Hypothetical: Spouse Joins Dating Site

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]MsM wrote:

Yes, there is and he’s completely awesome and will be home in about 2.5 hours.[/quote]

Hey Sugar, glad to hear all is well. Good on ya’.[/quote]

Thanks! Means a lot. :slight_smile: All is well, living the dream. Hope you’re donig well, too!

[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:

[quote]TDub301 wrote:
If the intention is just to get a few laughs at gay guys’ expense and the individual isn’t actually trying to find a side-piece or come out of the closet, I’m not sure why it would be an issue.[/quote]

I can’t speak for others; but I want nothing to do with someone that gets their laughs like that. It reveals character. [/quote]

I happened to have thought the same thing.

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Not appropriate, although I think there’s a bigger conversation that needs to be had. [/quote]

Oh, absolutely.

[quote]CroatianRage wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Never appropriate[/quote]

One exception I could think of:

You and your chick are bored one night and both make e-harmony profiles in order to see if you show up in each other’s suggested matches.

(You won’t and she will cry, but such is life.)

But the rules would have to be something like:

  1. both create the account together
  2. both know user name and password
  3. both close account after set amount of time, with the other person present

You know, thinking about it. Fuck that. Not worth the trouble it could cause.

Yeah, never appropriate. [/quote]

My girlfriend and I were going to do something like this and about 10 seconds after the idea came up we realized how terrible of a situation it is.[/quote]

It certainly does seem like a train wreck waiting to happen.

The hypothetical plan would be to be a heterosexual, male, virtual cock tease?

For shits and giggles?

I…

I…

O_o

[quote]TDub301 wrote:
The only question I’d have is the motivation. He said he wants to troll, and it wouldn’t surprise me to see people who have fun trolling in general and would start a gay profile for that purpose.

But if it’s out of character to do something like that, then big questions start to arise.

If the intention is just to get a few laughs at gay guys’ expense and the individual isn’t actually trying to find a side-piece or come out of the closet, I’m not sure why it would be an issue.[/quote]

I’m not even entirely sure. I think it would have been as a joke but who knows? It’s certainly not out of the normal realm for this person to joke around and be silly but…well, I’m not sure. lol Sometimes you just never know what people are doing.

[quote]orion wrote:
The hypothetical plan would be to be a heterosexual, male, virtual cock tease?

For shits and giggles?

I…

I…

O_o[/quote]

I know. lol Seems strange, right?

[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:

[quote]TDub301 wrote:
If the intention is just to get a few laughs at gay guys’ expense and the individual isn’t actually trying to find a side-piece or come out of the closet, I’m not sure why it would be an issue.[/quote]

I can’t speak for others; but I want nothing to do with someone that gets their laughs like that. It reveals character. [/quote]

THIS. Why would you put in that much time to screw with someone who didn’t do anything to you? Especially if you are in a relationship. I can sort of understand being single and bored.

There are so many things I don’t have enough time for now I can’t imagine wasting it on that.

People who troll random people on the internet are pathetic.

You bust balls and “troll” people you converse with on the regular, it is just ball busting, but to make a profile to “troll” gay dudes is pathetic.

[quote]orion wrote:
The hypothetical plan would be to be a heterosexual, male, virtual cock tease?

For shits and giggles?

I…

I…

O_o[/quote]

For a so called straight dude to even consider a gay profile is so super gay.

The deep closet is over there…but step up and own it. LOL

I have a couple dating site profiles.

I was messaged by a married woman looking to hook up. I was a bit curious so I chatted with her. At the end of the day, she was pissed at her husband and thought he was cheating. They had kids and everything.

She said she was looking for ‘love’ but it was pretty obvious she was looking to get fucked hard to shove it back in her husband’s face.

Ugly situation and there’s nothing but drama to follow for that family. But, people are people and this stuff is par for course for the species.

I just hope that I never find myself in a situation like this.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

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^ Doesn’t mind the occasional cock (pic) in his in-box.

[quote]print wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

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^ Doesn’t mind the occasional cock (pic) in his in-box.[/quote]

There you go…

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Not appropriate, although I think there’s a bigger conversation that needs to be had. [/quote]

I agree with this. On one hand I think it is inappropriate for a person in a relationship to be messing around with a dating site. It’s deceptive. On the other hand there’s the issue of the person probably having homosexual attractions which can be an issue, or not, depending on whether the person is/has become exclusively homosexual or if the partner would be willing to be in a relationship with a person with bisexual tendencies, if this is the caseâ?¦.

So two problems that need to be addressed: fidelity and sexual tendencies of the person in question.

Finally, the whole thing could really be just a joke as the person said, although I’m inclined to think it’s not. Just giving the person the benefit of doubt.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
People who troll random people on the internet are pathetic.

You bust balls and “troll” people you converse with on the regular, it is just ball busting, but to make a profile to “troll” gay dudes is pathetic.

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Except when T-Nation meatheads troll a knitting forum, that is the only exception.

Fucking creepy. Ditch this loser.

[quote]aeyogi wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
People who troll random people on the internet are pathetic.

You bust balls and “troll” people you converse with on the regular, it is just ball busting, but to make a profile to “troll” gay dudes is pathetic.

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Except when T-Nation meatheads troll a knitting forum, that is the only exception.[/quote]

Haha!

You should have been here when somebody found the “feeder” site of some fat acceptance group and people started trolling THAT site. I’m not sure if I was more disturbed at the idea of even going to that site, or whether it was the most genius mass trolling ever.

[quote]aeyogi wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
People who troll random people on the internet are pathetic.

You bust balls and “troll” people you converse with on the regular, it is just ball busting, but to make a profile to “troll” gay dudes is pathetic.

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Except when T-Nation meatheads troll a knitting forum, that is the only exception.[/quote]

Well, other than 90% of all other trolling attempts, that was truly hilarious.

Never appropriate.

Trolling gays as a joke is also never appropriate, or anyone on a dating site for that matter. It’s no less cruel online than it is in high school when someone finds out that they were asked out as a joke or bet. Regardless of venue, it’s absolutely loathsome behavior.

Who would be okay with this? The only question is would you rather your spouse actually be gay and using dating site or being a total fucktard?