Ask her out, if she says no, try the chick at Burger King.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
This one is pretty easy.
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Easy? It may seem that way afterwards if I succeed but it never seems easy at the time. And IMO a drivethru operation is fraught with difficulties.
Yeah no shit. I already solved that one by not showing up for a week and then getting a good response again when I showed up on Friday. Now I’m not going again till this Friday. Hopefully Saturday I’ll be driving her up the mountains with some pate, crusty bread, wine and picnic blanket.
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Second, the next time you do, you say, “You know, you seem like a really fun / interesting / whatever person to talk to, but we never get a chance here. Let’s have coffee together some time so we can sit and talk.” [/quote]
Not really my style. I’m just going to ask her to have breakfast with me then if yes I’ll suggest the picnic thing over/after breakfast then get to it. If I fail on Friday asking her out I still then have Friday night(late) and Saturday night to try my luck elsewhere.
I actually prefer to go cruising by myself rather than with friends like I used to in my 20’s. Often I’ll just talk to girls who are queued up in line outside the nightclubs waiting to get in. Does this place have a cover charge? How much are drinks here? It’s a trick I learned to get in early and ring off the prime ones. Often you have to deal with aggressive other guys and bitchy / annoying friends of the girl you’re talking to but usually within a few minutes you know if it’s going to work or not. Doesn’t work? Move straight on to another. That’s why i like to go alone too. I don’t want to waste time talking to and hanging around with friends.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
Tricky operations. And I can assure you a drivethru pull is tricky if she’s really an attractive and desirable specimen as she’d normally have nothing to do with strange guys talking to her out of their car windows.[/quote]
You don’t know this, she might be a prostitute in her spare time, and the fact that you continually buy fast-food, which is cheap, she’s not interested in Daddy Nowarbucks.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
No I’m not. If she was in a bar or even on the street I’d go and talk to her but she’s at a busy drivethru. It’s tricky. Have you ever picked up a girl working at a drivethru with your advice? No. I know what I’m doing here.[/quote]
If you know what you’re doing, why are you asking for advice?
Seems like you have an inflated sense of confidence, and when push comes to prick, you deflate real quick.
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
[quote]nephorm wrote:
Or the alligator, yes, I remember. [/quote]
You remember, or you recall?
Be precise, Meno my boy.[/quote]
I thought we were friends. When have I ever called you names?
Recollecting always implies remembering.
Ask her. Shes either avaliable or shes not. Shes either open to dating you or shes not. Finding out whether or not shes interested is as simple as finding out whether or not shes interested in dating someone.
If shes not you’re in the clear, she wasn’t going to date anyone if you were doing it right. A lot of girls who aren’t interested aren’t interested because of factors going on in THEIR life or THEIR psyche at the time of your asking, completely irrespective of anything you did , didn’t or could have done.
There is only one way to find out, and its to get in there and see.
Worry less about what you’re saying and more about what she wants. IF you can fulfill the wants she has while maintaining an alignment to your own principles and desires then excellent, move forward and allow her to discover for herself that you may be a person that fills a vacancy in her life.
If not then there was nothing you could have done anyway, and now you are better for knowing that.
I guess I don’t see the issue. If you ask and she rejects you then at least you’ve planted the idea the you’re interested and it sounds as if the two of you interact often enough. Hell, even if she rejects you this time doesn’t mean you can’t ask her again at another time. What’s the worst case scenario, she knows you’re attracted to her?
Are you certain she’s of a legal age?
[quote]Defekt wrote:
IF you can fulfill the wants she has while maintaining an alignment to your own principles and desires then excellent, move forward and allow her to discover for herself that you may be a person that fills a vacancy in her life.
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In other words, PIIHP?
Have you tried… hitting her?
[quote]BeefEater wrote:
I guess I don’t see the issue.
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There is no issue. Why does there always have to be an issue? I’m just talking here.
Too time consuming. I don’t hang around there. I just drive in for my coffee and out again.
Not really. Maybe half a dozen times in the last three weeks. I haven’t said much to her. Just a bit of flirting.
Doubt it.
She already knows.
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Are you certain she’s of a legal age?[/quote]
I’d say she’s maybe 24. At a guess. According to the formula that’s fine. The formula is half your age plus 7.
[quote]Defekt wrote:
Ask her. Shes either avaliable or shes not. Shes either open to dating you or shes not. Finding out whether or not shes interested is as simple as finding out whether or not shes interested in dating someone.
If shes not you’re in the clear, she wasn’t going to date anyone if you were doing it right. A lot of girls who aren’t interested aren’t interested because of factors going on in THEIR life or THEIR psyche at the time of your asking, completely irrespective of anything you did , didn’t or could have done.
There is only one way to find out, and its to get in there and see.
Worry less about what you’re saying and more about what she wants. IF you can fulfill the wants she has while maintaining an alignment to your own principles and desires then excellent, move forward and allow her to discover for herself that you may be a person that fills a vacancy in her life.
If not then there was nothing you could have done anyway, and now you are better for knowing that. [/quote]
Actually I was just planning on banging her this weekend. I don’t know her at all so it’s really no big deal what happens. However she’s a very attractive lady so I would very much like to be successful here.
[quote]MattyG35 wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
Tricky operations. And I can assure you a drivethru pull is tricky if she’s really an attractive and desirable specimen as she’d normally have nothing to do with strange guys talking to her out of their car windows.[/quote]
You don’t know this, she might be a prostitute in her spare time, and the fact that you continually buy fast-food, which is cheap, she’s not interested in Daddy Nowarbucks.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
No I’m not. If she was in a bar or even on the street I’d go and talk to her but she’s at a busy drivethru. It’s tricky. Have you ever picked up a girl working at a drivethru with your advice? No. I know what I’m doing here.[/quote]
If you know what you’re doing, why are you asking for advice?
Seems like you have an inflated sense of confidence, and when push comes to prick, you deflate real quick.[/quote]
Way off as usual about everything here Matty. I’ve told you before son, read what I say. I drink coffee; no sugar. I eat super clean. And I’m confident talking to women. That doesn’t mean I’m confident that I will be successful as I am often not.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]MattyG35 wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
Tricky operations. And I can assure you a drivethru pull is tricky if she’s really an attractive and desirable specimen as she’d normally have nothing to do with strange guys talking to her out of their car windows.[/quote]
You don’t know this, she might be a prostitute in her spare time, and the fact that you continually buy fast-food, which is cheap, she’s not interested in Daddy Nowarbucks.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
No I’m not. If she was in a bar or even on the street I’d go and talk to her but she’s at a busy drivethru. It’s tricky. Have you ever picked up a girl working at a drivethru with your advice? No. I know what I’m doing here.[/quote]
If you know what you’re doing, why are you asking for advice?
Seems like you have an inflated sense of confidence, and when push comes to prick, you deflate real quick.[/quote]
Way off as usual about everything here Matty. I’ve told you before son, read what I say. I drink coffee; no sugar. I eat super clean. And I’m confident talking to women. That doesn’t mean I’m confident that I will be successful as I am often not.
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What does drinking coffee without sugar have to do with anything?
Does she know how clean you eat? Does she care?
You’re full of shit SM, you don’t even have the balls to approach here cause you’re so concerned the answer is going to be “No.” that you’ve come on here to “plan your strategy”, even though you don’t need the advice because you’re so confident.
That ain’t confidence boy.
Do you always Google what a girl’s gaze means and check she fits into a formula before you try to pull?
A beast awakens inside this drivethruhero.
[quote]MvaazerSmiit wrote:
AnDo you always Google what a girl’s gaze means and check she fits into a formula before you try to pull?[/quote]Qui
You don’t need to google it. Haven’t you had girls(or guys) try that on you? It’s really impossible to mistake. The more subtle forms can be mistaken but not the locked eye contact. If you’re a bber and don’t look like the hunchback of Notredame or something then you would presumably get such looks from women just about every time you walk down a busy street. Give it a try. And watch how many women flick their hair while looking at you out of the corner of their eye. Watch how many make eye contact then quickly look away embarrassed. They’re the shy ones. I don’t like shy girls. Too awkward and uncool. And there’s generally a reason why they’re shy. The prime girls are never shy because they have alpha males talking to them and trying to have sex with them all the time. It boosts their ego. Keep that in mind. Show a lack of interest after initial success and she will be deflated and pursue you. Forget to call her back. That sort of thing. Women are actually easy to understand and read. They’re just hard to live with. And impossible to live without.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
This one is pretty easy.
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Easy? It may seem that way afterwards if I succeed but it never seems easy at the time. And IMO a drivethru operation is fraught with difficulties.
Yeah no shit. I already solved that one by not showing up for a week and then getting a good response again when I showed up on Friday. Now I’m not going again till this Friday. Hopefully Saturday I’ll be driving her up the mountains with some pate, crusty bread, wine and picnic blanket.
[quote]
Second, the next time you do, you say, “You know, you seem like a really fun / interesting / whatever person to talk to, but we never get a chance here. Let’s have coffee together some time so we can sit and talk.” [/quote]
Not really my style. I’m just going to ask her to have breakfast with me then if yes I’ll suggest the picnic thing over/after breakfast then get to it. If I fail on Friday asking her out I still then have Friday night(late) and Saturday night to try my luck elsewhere.
I actually prefer to go cruising by myself rather than with friends like I used to in my 20’s. Often I’ll just talk to girls who are queued up in line outside the nightclubs waiting to get in. Does this place have a cover charge? How much are drinks here? It’s a trick I learned to get in early and ring off the prime ones. Often you have to deal with aggressive other guys and bitchy / annoying friends of the girl you’re talking to but usually within a few minutes you know if it’s going to work or not. Doesn’t work? Move straight on to another. That’s why i like to go alone too. I don’t want to waste time talking to and hanging around with friends.[/quote]
You aren’t in your 20’s? How old is she?
Weren’t you the guy that made a thread about celibacy, saying he didn’t like girls below 24 years old and now is asking as a 30 something on an internet forum how he can date some young women working at mcdonalds, all of this while having the username Sexmachine. Give this forum a break.
I’m early 30’s but look late 30’s. She looks maybe 24 at a guess. I was thinking more about her curves and the smell of her pheromones and that sort of stuff though. Maybe she is a bit younger; maybe a bit older. Don’t know or care really as she’s certainly of age.
[quote]MattyG35 wrote:
What does drinking coffee without sugar have to do with anything?
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Why do you always do this shit? You mentioned me eating fast food and I said, no I don’t eat fast food I only drink their coffee. That’s what it had to do with it. Ok?
She doesn’t know me and I don’t know her. I asked her where she was from, made some corny jokes and flirted with her a few times.
???
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You’re full of shit SM, you don’t even have the balls to approach here cause you’re so concerned the answer is going to be “No.” that you’ve come on here to “plan your strategy”, even though you don’t need the advice because you’re so confident.
That ain’t confidence boy.[/quote]
Ha ha! Okay. If you say so. Why would I care what she says when I don’t know Her? Anyway, I get rejected by women all the time. Seriously. I’m used to it. I pester women all the time until one of them will have sex with me. i pester them in shops, on the street, in bars, clubs, outside clubs, at the beach, anywhere, everywhere! I get those looks of disgust and get away from me creep looks every day dude.