight. You posted what you did on Facebook to “let him know you’d see him on Tuesday”? Really? All respect to the Blue Waffle discussion, I’m gonna bring this thread back around, and hopefully bring you back to planet Earth. Listen up:
Your girlfriend likes the attention. Even a girl her age, if confronted by someone talking like this guy does, is going to react negatively if she doesn’t like it. Bottom line is, she likes the fact that he’s talking to her like that, and she’s interested, or she would have told him to F-off. Dogs don’t sniff around if a homeowner pepper sprays them in the face. Same concept here.
She isn’t telling you this because she wants you to go beat the guy’s ass or defend her. The subliminal message she’s sending is that she is interested in this other guy. She’s telling you, cos that’s what girls her age do. If she isn’t already banging the guy, she will be…after she breaks up with you.
By going on Facebook to “let him know” you have made two errors.
A.) You have shown your enemy that you are weak in this area, and that he can affect you by talking to your girl.
B.) You have alerted your enemy that a potential attack is coming. You have totally lost the element of surprise, which is going to make whatever attack you can muster at this point ineffective. Ambushes work by surprise, speed, and violence of action. You have lost two of those already.
What, exactly, is the point of fighting for a girl who isn’t going to do HER PART to defend the relationship? You shouldn’t have to intervene at all…she should have already handled it. Never fight over a girlfriend…they aren’t worth it.
Your course of action should be the following: This weekend, take your g/f someplace where the two of you can bang like little sex monkeys all weekend. Do EVERYTHING you ever wanted to do to her. Hold nothing back. Sunday night or Monday morning, break up with her and never look back. If she asks why, tell her you don’t respect her anymore. Then go on Facebook and tell old boy he can have her. And make sure you ask him how your dick tastes.
FUCK so thats what a tool is! so now i know im a toolbag
dude look i dont know if this tool is just really fucked up or what, but it seems like your girl might be encouraging him, if she paid no fucking interest, i believe he would stop, i know this cause i guess i just found out im a tool
like PMPM said your girl might be stiring some little things up, you said ya been going out for 6 months do you really know her that well? had she ever done anything out of the normal? is she outgoing?
is SHE flirtatous?
i mean suse is fucked up still flirting with her knowing that she has a BF, and im thinking is all this happeneing in front of you in the same class? what is she like when your not there?
I think the OP needs to find a new GF. Stupid little girls play games to see if guys will fight over them. You are playing into a game for her enjoyment.
ANY girl, can shut a guy down. She’s not choosing to because she is enjoying the attention. SHE is disrespecting you, not the GUY. He is just being a guy. She is giving him signals that it is ok to do what he is doing.
You calling him out on FB just makes you look like a pussy who can’t control his emotions, his woman or his actions.
Before you get a new GF, learn how to set some boundaries with women. Evidently you are clueless about this.
Don’t start a fight with another dude over a girl. SHE is the one who is enabling it in most cases. If he is deliberately disrespecting her in her class, she should tell the teacher he is harassing her that will send a clear message to him.
If a guy disrespects you when you are out with a girl, try to show restraint. It is a compliment. If he gets out of line, firmly tell him to back the fuck off. If he TOUCHES your girl after she has blown him off and made it clear his advances are unwelcome, break his fucking hand.
Don’t FB him after fact, telling him you’ll see him on Tuesday - that’s just weak.
It should never come to this if the girl you are with knows how to handle herself. Getting into fights over women is stupid. If you have a Drama Queen on your hands, trade her in.
[quote]mapwhap wrote:
OP…let me get this straight. You posted what you did on Facebook to “let him know you’d see him on Tuesday”? Really? All respect to the Blue Waffle discussion, I’m gonna bring this thread back around, and hopefully bring you back to planet Earth. Listen up:
Your girlfriend likes the attention. Even a girl her age, if confronted by someone talking like this guy does, is going to react negatively if she doesn’t like it. Bottom line is, she likes the fact that he’s talking to her like that, and she’s interested, or she would have told him to F-off. Dogs don’t sniff around if a homeowner pepper sprays them in the face. Same concept here.
She isn’t telling you this because she wants you to go beat the guy’s ass or defend her. The subliminal message she’s sending is that she is interested in this other guy. She’s telling you, cos that’s what girls her age do. If she isn’t already banging the guy, she will be…after she breaks up with you.
By going on Facebook to “let him know” you have made two errors.
A.) You have shown your enemy that you are weak in this area, and that he can affect you by talking to your girl.
B.) You have alerted your enemy that a potential attack is coming. You have totally lost the element of surprise, which is going to make whatever attack you can muster at this point ineffective. Ambushes work by surprise, speed, and violence of action. You have lost two of those already.
What, exactly, is the point of fighting for a girl who isn’t going to do HER PART to defend the relationship? You shouldn’t have to intervene at all…she should have already handled it. Never fight over a girlfriend…they aren’t worth it.
Your course of action should be the following: This weekend, take your g/f someplace where the two of you can bang like little sex monkeys all weekend. Do EVERYTHING you ever wanted to do to her. Hold nothing back. Sunday night or Monday morning, break up with her and never look back. If she asks why, tell her you don’t respect her anymore. Then go on Facebook and tell old boy he can have her. And make sure you ask him how your dick tastes.
Don’t FB him after fact, telling him you’ll see him on Tuesday - that’s just weak.
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This probably get the OP into more trouble as the other guy will be expecting it. Who knows he might bring a few friends along to help him out.
[quote]Kerley wrote:
am i the youngest guy on T-Nation, everyone keeps calling me son, kid or their little brother.[/quote]
you’re what? 19? 18? For all intents and purposes I’m 10 yrs older than you … you’re one of the younger guys. Although you’re a cool shit, you’re still younger than the majority of us. Thems the breaks
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
I think the OP needs to find a new GF. Stupid little girls play games to see if guys will fight over them. You are playing into a game for her enjoyment.
ANY girl, can shut a guy down. She’s not choosing to because she is enjoying the attention. SHE is disrespecting you, not the GUY. He is just being a guy. She is giving him signals that it is ok to do what he is doing.
You calling him out on FB just makes you look like a pussy who can’t control his emotions, his woman or his actions.
Before you get a new GF, learn how to set some boundaries with women. Evidently you are clueless about this.
Don’t start a fight with another dude over a girl. SHE is the one who is enabling it in most cases. If he is deliberately disrespecting her in her class, she should tell the teacher he is harassing her that will send a clear message to him.
If a guy disrespects you when you are out with a girl, try to show restraint. It is a compliment. If he gets out of line, firmly tell him to back the fuck off. If he TOUCHES your girl after she has blown him off and made it clear his advances are unwelcome, break his fucking hand.
Don’t FB him after fact, telling him you’ll see him on Tuesday - that’s just weak.
It should never come to this if the girl you are with knows how to handle herself. Getting into fights over women is stupid. If you have a Drama Queen on your hands, trade her in.[/quote]
[quote]Kerley wrote:
am i the youngest guy on T-Nation, everyone keeps calling me son, kid or their little brother.[/quote]
you’re what? 19? 18? For all intents and purposes I’m 10 yrs older than you … you’re one of the younger guys. Although you’re a cool shit, you’re still younger than the majority of us. Thems the breaks[/quote]
[quote]Kerley wrote:
am i the youngest guy on T-Nation, everyone keeps calling me son, kid or their little brother.[/quote]
you’re what? 19? 18? For all intents and purposes I’m 10 yrs older than you … you’re one of the younger guys. Although you’re a cool shit, you’re still younger than the majority of us. Thems the breaks[/quote]
[quote]Kerley wrote:
am i the youngest guy on T-Nation, everyone keeps calling me son, kid or their little brother.[/quote]
you’re what? 19? 18? For all intents and purposes I’m 10 yrs older than you … you’re one of the younger guys. Although you’re a cool shit, you’re still younger than the majority of us. Thems the breaks[/quote]
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Am not complaining just wondering.[/quote]
kerley… lots to learn from the older gents enjoy
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[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I know I’m hijacking, and I’m okay with it, because I think OP knows what his girlfriend’s gotta do.
But don’t you think blue taco is a better term than blue waffle? I mean, it’s historically referred to as a pink taco when it’s healthy. Why did it become a waffle when it got sick?
What did waffles do to deserve this?[/quote]
Did you possibly mean blueberry taco? I have heard that phrase, but not just “blue taco”.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I know I’m hijacking, and I’m okay with it, because I think OP knows what his girlfriend’s gotta do.
But don’t you think blue taco is a better term than blue waffle? I mean, it’s historically referred to as a pink taco when it’s healthy. Why did it become a waffle when it got sick?
What did waffles do to deserve this?[/quote]
Did you possibly mean blueberry taco? I have heard that phrase, but not just “blue taco”. [/quote]
No, I was definitely referring to the blue waffle, but I’m thinking of starting a Facebook campaign to get it redesignated the blue taco. OP, Facebook me, we’ll work on it together!
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I know I’m hijacking, and I’m okay with it, because I think OP knows what his girlfriend’s gotta do.
But don’t you think blue taco is a better term than blue waffle? I mean, it’s historically referred to as a pink taco when it’s healthy. Why did it become a waffle when it got sick?
What did waffles do to deserve this?[/quote]
Did you possibly mean blueberry taco? I have heard that phrase, but not just “blue taco”. [/quote]
No, I was definitely referring to the blue waffle, but I’m thinking of starting a Facebook campaign to get it redesignated the blue taco. OP, Facebook me, we’ll work on it together!
I really need to get to work now. :)[/quote]
we don’t agree on much but send me an invite to that group … we need justice!!
enjoy