You blamed others for your decorum. Don’t make me quote you.
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I noticed the same thing, and wondered why he’s felt he had to ask when no one has treated him with anything less than civility. The conclusion I came to is that he believes he’ll receive the same treatment you have. However, he doesn’t name call or start swearing when he gets frustrated, at least any longer. You, on the other hand, start sounding frantic and tantrum-y as you feel less and less respected. I suspect that like you he feels angry at a level most posters don’t when discussing these issues, and assumes others are restraining themselves with effort. My sense is that others are not getting heated over this because there is no reason to. They are not getting fucked by society and they know it. Big dogs don’t have to yap.
Your treatment of me has been very poor, and the sense I get is that you think I’m icky and are repulsed by me somehow. Is it my age? I don’t see why that would trouble you in the least, and you don’t seem to feel the same about men my age. I’ve certainly aged well, which you should find hopeful rather than distressing. So it must be something else. Is it that I’m such a hard-driving career woman? Probably not, because I’ve admitted that I was a stay-at-home mom for years, and I’m also very clear that I do female-dominated work, so it doesn’t seem like that would be the problem. Is it that having done both I prefer being able to command my own paycheck? But if we’re having a “discussion” that wouldn’t seem to push you to calling me “hag.” You’ve reacted with visceral disgust to other older women who’ve been posted, also, seeming to find them icky as well.
I sort of go to that you’re afraid of women and maybe a little grossed out by them as a whole. How sad to consider that your concubine will inevitably have to age and will be stuck with your revulsion over her aging (and menstrual cycle and child bearing and other physical manifestations of womanhood) because she will lack the means to escape.
Like Trump, you seem terrified of looking small and foolish and will lie rather than acknowledge errors. Trump’s relationship with Melania seems to be your dream, but I suspect many of the posters in this tread find it sad and pitiable, as she seems only to tolerate him (which is sad for him) and radiates unhappiness herself, despite sitting on chairs made of gold. In my view he is a lesser man, despite his position, because he is boorish and weak of character.
Lastly, your emoticons when you’re nasty to me remind me of middle school girls, who preface the rude things they say with a valley girl-accented “No offense, but…” I chock that up to immaturity and choose to find it charming. With you, because I assume you are not 13 (I assume it - I definitely have no reason to actually believe it) I cut no slack, so your revulsion in my direction is reciprocated.
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That doesn’t make sense, but mkay…
I apologize for erasing my most recent post. I should have kept it up, because what was expressed in it extends no further than what was written in the post. I also wrote how I differ and differed from him.
I have not read all hist posts. I will read the ones you mention.
I don’t mind anyone assuming anything, but your assumption is wrong. I just have too much going for me to hold so much hate or negativity in my life, as I’ve expressed before. I cannot prove it to you though, considering we are only posters on a forum.
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He’s essentially saying that you’re such a cuck you’re a woman. I don’t know if that actually makes sense, but it’s meant to be a cheeky insult. Like most things, @greenboy is terrible at cheeky insults.
Question: What’s you’re default position when talking to someone?
For example, I tend to approach an interaction with someone new from a place of “treat others as you would like to be treated” … initially it’s from a place of reserved respect … i.e. I don’t set out to antagonize, but from a more or less neutral place. Our interaction from there will dictate the future relationship. It could be strictly, rigidly professional or somewhat playful and loose in how I speak to them (even in a professional setting) - they tend to be more on the playful side. You seem to initiate from an abrasive stand point …
Also, 2 wrongs don’t make a right. If she’s abrasive towards you, it doesn’t not follow that you should be abrasive to her. I get we all do that, but when I catch myself abandoning my own values, then I’ve lost my integrity - integrity is very important to me so I clean it up. What say you?
Can you quote an instance where anyone here conveyed they thought women are helpless creatures? I’m genuinely curious because it seems to me you’re the only one here who paint woman as flat, ineffectual creatures who can’t help themselves from becoming broken, bitter hags…
This is not my experience on this particular forum … hence why I engage on this particular forum … your examples as it relates to this forum and these people is laughably myopic. Again, you’re just a dumbass.
What the fuck does you wanting to work less have to do with what any woman may or may not want? You are really fucking dumb.
You are a simpleton.
You HAVE to be retarded. There’s no other explanation for this idiocy.
Again, you’re talking about things that are faaaaar beyond your level of comprehension. This is one of the dumbest things you’ve said to this point. And that’s saying something…So. DUUUUUMB.
So now you’re a fucking neuroscientist? lol. Wow. just so stupid.
Saying you “cringe” at the word is barely an attack there Chomsky … your mastery of the English language is breathtaking
…and now you have a nuanced understanding of Western Civilization … you really should publish a book on your insights. I’m sure it’d be a boon to mankind and break all sorts of records.
You have failed, time and again, to actually make a coherent point yet you continue to think you have. Just amazing the depths of stupidity that reside in you.
Wrong. This is YOUR problem … you have the ability to prove you are NOT lying yet you do not. What other conclusion can one draw other than that you’re full of shit?
You’ve given plenty of evidence to put together a persuasive argument that you are, indeed, demeaning…again this is YOUR problem
If anyone has this belief, it’s because you have led them to believe such through your interactions here…again YOUR problem
including yourself
not for lack of trying. You’ve failed time and again to elucidate what point you’re trying to make…again YOUR problem
nothin’ but love for your dumb ass
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Do you listen to yourself?
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He contradicts himself in the same post … it’s an amazing sight to behold tbh
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Ya, it doesn’t.
So I’m such a “guy who’s partner has sex with other guys in front of him” that I somehow got pregnant from all this not having sex? Do we need to talk about the birds and the bees?
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I forgot about this until I saw the bit of it @polo77j posted.
Do I seem to need protection from words written on a screen? I believe message boards are a good example of a truly level playing field. If we were at a joust or a rumble, it would be different, I would be very happy to have the protection of men who train hard and from what I’ve seen around the forums train in many directions, some of them martial. I do not train in any of the combative arts, so I am at a clear disadvantage should there be a fight. But here? I don’t think I need help and I suspect the people expressing disapproval of your behavior are doing so because it’s so unbecoming, not because they feel I need rescuing. And certainly not because men at frat parties drug women and anyone feels they should pay for these sins.
I don’t know what kind of women you’ve been around, but verbally abusive, shouting women would not find champions here. Not in me, not in anyone else. Some posters would approach them gently, in the life coaching manner you find so offensive, while others would be less generous. But no one would approve, and I don’t feel any responsibility to pay for their sins because I’m female.
I think I offered in my first post to you that you should perhaps upgrade the people you hang out with, as they sound ugly (as do you). The thing that really makes me sad or amused or both is that people here are telling you GOOD news, and you just keep shitting all over it. I can support myself and still care how I look. I can support myself and still love pleasing my husband. The men in here are saying their wives and marriages are very satisfying, some of them with higher-earning women. And in response you curl your lip and become more venomous. Why aren’t you relieved?
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Apparently, you’re a transcuck. Wait, no that’s not right. A hermaphracuck.
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Hahaha, Buzz is SHORT! He’s probably an insufferable little prick in person. I mean, aren’t all short guys?
P.S. Woody…heh heh.
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I’m 5’9” and I take offense to this.
But your brain is hardwired to seek protection from men. It’s Science
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Science be praised!
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See, I think you misinterpret my reactions as anger, when most of the time it’s annoyance or flabbergast at such ridiculous posts. I mean, look what you just said.
Others restrain themselves? name calling? Most of the insults have come from you guys, even when I began to repeatedly ask for it to stop, no one stopped. That is why brick probably asked you guys to be civil, he saw the attacks.
But go on, continue doing the same thing you have been doing in here since the beginning.
The hilarious part is that you guys think I’m crazy, or stupid, or both, when it think most of you are downright moronic.
Anyways, this has nothing to do with you personally. I don’t care about you, personally, I care how you respond to me and make it personal. It’s very hard for me to keep repeating the same things over and over and over and over.
Seems like you hold me to a standard you don’t hold yourself to.
Here you go again trying to paint a picture of someone you simply do not know anything about. You believe these things therefore you will only speak to what you think I am, and not what I am actually saying.
It’s exactly what @Basement_Gainz did. He saw something he didn’t agree with, and he immediately tried to justify it by assuming I was an incel. Pure and simple. And then it was on me to change his mind from that point on. Stupid.
She got what she deserved. That’s what I think. She knew how he was and went for it anyways. Fuck her. I’m nothing like Trump. Maybe you think so because I get hyperbolic? Whatever.
My emoticons is another way to show you I’m not being totally serious if I am saying something insulting, I’m just taking a playful jab, unlike most of you that come at me with pure venom.
It wasn’t meant to be cheeky.
I haven’t seen any of this from you. You’re a hypocrite pretty much.
The way they talk about them. The way they think they need to coddled. It’s all over this place.
So because I don’t see something the way you do I’m a dumbass? ok.
What happened to your integrity? What happened to that long paragraph above? Looks like that fell apart, rather quickly this time huh. A total barrage of insults, one after the other.
See, this is the main issue with you and Emily. You fuckers preach virtues that you don’t follow. You do exactly what I say you do, and in this instance you did it all within 1 post. Bravo. You’re amazing.