[quote]Majin wrote:
ZEB wrote:
Secondly, there are far more bisexuals than true homosexuals-PERIOD. If 87% of all homosexuals claim to have had sex, or are currently having sex with someone of the opposite sex then they are in fact bisexuals, end of argument. Unless of course you want to make up another definition of “bisexual”.
That’s bs and you know you can’t compare that with straights. Most gays at least tried to either be straight or pretend to be straight. It’s called “being in the closet”. [/quote]
If someone has sex with both genders it’s called bisexual. Tell me how a guy who is actually a homosexual can enjoy sex with a woman? If he can then he is bisexual, not homosexual. Conversely, if a heterosexual man tried to have sex with another man I’m sure it would be impossible for obvious reasons. And that would make him a heterosexual.
Do you see the difference yet?
[quote]If most homosexuals have had sex, or are having sex with someone of the opposite sex then they are in fact bisexual. I don’t think we need to argue about that.
Read above. How many of those were out of the closet?[/quote]
If a man is “in the closet” and at the same time is capable of having sex with a woman then that man is bisexual. He may prefer men, but he’s still bisexual. Now, if he’s not having sex with women because he is simply not aroused by woman he is a homosexual.
No free passes for those who say they are homosexuals but can swing both ways. That’s called bisexual-PERIOD.
[quote]Well, I’m stating that I don’t know for sure how one becomes homosexual. And if the other side was honest they would be saying the same thing. However, they have not been honest. The “born that way” lie has been spread for so long that people (like you) actually believe it.
We know it’s not a choice and cannot be changed and doesn’t fit any specific upbringing criteria. So, as stated, the the most logical thing to say is that there is a natural component.
Then how can one change from homosexual to heterosexual if it is in fact genetic? And according to the best data that I could find about 30% of all who undergo therapy do in fact drop their homosexual lifestyle and in fact do not even have homosexual urges later on.
Explain that one if it’s genetic?
Hey, even if one person changed how can it be genetic. See the problem with that lie?[/quote]
I see a problem with faulty data, especially since there’s a very strong desire by many gays(again Haggard comes to mind) to be able to go back into the closet and pretend that they’re ‘cured’. And so do many political religious zealots who are involved in producing these “studies” you posted.[/quote]
As I’ve stated on prior occasions by all means take out any and all information from the far right and far left. We are still left with a great amount of evidence which indicates that many who call themselves “homosexuals” can and do change to “heterosexual”.
But as I’ve said before as well, even if one person changes how do you explain it? How many African Americans are able to change their skin color?
See the difference between a true genetic trait and perhaps something that is more nurture than nature?
In 1973 the APA was hijacked by the militant left. Prior to that time period homosexuality (whether it is or isn’t) was declared a mental disorder.
Frankly, I don’t see anything “normal” about it. The question remains, how does it happen? There is no legitimate argument for it being genetic. If you’ve read something recently that does show this please post it. Otherwise, you’re simply wishing it to be genetic and buying into the big lie of “born that way”.
[quote]And who said that you are “choosing”? I think (and it’s only a guess on my part) that you are programmed through your relationships and experiences in early life to later on have homosexual desires.
And guess what?
My theory is as good if not better than the big “born that way” lie.
Did the 1500 species of animals also get programmed in their early relationships? Your ‘theory’ is driven by religious zeal rather than search for truth.[/quote]
I’m sorry, where did I mention anything about “religion”? You better reread my posts.
Secondly, the animals that you are talking about are not homosexual, they are bisexual as they have sex with both genders, sort of like most who call themselves “homosexuals”.
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Of course you would say that they are bogus. You’re a good example of a person who wants to believe that you are born that way, so you do. And if you are truly happy as you are then you have no desire to change and that’s that. But, many are not happy living the homosexual lifestyle and seek an alternative. And for them there is hope.
That hope is called the closet.[/quote]
If it helps you sleep at night you can go on believing the big lie. But, what do you say to the many who have changed and are now happily married?
Facts are facts and after a while, in this debate they sort of get in the way of the big “born that way” lie.
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And in fact before the APA was hijacked by the militant left homosexuality was considered a mental disorder which was treatable. But of course that’s all been washed away with politically correct nonsense.
Before columbus the earth was considered flat. Yeah, the militant left…is it kinda like the “liberal media”? [/quote]
Denying that the liberal media exists is tantamount to claiming that people are “born that way”. You can choose to live your life buying into this crap, as you have, or you can begin to think for yourself. It’s up to you.
But you still have no answer regarding those who have changed.
Hmmm.
[quote]If it is not genetics then could it be that there could have been something, or a few things go wrong in their childhood which lead to their same sex attraction?
I think so, and some other folks who have studied the issue and are not afraid of the militant homosexual response just might have an answer.
wow it must be true…lol. Since all of this has long been refuted in this and other threads I’m not going to bother, you know the data is bunk yourself.[/quote]
None of this has been refuted at any level by anyone, on this forum or anywhere else.
However, if you can post something of significance which does refute each and every study then please do. But, keep in mind you have to account for every study. Because some people do change and most quality statistics demonstrate that the figure is around 30%.
As I stated you can walk around thinking whatever helps you live a happy life, I don’t want you or anyone else to be miserable. But don’t deny the change that has in fact taken place in the lives of the many who have undergone therapy successfully. Denying them their happiness just to continue to bolster the big lie of “born that way” is the epitome of selfishness. And certainly does not demonstrate any sort of love toward your fellow man.
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When they come out with a medicine for pregnant women to give birth to only straight children, will you be against it too, because it’ll go against your wonderful surveys? Nooooo, but how can all those people lie?[/quote]
You are now just spilling out senseless blather to fill the computer screen.
That’s too bad. If you decide that you really want to engage me at a meaningful level please do the following:
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Give proof that homosexuality is genetic. Good luck with this one.
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Refute with any sort of reliable facts that homosexuality is NOT more nurture than nature.
Until then you are just another member of the far left who feels that if they say something loud enough and long enough that it becomes the truth. And that’s just nonsense.