[quote]Neospartan wrote:
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Clubs are target-rich environments. Where else do the most attractive women in your city spend hours getting ready, wait in line in the heat or the cold, just to have a few hours of a window to meet you? Status rules. Money talks. And the Alpha men get laid. EVERY TIME.
In my experience it is the most efficient place to meet attractive women. Attractive women are primarily attracted to things such as money, power and status. The club environment weeds out men who lack these qualities (or don’t have a clue as to what these qualities are). If you exhibit the correct “fitness indicators”, you can literally walk up to a woman and say, “Are you coming home tonight?” and have her say YES.
The club scene is a game and a game can be learned. You don’t have to dance. In fact, the highest status guys DON’T dance (unless they want to). Half the time you don’t even have to talk. You just have to flip those switches in her little brain… If you know how to do that, it’s like taking candy from a baby. [/quote]
EXACTLY!
I’ve been clubbing since I was 16, starting at the under 21 clubs in Ocean City MD. (so far my best clubbing experiences come from those days) I’ve all the stupid things, and the right things. And that the above quote was on point!
Body Language and Being Sociable (with everyone) are the #1 tools when clubbing. If you stand in a corner, holding your drink to your chest, trying to look cool, you are setting yourself up to have a boring and shitty night.
A note on really crowed clubs:
-GET THERE EARLIER!
–I currently like to hit the college bars/club by the University of MD, these get packed by 12am. At that time, the place turns to a meat grinder. Once everyone gets there you are basically hoping to get a drunk girl that is available. The best thing to do is to show up earlier, around 10:45pm. At that time there a girls in the dance floor but most guys are too afraid and too sober to approach. This is the best time to approach and be sociable!!! Meaning talk with the girls, dance with girls, and move on. Trust me when other women see you and a group of girls talking, dancing, and laughing with you those women will open up to you. So when you approach another girl she will be EAGER to meet you… And then you choose which one/ones you like and lead them to a quiter area for more talk and comfort building.
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Your theory works in small markets like MD and such. In bigger markets like NYC, Vegas, MIA, and LA its all about who you know. Picture this:
Your walking up to the popular hot spot of the month, you and a couple of your buds. You know the promoter or the bouncers or the big trump card, the owner. No need to wait on line you walk straight to the door. You spot a group of fine chicks waiting to get in and you pull them off line to join you and your buds. Now you almost certainly have a back up plan for the night if you come up empty on the dancefloor. Like Angry said, chicks dig status.
The club game has many layers. Line game, dancefloor game, VIP game. The easiest of all these is VIP game. If you get a women into the VIP section and offer her a drink from the bottle you and your homeboys popped your about 85% there. I’ve gotten much trim from the clubs. Also when your on vacation its almost a given you can get some ass out of the local club.
But even when I was young I felt that way.
