Anddddd you’ve just given me a great idea. Thank you.
activate: Chris Hansen persona
I went back to look.
The girl in question was 17, which means she was not molested but rather fully capable of consenting. It may well have been a sexual assault, but that’s for her to decide.
@liftangryordie500, you pushed to be told “what was wrong,” you owe it to the person you bullied into telling her secret to respect her wishes.
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But, if I do set up a bait…I don’t think it would be involving her. I’m dead to her, but hey. Maybe I can keep her safe? Who knows.
If you are soliciting feedback, this is a bad idea.
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I agree. All of these ideas will primarily or solely make YOU feel better. Not her. You did what she asked, and it would probably be best to leave it at that.
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I agree, and I’m like the king of bad ideas.
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Fitting story for the holly jolly season
He’s a 20-year-old who got no further than feeling her up. She’s 18.
I think she’s safe and you should stop the track in your head that has her “molested” and at risk of murder at this guy’s hands. From the sounds of it, she could make a reasonable legal case that this was unwanted physical touch; so either sexual assault or sexual harassment.
But regardless, it’s hers to deal with. You need to let it go and focus on fighting your own battles. One of them is to stop overreacting to things that hit you emotionally or push at your triggers.
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No, she’s still 17. Her birthday is in June. He might be 21, depending. That should matter.
Also, I didn’t need feedback. I knew that was a bad idea, but @SkyzykS I’m the king of bad ideas, and it still wasn’t too bad for me to envision happening. Might pull a Rick Sanchez and make someone disappear (kidding, kidding).
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Haha! That’s cute.
For real though, have a merry what ever you believe in. It’s officially Christmas here so my kiddo is having a ball, watching The Grinch and being the best.
Take care my man. Try to enjoy yourself for a moment.
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I believe in nothing and nobody, but I do appreciate the well wishes. I hope you and your family are having a very merry Christmas.
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I had to get back in the game somehow.
Barbell Deadlifts
Top set - 350 x 6, dead-stop
Felt like somebody punched me in the nose on my last rep from all the strain. Not a terrible starting place, though, considering I’ve already been stripped of all my bathroom dignity this week. BW: 175, gonna get that to 200 and re-evaluate. On the menu? Squats and force-feeding for weight gain. Maybe I’ll die, maybe I won’t. Either way, I don’t care because I made a decision to actively try getting stronger the only way I know how.
My back and hip are also still tender and not working properly, so I guess whenever that heals up I’ll be totally back in business.
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Good.
I said the same thing when my buddies dragged me out for a bike ride a couple of weeks after my heart attack.
Turned out ok, I guess.
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Cash is rolling in ladies and gents, first good decision I’ve made for weed money in a long time
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I’ve made $210 over the last 4 days, and have obtained 5 long-term clients. I’ll probably be making close to $800/week, tax free, between this and my other job.
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I’m going to attempt to TBDL 500 pounds today, seeing as my stomach finally decided to clear itself out (and that almost never happens). Wish me luck.
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Good luck!!!
Update: I totally fucking lost it on my mom after she insisted that I was stealing from her (you know, now that I have some money in my pocket and a job that she can’t control). I got the honor of making her cry. It felt amazing, because fuck that worthless fucking cunt whore piece of chickenshit. She’s dead to me, it’s been that way for a while. Hopefully, she dies in real life soon. I’ll be at that shapeshifting creature’s funeral to spit on its coffin, smear my dog’s shit all over the corpse (because she’d probably enjoy that, seeing as how much she loves the dog instead of her children), and deliver a 20 page speech detailing exactly how inadequate of a mother and person she was. No, I’m not kidding.
Anyway, onto the workout! Hit a nice PR, I’m hanging around 3x BW for trap bar deadlifts (E1RM is 550 as of right now).
TBDL (high handles), BW: 175
145, 235 x 5
325 x 3
375, 415 x 1
465 x 1 - easy, but something was off
505 x 0 - NOPE. I realized I’d completely forgotten to brace with both 465 and 505 after I tried the rep, so I dropped back to 415 and hit a PR.
415 x 12 - easily the hardest PR I’ve ever hit. I blacked out on the last rep, but when I came to I was holding the weight.
415 x 15 is the next goal, then I’ll rep out 505 in a few weeks.
I care about nothing and nobody other than myself, and it’s better this way.
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So…here’s how I’m ending the year.
BW: 175-180
Squat: 275 x 15
Deadlift: 350 x 11
TBDL: 415 x 12
I think those numbers are something for me to be proud of. Still looking to hit a 500 conventional pull before I turn 18, but if I get my Squat to 430-440 and my TBDL to 575, I’ll have a good shot at it.
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Fantastic work on the trap bar pull dude. I’m really digging high reps on it. I think it’s going to keep doing you well.
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