[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:
Lorisco wrote:
CappedAndPlanIt wrote:
IMO, its a moot point because theres no reason gays just cant be gay; what causes me to speak up on the issue is that so many people only want to “prove” that its a choice so they can use it as rationalization for their bigotry against gays (nevermind that being gay could, reasonably, be both a choice and not wrong).
So, on a legal level, I’d rather it be viewed as intrinsic and innate, as to not open those gates I described earlier.
You continue to spout out words like bigotry, hate, discrimination, etc. And yet I have seen none of that on this form (I haven’t read everything).
Here are a few examples from this thread:
“The point is whether you believe its genetics or choice, if you let homos get married then farmer fred can marry his horse”
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Ok, I get your point.
When you see the statistics regarding how many gays die from their behavior or cause others to die, the only compassionate thing to do is advocate for treatment or some kind of behavioral change to reduce their risks.
Wanting gays to be able to change if they can is not bigotry, it compassion.
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OhHHHHHHHH, THATS when gays will have your permission! Ok, that makes complete sense because you’re totally in a position to determine if “gays can be gays” or if “gays arent allowed to be gays”.
You know something, though, you do make a good point, many gays lead an irresponsible lifestyle. And that irresponsible lifestyle results in a much higher rate of STDs in the gay community.
So if you have a problem with that, have a problem with that! Have a problem with people having too many sexual partners or not using protection or not getting regularly tested! Its possible to have a problem with an irresponsible lifestyle without having a problem with homosexuality (there are many homosexuals who respect their increased risk and act responsibly).
If you wish to speak out against irresponsibility, great, I’m all for that. But if you are going to pretend that homosexuality and irresponsibility are inexorably linked, or that the problem is homosexuality, or that the problem is only with homosexuals, then you are wrong.
Just letting them be gay is not the same as condoning irresponsibility since the two are not linked.[/quote]
The problem is that if a certain behavior is significantly more prevalent among a certain group you start to see correlations between the group characteristics and that behavior. In other words, statistically speaking, being gay means you higher correlation to inappropriate/risky sexual behavior than others.
So how do you know that that it is an individual issue and not a gay issue? If gays cannot change being gay, how do you know they can change their gay sexual behaviors to be less risky? Maybe that is genetic and cannot be changed as well?
It sounds like you are changing the rules about what can and cannot be changed to fit your perceptions.