[quote]allNatural wrote:
Try hitting her[/quote]
It always worked in the 1950’s.
[quote]jtg987 wrote:
i realize this thread is directed at mine, some people choose too not medicate themselves with alcohol as it doesn’t work…if you don’t want to read about it don’t read it, simple.
also the thread will be forgotten about in 3-5 days time, once it falls off the front page. sounds like your the one who has grown the vagina and now bitching about it in a whole new thread.
now to answer your question the things that give me salvation are listening to angry music and bar bending iron. [/quote]
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The world does not revolve around you. I was making fun of vagina-laden babies before you posted and unfortunately I’ll be making fun of them after you stop posting.
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Like I give a fuck whether this thread will be forgotten.
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I don’t have a 3, but it makes for a better riposte.
[quote]Otep wrote:
jtg987 wrote:
Some people choose too not medicate themselves with alcohol as it doesn’t work…if
This is like saying you’re a ‘hardgainer’. The truth is, you just need more.[/quote]
Nice.
[quote]jtg987 wrote:
it’s just I’ve done it way too much over the last 2 years for my liking [/quote]
You’ve been drinking since you were 13 ?
[quote]sen say wrote:
now to answer your question the things that give me salvation are listening to angry music and bar bending iron.
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The world does not revolve around you. I was making fun of vagina-laden babies before you posted and unfortunately I’ll be making fun of them after you stop posting.
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Like I give a fuck whether this thread will be forgotten.
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I’m old enough to know how to use the word ‘riposte’ in a sentence without being ghey.[/quote]
Fixed.
too many people have ignored this simple, obvious, but not so easy to do advice: bag up and throw out everything that reminds you of her. right now. everything. do not save that one picture. do not save her coffee cup. whatever it is… it’s now kryptonite and will be there, draining your soul until you trash it. that’s how you begin to “get over it”. otherwise you’re beginning to “get used to it”.
Drinking doesn’t work for me either. It always amplifies whatever mood i’m in so if I feel like shit and drink then I feel even shittier. So I drink only when i’m happy and it makes my night awesome.
In any case, we have this culture where we think it’s fine to constantly talk about our emotions and feelings. It’s not. No, really. It’s therapeutic, especially if you are around supportive friends who will reassure you.
But it will hold you back in the long run because you will start to rely on their reassurance. And people will also start to think of you as whiny and unable to take care of yourself.
I was the same way with a close friend at one time (a long time ago thankfully). I don’t blame her for this or anything - she just thought she was being a good friend - but if I was even a little bit off she would ask me why I was feeling a certain way or what was wrong (I wanted to sleep with her too, which didn’t help).
I ended up getting dependant on her reassurances when I was even the slightest bit unsure of myself. I finally got some distance between myself and her and realized what a bitch i’d been the entire time.
In any case, fuck that. I’m much happier now that I’ve surrounded myself with people who respect me for taking care of my problems on my own and being proactive about my life and what makes me happy.
I don’t complain about my life to any of them and they don’t complain to me, instead we congratulate each other for only real accomplishments and encourage each other to challenge ourselves.
Of course, there are exceptions about talking about emotions is acceptable, like when someone dies or something else major and out of our control.
But whining about things like your own lack of confidence or failures with the opposite sex is stupid, they are things you can change but you just don’t want to because it’s HARD and it’s easier to whine and hope someone will reassure you. It’s especially out of place for this site since hard work is at the core of everything here.
I use to bitch about my problems on the internet a long time ago, but eventually realized it was like spinning your tires in dirt…it got you nowhere. Now I mostly keep that shit to myself.
[quote]sen say wrote:
allNatural wrote:
Try hitting her
It always worked in the 1950’s.[/quote]
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[quote]sen say wrote:
So your girlfriend left you and you really, really, really loved her.
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You will probably feel this way about every woman that either dumps you or you must dump. If you were in the situation where you have to get rid of a girlfriend because she did some unforgiveable thing then get rid of her. You will save a lot of trouble down the road. If you were dumped then keep in mind that you will probably really, really, really love the next girlfriend you establish a relationship. Probably be much better, keep in mind your making progress in gym and probably getting some career things worked out. The next catch will be even better. So, move on.
Tell the guy to go to hell. He was probably really holding you back in some significant way you didn’t notice before. If not, you should go gay. So, move on.
Also, don’t post shit about your girl problems in SAMU unless they have something to do with either sex or my penis.
[quote]LeanCleanGuy wrote:
Also, don’t post shit about your girl problems in SAMU unless they have something to do with sex.[/quote]
I agree with my acronym challenged friend here…it’s SEX and the male animal…not RELATIONSHIPS and the male animal.
And what happened to the signed, ratified doc that was out there regarding not giving any of these sissies advice unless the POST PICS !!!???!!!
I’m fed up…let’s see more tits and ass and less, “I’m soooo sad, I saw and email my so-called girlfriend sent to my so-called best friend on teh interweb email accountz”.
[quote]Otep wrote:
sen say wrote:
now to answer your question the things that give me salvation are listening to angry music and bar bending iron.
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The world does not revolve around you. I was making fun of vagina-laden babies before you posted and unfortunately I’ll be making fun of them after you stop posting.
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Like I give a fuck whether this thread will be forgotten.
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I’m old enough to know how to use the word ‘riposte’ in a sentence without being ghey.
Fixed.[/quote]
I actually had to look that word up.
[quote]ukrainian wrote:
Otep wrote:
sen say wrote:
now to answer your question the things that give me salvation are listening to angry music and bar bending iron.
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The world does not revolve around you. I was making fun of vagina-laden babies before you posted and unfortunately I’ll be making fun of them after you stop posting.
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Like I give a fuck whether this thread will be forgotten.
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I’m old enough to know how to use the word ‘riposte’ in a sentence without being ghey.
Fixed.
I actually had to look that word up.[/quote]
You see? T-Nation not only shows you how to lift iron and eat meat, but it improves your vocabulary.
I learned “smegmaceous” last Friday.
Upon learning what it means, I instantly began using it in every conversation I could reasonably get away with.
It makes every… riposte… just that much better.
[quote]Otep wrote:
ukrainian wrote:
Otep wrote:
sen say wrote:
now to answer your question the things that give me salvation are listening to angry music and bar bending iron.
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The world does not revolve around you. I was making fun of vagina-laden babies before you posted and unfortunately I’ll be making fun of them after you stop posting.
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Like I give a fuck whether this thread will be forgotten.
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I’m old enough to know how to use the word ‘riposte’ in a sentence without being ghey.
Fixed.
I actually had to look that word up.
You see? T-Nation not only shows you how to lift iron and eat meat, but it improves your vocabulary.
I learned “smegmaceous” last Friday.
Upon learning what it means, I instantly began using it in every conversation I could reasonably get away with.
It makes every… riposte… just that much better.[/quote]
See, I looked it up too, and couldn’t find it anywhere.
I did find ‘smegma’ though… What kind of conversations are you having?
I don’t have a problem with my girl, but I just had a bad day. I need a tissue, a martini, a foot rub, no-work sex, some chocolate and a head massage.
and maybe another martini
thank you for letting me wail and whine in your thread sen say
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
I don’t have a problem with my girl, but I just had a bad day. I need a tissue, a martini, a foot rub, no-work sex, some chocolate and a head massage.
and maybe another martini
thank you for letting me wail and whine in your thread sen say[/quote]
I’ll give you the sex and the martinis.
And the foot rub.
But can massage my head. Just stay away from the scalp. If you do it right, I’ll get you some chocolate.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
I don’t have a problem with my girl, but I just had a bad day. I need a tissue, a martini, a foot rub, no-work sex, some chocolate and a head massage.
and maybe another martini
thank you for letting me wail and whine in your thread sen say
I’ll give you the sex and the martinis.
And the foot rub.
But can massage my head. Just stay away from the scalp. If you do it right, I’ll get you some chocolate.[/quote]
deal
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
no-work sex
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Lol. That ought to be in the dictionary.
[quote]eic wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
no-work sex
Lol. That ought to be in the dictionary. [/quote]
it’s in mine