[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[quote]on edge wrote:
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
Were you the girlfriend?
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
No.
They might do it for the ratings, but why would I care?
The butcher, the baker and the candlestick maker all do it to serve their own interests and yet, they serve the public good.
Second, what other arenas do we have?
Oh well, the have the laws, and the courts and white knights in uniform but WE WOULD NEVER STOOP SO LOW AS TO…
I would.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
The jacket analogy is a little flawed since in that case it’s an eye for an eye (or a jacket for a jacket). Cheating is not really the same wrong as vengeance.
But I agree with you…what happened to taking the high road?
Treating other people like shit because you got treated like shit is not a great way to live IMO.
OP, now that you have alerted her that her cheating ways ain’t as secret as she thought, it might be harder to catch her. Tell her you have to stay a week longer than expected to finish your business but come home as planned. She will probably spend every night at that house. You can only hope that when you catch her over there, it’s with a chick and not some dude.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
The jacket analogy is a little flawed since in that case it’s an eye for an eye (or a jacket for a jacket). Cheating is not really the same wrong as vengeance.
But I agree with you…what happened to taking the high road?
Treating other people like shit because you got treated like shit is not a great way to live IMO.
[/quote]
Eating shit all the time because you dont want to dish it out is worse.
The social contract is broken and it was not us.
Live in the new world or in the world that might have been.
Both will force you to swallow some shit, but in my version an end is in sight.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
No.
They might do it for the ratings, but why would I care?
The butcher, the baker and the candlestick maker all do it to serve their own interests and yet, they serve the public good.
Second, what other arenas do we have?
Oh well, the have the laws, and the courts and white knights in uniform but WE WOULD NEVER STOOP SO LOW AS TO…
I would. [/quote]
I don’t even get where you’re going with this. You’re making it this big societal issue trying to balance out inequities or something? There are circumstances where I would agree with AC’s 10 times rule. This is not one of them.
Obviously from the girls reaction, losing the guy was enough punishment for her. If she’s capable of changing her ways, breaking up with her would be sufficient. Doing it the way he did on the air is not going to do anything to make other chicks rethink their ways. So what’s the point, other than perverse enjoyment?
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
The jacket analogy is a little flawed since in that case it’s an eye for an eye (or a jacket for a jacket). Cheating is not really the same wrong as vengeance.
But I agree with you…what happened to taking the high road?
Treating other people like shit because you got treated like shit is not a great way to live IMO.
[/quote]
Eating shit all the time because you dont want to dish it out is worse.
The social contract is broken and it was not us.
Live in the new world or in the world that might have been.
Both will force you to swallow some shit, but in my version an end is in sight. [/quote]
It doesn’t mean you have to eat shit all the time.
In either event, whether you seek vengeance or not, you will still have swallowed the shit of being cheated on. Being vindictive will never change the past or the taste of shit in your mouth.
I would chose to learn from bad choices and just move on.
Well here’s one more thread furthering my loss of faith in the fairer sex.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
No.
They might do it for the ratings, but why would I care?
The butcher, the baker and the candlestick maker all do it to serve their own interests and yet, they serve the public good.
Second, what other arenas do we have?
Oh well, the have the laws, and the courts and white knights in uniform but WE WOULD NEVER STOOP SO LOW AS TO…
I would. [/quote]
I don’t even get where you’re going with this. You’re making it this big societal issue trying to balance out inequities or something? There are circumstances where I would agree with AC’s 10 times rule. This is not one of them.
Obviously from the girls reaction, losing the guy was enough punishment for her. If she’s capable of changing her ways, breaking up with her would be sufficient. Doing it the way he did on the air is not going to do anything to make other chicks rethink their ways. So what’s the point, other than perverse enjoyment?[/quote]
Yeah, she was oh so sad…
To be caught publicly as a lying whore.
That was all she was sad about, dont kid yourself.
[quote]orion wrote:
Eating shit all the time because you dont want to dish it out is worse.
[/quote]
You can stand up for yourself without having to resort to slinging shit. In the long run character begets character.
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
mangina
That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
[/quote]
People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
[/quote]
I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
[/quote]
Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
[/quote]
The problem with that is that the uninvolved child has done nothing to deserve his jacket being stolen, as for the original culprit, he all but deserves a raging stream of hot piss directed straight into his lunchbox.
She cheated on someone she had all intentions of marrying, even after she knew the marriage was coming. That cold bitch was ruthless and vile and she deserved a ruthless and vile retribution in response. While I can see the moral righteousness of taking the high ground, sometimes I find an unfulfillment in being civilized for the sake of being civilized. She’ll be forced to get her shit together, and he can move on to something that won’t see him played out for a fool by no fault of his own. Not quite a necessary evil, but I would hesitate to say a misguided one.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
That was probably all an act but if not, those guys, all three of them are fucking assholes.[/quote]
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That was the most romantic thing ever. [/quote]
People with character don’t take pleasure in hurting someone else or in their humiliation.
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People with character recognize that it is not all about themselves and that it takes a village…
Also, that cheating whore could have been the mother of his children and have taken him for half his net worth.
With great power comes great responsibilty and she did not quite live up to that part.
Plus, you cheat publicly you get outed publicly. [/quote]
Gotta agree with this. I thought they were dicks too at first, until I it was discovered that she cheated. She deserved what she got.
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I didn’t say she didn’t deserve it, she did. The way to handle it as a guy, even if she deserves more, is to simply break up with her and let that be the end of it. People who enjoy destroying someone publicly like that are not much better than her and those two DJ’s are far worse.[/quote]
They serve a public function.
They do a public good.
Women dont like to be judged?
Lets judge them if they are about to ruin a mans life.
Lets ridicule them, ostrazice them, humiliate them.
Because when push comes to shove, the courts will be against you, the law will be against you, public opinion will be against you, your own family might be against you.
Public shaming?
Hell yeah!
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Those guys aren’t doing a public good, they’re being whores for ratings.
Just because men get screwed in many ways by the courts doesn’t mean we should have a free pass to screw women when we get the chance. At a past job I overheard a coworker on the phone with her young son telling him since someone stole his jacket it was ok for him to steal someone elses jacket. Your logic is a more sophisticated form of the same logic.
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The jacket analogy is a little flawed since in that case it’s an eye for an eye (or a jacket for a jacket). Cheating is not really the same wrong as vengeance.
But I agree with you…what happened to taking the high road?
Treating other people like shit because you got treated like shit is not a great way to live IMO.
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Eating shit all the time because you dont want to dish it out is worse.
The social contract is broken and it was not us.
Live in the new world or in the world that might have been.
Both will force you to swallow some shit, but in my version an end is in sight. [/quote]
It doesn’t mean you have to eat shit all the time.
In either event, whether you seek vengeance or not, you will still have swallowed the shit of being cheated on. Being vindictive will never change the past or the taste of shit in your mouth.
I would chose to learn from bad choices and just move on.
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Yeah, but you are thinking anonimity first.
Which is your right of course, but you could also pin a giant red banner to her back, or do you want your brethren to have to swallow the same dung you had to?
I think one is enough, the rest could be warned.
[quote]csulli wrote:
Well here’s one more thread furthering my loss of faith in the fairer sex.[/quote]
Actually all indications are that men cheat more than women. It just happens this site is largely male you are going to get mostly that point of view.