[quote]super saiyan wrote:
Is this the same girl you were dating who has a baby daddy that’s a drug addict?
Or the girl who busted you staring at a go go dancer?
Or the girl that doesn’t talk much?
Or the girl you gave the Plan B pill to?
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Haha I hate when guys look up all my previous posts like they are trying to call me out or something…
This is the girl who doesn’t talk I believe. I ended up dumping the girl with the drug addict ex.
How do i satisfy my curiosity/obsession? Do i keep probing or do i just let it go?
How do i get the information I seek without ruining things?[/quote]
LOL. I thought I remembered you posting a lot of stuff about your GFs before so I looked at your posts.
Aren’t you a cop or am I thinking of someone else? I’d find out who lives there. It would drive me bonkers if I never found out. [/quote]
YESSSSS…it’s driving me mutha F’in BONKERS!..on top of that I’m leaving for Germany for two weeks tomorrow…Seriously i have been sick about it this week…
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I’d say if you have to resort to the GPS for peace of mind, you’re not in a state to be in a happy committed relationship, whether or not she is cheating. Good luck, either way.[/quote]
[quote]adamhum wrote:
If I knock on the door and it’s her friend, she will tell my fiance and I won’t be able to explain it. I could have someone else do it…but who? haha…
I actually called a private detective and they couldn’t help me because it’s a liability. I just need to know who all lives there. [/quote]
Did you try doing a reverse address search to see what name pops up?
[quote]adamhum wrote:
If I knock on the door and it’s her friend, she will tell my fiance and I won’t be able to explain it. I could have someone else do it…but who? haha…
I actually called a private detective and they couldn’t help me because it’s a liability. I just need to know who all lives there. [/quote]
Get a gift or something for your fiancee, knock on the door and if it’s her friend tell her that you wanted to surprise your fiancee with this particular gift while you are in Germany. To make it seem like you never left and that she knows you are thinking of her even when you’re away.
This way her friend won’t tell her so she can keep it a surprise.
Note: make the gift something you can beat the shit outta someone with if it happens to NOT be her friend that answers the door…
[quote]adamhum wrote:
If I knock on the door and it’s her friend, she will tell my fiance and I won’t be able to explain it. I could have someone else do it…but who? haha…
I actually called a private detective and they couldn’t help me because it’s a liability. I just need to know who all lives there. [/quote]
Get a gift or something for your fiancee, knock on the door and if it’s her friend tell her that you wanted to surprise your fiancee with this particular gift while you are in Germany. To make it seem like you never left and that she knows you are thinking of her even when you’re away.
This way her friend won’t tell her so she can keep it a surprise.
Note: make the gift something you can beat the shit outta someone with if it happens to NOT be her friend that answers the door…[/quote]
Sounds like someone has had to come up with one of these type plans before? ha
[quote]adamhum wrote:
If I knock on the door and it’s her friend, she will tell my fiance and I won’t be able to explain it. I could have someone else do it…but who? haha…
I actually called a private detective and they couldn’t help me because it’s a liability. I just need to know who all lives there. [/quote]
Get a gift or something for your fiancee, knock on the door and if it’s her friend tell her that you wanted to surprise your fiancee with this particular gift while you are in Germany. To make it seem like you never left and that she knows you are thinking of her even when you’re away.
This way her friend won’t tell her so she can keep it a surprise.
Note: make the gift something you can beat the shit outta someone with if it happens to NOT be her friend that answers the door…[/quote]
Sounds like someone has had to come up with one of these type plans before? ha[/quote]
hahah ive given similar advice. I’m very happily engaged
Use whitepages, do a reverse address lookup and it will have all the neighbors to that location listed (just incase she is parking down the street). Look at the list and see if you recognize any of the names on the list. If you do subtly ask her if she has seen so and so lately. Be prepared to answer why are you asking though. It should get you all the answers you need.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
If I knock on the door and it’s her friend, she will tell my fiance and I won’t be able to explain it. I could have someone else do it…but who? haha…
I actually called a private detective and they couldn’t help me because it’s a liability. I just need to know who all lives there. [/quote]
If you really want to know who lives there, have a friend or somebody pretend to be one of those people who go door to door and are offering some type of yard/house work. Or have him pretend to be a Jehovah Witness.
I did the address lookup…The weird thing is that the person who lives there is facebook friends with the friend of my fiance, but nobody i’ve heard of.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I did the address lookup…The weird thing is that the person who lives there is facebook friends with the friend of my fiance, but nobody i’ve heard of.[/quote]
Just a hire a PI to find out who lives there, and it would have to be a male or female; no details or any real work for the PI so it should be relatively cheap and stress free.
OR if you prefer ignorance is bless approach like ppl suggest here, well… have fun with that… i’d certainly wrap it up until you know for sure
The record shows a man and a women live there. FML this is a tough case to crack…I have tried to hire a PI…they said it would be a liability and they only work for companies. I need to have someone knock on the door…
