Going to US for a Year, What State?

[quote]Tx5000 wrote:
It’s High school im going to. I turn 18 some months after i get to US. I can only choose school or city if i already have arranged to live with someone, and since i haven’t, i can only choose wich state i want to go to.

Just hope i dont come to a obese family, where they live on donuts, so that i need to buy my own food, lol.

I really want to live in a state where there are beaches, and good climate. Off course there needs to be a gym there to. I asked about Hawaii, but don’t think it was possible to go there.

I gotta learn american football though, that looks way cooler than soccer :)[/quote]

If you consider all the factors such as climate, economy, beaches and things to do then Florida is a good choice. Some of the best beaches are located in the panhandle and most of the tourist activities are in Orlando. Not to mention Key West, Daytona and Miami Beach. Good luck where ever you choose.

Ive read through this thread and I am just wondering if the OP ever made a decision.

This is my last year at college, and I want something new for a change. I go to IU and have never lived outside of Indiana. I have never been west of Chicago, or north of Indiana.

My dad lived in Charlotte for a few years, and I liked it there when I went for a visit.

Other than that, I have no real experience of other states.

Obviously I’ll have to base my decision off of job availability (Management/IT), but I’d like to move to a growing/prospering area, with good weather (I hate the extremes in Indiana, extremely hot/humid, and extremely cold/dry), and good demographics… somewhere where I’ll meet people my age.

After thinking about this for a very long time, you should talk to Pushharder and UtahLama before making any decisions.

DB

[quote]dollarbill44 wrote:
After thinking about this for a very long time, you should talk to Pushharder and UtahLama before making any decisions.

DB[/quote]

No kidding. They seem to have a great time, and I wonder if it’s because of their location.

[quote]gabex wrote:
Ive read through this thread and I am just wondering if the OP ever made a decision.

This is my last year at college, and I want something new for a change. I go to IU and have never lived outside of Indiana. I have never been west of Chicago, or north of Indiana.

My dad lived in Charlotte for a few years, and I liked it there when I went for a visit.

Other than that, I have no real experience of other states.

Obviously I’ll have to base my decision off of job availability (Management/IT), but I’d like to move to a growing/prospering area, with good weather (I hate the extremes in Indiana, extremely hot/humid, and extremely cold/dry), and good demographics… somewhere where I’ll meet people my age.
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Come to NY(C)

[quote]Aragorn wrote:
Uncle Gabby wrote:

Very true. Rural people, the right-wing, politically backwards types are usually a lot warmer and more humane in person, whereas the sophisticated, left-wing, politically enlightened types are usually colder and more standoffish in person.

You know, I find this very irritating. I rather dislike the insinuation that people that aren’t left-wing are dumber or more backwards than those leftist idealists. I’ve met just as many…hell, I’ve met MORE ultra left wing idiots than I have ultra right wing idiots. That’s very irritating condescension.

There are morons in BOTH political extremes. Please try a little harder to at least appear respectful of those that choose to vote and think differently from you. They’re not nearly as bad as you would think from that pedestal you’re on. (btw, this kind of talk is why I stay as far from the politics forum as possible). Also, I hate both extremes. That is all.

However, the problem with small towns is there is absolutely nothing to do, so young people usually just get drink and high all the time. You can get drunk and high at home, and you probably don’t want to spend your year stuck in one place with a narrow group of people.

I wasn’t suggesting he find a small town at all. I think a big city, or at least the suburbs of a big city, is a good place to go. There’s more to do. I was simply saying that there’s no reason to ignore the middle of the whole damn country because there’s some things there he might not agree with or might find irritating. He’ll find that everywhere.

I suppose the implication I was making is that I prefer, all things considered, the hospitality and kindness of midwestern people and I think he should pick his state based on the quality of people there, leaving politics aside.

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Calm down, when I said politically backwards, I was being sarcastic. Next time for clarity’s sake I will put it in quotes.

[quote]Chewie wrote:
Uncle Gabby wrote:
Very true. Rural people, the right-wing, politically backwards types are usually a lot warmer and more humane in person, whereas the sophisticated, left-wing, politically enlightened types are usually colder and more standoffish in person.

This is entirely WRONG! It is the leftists who will be the first to try and force their political agenda down your throat. These are the people who genuinely think it is their duty to change your way of thinking.

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What? I didn’t say anything about political agendas, I was talking only about basic descency and friendliness, and I said that those on the left were lacking.

Also, someone said something about racism in southern states. The biggest racists I’ve ever met were from states with very small minority populations. Racism is a product of ignorance, people in the south live and work in a mixed environment. Racism is dying out here, a few bad incidents aside.

[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
Also, someone said something about racism in southern states. The biggest racists I’ve ever met were from states with very small minority populations. Racism is a product of ignorance, people in the south live and work in a mixed environment. Racism is dying out here, a few bad incidents aside.[/quote]

Well, it’s more like where tolerance took root, genuine acceptance and bonding has followed, and racism is slowly stepping down. Where tolerance has never been given an honest chance, racism is still in the social underlining.

I wouldn’t say racism is dying out, however it is easier to recognize and it is not evnely spread out and “in your face” as it once was. There are places that are making great strides in racial harmony.

[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:

Calm down, when I said politically backwards, I was being sarcastic. Next time for clarity’s sake I will put it in quotes.

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Lol. Much appreciated. Subtle sarcasm doesn’t trancend the 'net very well. My mistake.