Gender Norms, Postmodernism and How We Identify and MeToo

Eye, I am trying to get at something specific here. Let me try again.

Would it only be a “possibility” that you date women at all (not thinking about particular individual women)? As in, you might be celibate? I assume you wouldn’t date men with penises if you won’t date…umm, women with penises.

Basically is “Oh I would date women. And, maybe, possibly, women who have had their penises removed?”

I mean, you have already made a revealing statement.

I will not date women with penises. I might date them if they undergo a rather invasive surgery on what is probably a perfectly healthy reproductive organ. That alone demonstrates that in practice, you see a massive and important distinction. It would take surgery…

By definition, if there were no women around to whom I was attracted, then I would not date women at all. (Would that make me an incel of sorts?)

What it demonstrates is that I have no desire to bump uglies with someone who has a penis.

What about 'women who have had their penis split open, rearranged and turned inside of them?" Same possibility as the ‘women who have never had a penis and testicles?’

No, you can’t falsify his feelings.

Didn’t say I could. Neither can you. You can’t falsify “I felt God move through me.” Yet you won’t except the existence of God as reality in debates here.I don’t accept that a man is really a woman because he says he feels like one.

Obviously there are differences. The question you don’t answer is why you feel you need to intentionally hurt people’s feelings. If an atheist can say thank you when someone says god bless you, without feeling like he cause himself some major distress, why can’t you use a pronoun that someone wishes you to? Why do transgender people have to be less sensitive than Christians?

So, I’m right. But I should tell a white lie out of politeness? I actually respect that argument. Outside of the lie part.

I won’t accept god’s existence as reality when it comes to anything other than my personal beliefs, that is if I believe, since it would take a narcissist to believe that his irrational beliefs should hold others hostage.

That’s not my point, Z. I’m not actually doing a God debate. I am talking about feelings.

You aren’t telling a lie. The person feels like a different sex from their birth sex. They prefer to be called by that pronoun. How is it a lie if you use it?

Because I know they aren’t what they ask.

And transexuals have feelings and a christian wouldn’t hold them in less consideration than his own.

Why do you think I politely reject the offer?

You don’t know how they feel. I would assume a transsexual is aware of his DNA. He just doesn’t feel like his DNA and his feelings coincide.

Because you are too young to have to care about how others feel.

Again. You say it yourself. This is about feelings, not reality.

And you are a fine individual.

Diagnosed with ADHD.

Damn right. I willingly suffer everyone’s illusions.