Gay Marriage: Traditional Marriage Predates State and Church

I’m just going to point out, prehistory predates history. So Brochris, you really have no idea what predates what. You do attempt to convince everyone else that your personal faith validates your opinion. You also display an astounding lack of historical insight when discussing the Pope, especially when you should be familiar with the ascension of the primacy of the pope in Latin Christendom.

To believe, as you seem to, that there is a primarily Jewish influence in Christianity completely ignores the traditional alliances the patriarchs regularly made with Barbarian strongmen who principally came from gaul, the balkans, or Spain. Christian they may have been by name, like Constantine, but do not be misled the papacy existed because it was the last political remnant of Rome.

[quote]thunderbolt23 wrote:
Dustin wrote:

C’mon, that was hilarious. You take this forum far too seriously.[/quote]

Off course not.

I wouldn’t tolerate it and I haven’t. I have gotten into “discussions” with assholes like Troll28 (Mick28) in the past for being outright bigots.

I don’t see the connection you are trying to make. Capped responded quite appropriately to one of the dumbest comments I have ever seen made in this forum. He also posted his comment in a way that made it obvious he was joking. That’s a far cry from some of the insults hurled at Forlife.

So yeah, what he said was crass, but the comment he was responding to was overtly retarded.

Whatever, I have seen far worse said here by “respected” forum members without any gripes.

[quote]mertdawg wrote:<<< the very molecules of nature are fallen >>>[/quote]Please elucidate a bit further

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:

And, it does. It’s the only Church who hasn’t been in heresy and has never changed it’s traditions. Epso facto, authority on faith and morals.[/quote]

Yeah well, the church defined what was heresy and ipso facto it was and is indeed unable to be heretic.

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Historically, it is usually the laity who point out and condemn the heretics, not the Church Magisterium.

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:

And, it does. It’s the only Church who hasn’t been in heresy and has never changed it’s traditions. Epso facto, authority on faith and morals.[/quote]I’m gonna go ahead and let this slide for now.
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I’m sure there is good reason why you had to tell me that you were letting it slide.

[quote]Makavali wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Tiribulus wrote:

And, it does. It’s the only Church who hasn’t been in heresy and has never changed it’s traditions. Epso facto, authority on faith and morals.[/quote]

You mean ipso facto.

And the Catholic Church is subject to a lot of revision and has changed substantially.[/quote]

Revision of its teaching? No, never. You can look through out Ecumenical councils, doctrine, &c. Nothing has changed, have things been explained in more detail? Yes, has Sacred Tradition and Scripture changed? No.

[quote]goldengloves wrote:
First you’d have to substantiate the claim that the Catholic church has truths and that a man named Jesus existed as claimed in the bible rather than simply being a man from Nazareth named Yeshua.[/quote]

The Church did come up with the Scientific Methods, so I guess we get to say what is science, too. :wink:

And, the name Jesus is easily proven to be Yeshua. To claim that it is not is mere skepticism. And, to deny that Jesus existed is as well mere skepticism.

[quote]forlife wrote:

  1. It’s funny (and heartening) to hear a Catholic claim that men aren’t wretches, given your historical beliefs about original sin and fallen man. Having seen much of the original Catholic art in Italy and France, it’s blatantly obvious that the original Catholic church saw men as fallen, disgusting, depraved creatures.[/quote]

That was for the sake of visual explanation (or so says the Art History teacher). There are some people who believed that men were disgusting, but these men are to be ignored. Man is beautiful, he is in the image of G-d, he is not a wretch, he is not deformed. He is fallen from Grace. Not fallen off a ten story building.

I guess you could say that, but the connotation and denotation of the word ‘wretch’ is purely Lutheranism. Rejected by the Catholic Church since before and during the time Luther came up with the idea. The difference between Catholic’s understanding of the fallen nature and Luther’s is that Catholics see that man’s concupiscence draws him toward ‘good’ things, but does them in excess, which is bad. Like drinking wine is good, being a drunk is bad. Sex is great, sex outside marriage is bad. Eating is good, being a glutton is bad. Sleeping is wonderful (G-d did give us a day for this), being a sloth is bad. See what I am saying? So, Amazing Grace has a great sound to it, but it does not have place in a Mass or Divine Liturgy and is doctrinally incorrect.

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3. The song doesn’t claim that Grace magically appears when we do something. It conveys that Grace is freely offered to all who choose to submit to the will of God and accept the gift.[/quote]

How precious did that Grace appear the hour I first believed.

These two lines right here are saying that grace appeared when I believed. That is not how grace works, grace comes first then you can believe (or not believe, because we have free will).

Nevermind.

[quote]forlife wrote:<<< because every church defines heresy as "that which conflicts with our particular authority, doctrines, and beliefs.[/quote]This depends on what you mean by church. I can name a couple dozen denominations off the top of my head I disagree with on some things. In some cases quite significant things, but I embrace them as brethren. Again we have a unified prayer march this Saturday morning from Comerica park to the spirit of Detroit with 500 churches and tens of thousands of Christians. A year in the planning. Might even make national news.
Heresy is an erroneous doctrinal belief of such severity that the holder/s are shown to be excluded from the family of the faithful thereby. You might be shocked to learn how much actual agreement there is on that score among protestant communions. I have had some rather bombastic debates with men I have wound up embracing and praying with (and for =] ) afterward.

[quote]Dustin wrote:

I don’t see the connection you are trying to make. Capped responded quite appropriately to one of the dumbest comments I have ever seen made in this forum.[/quote]

No, he didn’t - he said something hateful. He even said it was hateful. Which, I don’t care, but it won’t pass without a response, and there was nothing “appropriate” about it. C’mon - stop being so transparent.

Nonsense. Disagree with what he said? Mash some words together in a coherent sentence and tell him why he is wrong. Capped said something far worse than what that guy said if we are grading on the scale of “overt retardness”, but yet, you sit silent in that regard.

Good, then sack up and take it up with those non-gripers who should have spoken up. That’s not me, so stop wasting your time whining about what wasn’t said with me.

[quote]forlife wrote:

[quote]mertdawg wrote:

[quote]forlife wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]forlife wrote:
“Amazing Grace” is core to what Christianity is all about. Just because it wasn’t written by a Catholic doesn’t make it any less biblical.[/quote]

Actually, it’s not. Two things, men are not wretches. And Grace does not appear when we do something. Grace is the free gift of G-d given to us on His free will when he wants and not when we do something.

Michael explains it better.[/quote]

  1. It’s funny (and heartening) to hear a Catholic claim that men aren’t wretches, given your historical beliefs about original sin and fallen man. Having seen much of the original Catholic art in Italy and France, it’s blatantly obvious that the original Catholic church saw men as fallen, disgusting, depraved creatures.

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There is a commonly held theory, perhaps even majority, among historians, including many who are Roman Catholic that the theology of the Immaculate Conception (of Mary by her parents, as opposed to just a “miraculous” conception which is clearly biblical and traditional), became the theology of the Pope because he had preached that all sex was a “necessary evil” for human procreation because of the fallen nature, and that Original Sin was passed down from generation to generation by the act of sex. She was still the genetic daughter of her parents but not via intercourse according the the interpretation of the Theology as it has been presented to me.

I believe that this is one of only 2 statements made “infallably” by the Pope?

Since Orthodox don’t believe that Original Sin is passed down generationally in humans, but rather by the belief that the very molecules of nature are fallen, the “need” for the theology of the Immaculate Conception does not make sense to us-Mary’s nature would have been no more or less “fallen” had she been conceived by sexual intercourse.

Discuss… [/quote]

I’ll let my Catholic friends comment, but my understanding is similar to yours. The Fall occurred when Adam and Eve were cast out of the Garden, and were no longer able to dwell in the presence of God.
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On Augustine:

Original sinMain article: Original sin
Augustine taught that Original sin of Adam and Eve was either an act of foolishness (insipientia) followed by pride and disobedience to God or the opposite: pride came first.[71] The first couple disobeyed God, who had told them not to eat of the Tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Gen 2:17).[72] The tree was a symbol of the order of creation.[73] Self-centeredness made Adam and Eve eat of it, thus failing to acknowledge and respect the world as it was created by God, with its hierarchy of beings and values.[74] They would not have fallen into pride and lack of wisdom, if Satan hadn’t sown into their senses “the root of evil” (radix Mali).[75] Their nature was wounded by concupiscence or libido, which affected human intelligence and will, as well as affections and desires, including sexual desire.[76] In terms of Metaphysics, concupiscence is not a being but bad quality, the privation of good or a wound.[77]

Augustine’s understanding of the consequences of the original sin and of necessity of the redeeming grace was developed in the struggle against Pelagius and his pelagian disciples, Caelestius and Julian of Eclanum,[56] who had been inspired by Rufinus of Syria, a disciple of Theodore of Mopsuestia.[78] They refused to agree that libido wounded human will and mind, insisting that the human nature was given the power to act, to speak, and to think when God created it. Human nature cannot lose its moral capacity for doing good, but a person is free to act or not to act in a righteous way. Pelagius gave an example of eyes: they have capacity for seeing, but a person can make either good or bad use of it.[79] Like Jovinian, pelagians insisted that human affections and desires were not touched by the fall either. Immorality, e.g. fornication, is exclusively a matter of will, i.e. a person does not use natural desires in a proper way. In opposition to that, Augustine pointed out to the apparent disobedience of the flesh to the spirit, and explained it as one of the results of original sin, punishment of Adam and Eve’s disobedience to God:

For it was not fit that His creature should blush at the work of his Creator; but by a just punishment the disobedience of the members was the retribution to the disobedience of the first man, for which disobedience they blushed when they covered with fig-leaves those shameful parts which previously were not shameful.
(…) As, therefore, they were so suddenly ashamed of their nakedness, which they were daily in the habit of looking upon and were not confused, that they could now no longer bear those members naked, but immediately took care to cover them; did not theyâ??he in the open, she in the hidden impulseâ??perceive those members to be disobedient to the choice of their will, which certainly they ought to have ruled like the rest by their voluntary command? And this they deservedly suffered, because they themselves also were not obedient to their Lord. Therefore they blushed that they in such wise had not manifested service to their Creator, that they should deserve to lose dominion over those members by which children were to be procreated.

â?? Against Two Letters of the Pelagians 1.31-32

Augustine had served as a “Hearer” for the Manicheans for about nine years,[80] who taught that the original sin was carnal knowledge.[81] This allowed Augustine, after his conversion, to find narrow path between the Manichean and Pelagian positions.

The view that not only human soul but also senses were influenced by the fall of Adam and Eve was prevalent in Augustine’s time among the Fathers of the Church.[82] It is clear that the reason of Augustine’s distance towards the affairs of the flesh was different than that of Plotinus, a neo-Platonist[83] who taught that only through disdain for fleshly desire could one reach the ultimate state of mankind.[84] Augustine taught the redemption, i.e. transformation and purification, of the body in the resurrection.[85]

Some authors perceive Augustine’s doctrine as directed against human sexuality and attribute his insistence on continence and devotion to God as coming from Augustine’s need to reject his own highly sensual nature as described in the Confessions. But in view of his writings it is apparently a misunderstanding.[86] Augustine teaches that human sexuality has been wounded, together with the whole of human nature, and requires redemption of Christ. That healing is a process realised in conjugal acts. The virtue of continence is achieved thanks to the grace of the sacrament of Christian marriage, which becomes therefore a remedium concupiscentiae - remedy of concupiscence.[87] The redemption of human sexuality will be, however, fully accomplished only in the resurrection of the body.[88]

The sin of Adam is inherited by all human beings. Already in his pre-Pelagian writings, Augustine taught that Original Sin was transmitted by concupiscence,[citation needed] which he regarded as the passion of both, soul and body,[89] making humanity a massa damnata (mass of perdition, condemned crowd) and much enfeebling, though not destroying, the freedom of the will.

Augustine’s formulation of the doctrine of original sin was confirmed at numerous councils, i.e. Carthage (418), Ephesus (431), Orange (529), Trent (1546) and by popes, i.e. Pope Innocent I (401-417) and Pope Zosimus (417-418). Anselm of Canterbury established in his Cur Deus Homo the definition that was followed by the great Schoolmen, namely that Original Sin is the “privation of the righteousness which every man ought to possess”, thus interpreting concupiscence as something more than mere sexual lust, with which some Augustine’s disciples had defined it[90] as later did Luther and Calvin, a doctrine condemned in 1567 by Pope Pius V.[46]

Lutherans and Calvinists disaccordingly claim that, according to Augustine, human beings are utterly depraved in nature. According to them, humans are spoiled by the original sin to the extent that the very presence of concupiscence, fomes peccati (incendiary of sin), is already a personal sin.[91] Augustine’s doctrine about the liberum arbitrium or free will and its inability to respond to the will of God without divine grace is interpreted (mistakenely according to Roman Catholics) in terms of Predestination: grace is irresistible, results in conversion, and leads to perseverance. The Calvinist view of Augustine’s teachings rests on the assertion that God has foreordained, from eternity, those who will be saved. The number of the elect is fixed.[56] God has chosen the elect certainly and gratuitously, without any previous merit (ante merita) on their part.

The Catholic Church considers Augustine’s teaching to be consistent with free will.[92] He often said that any can be saved if they wish.[92] While God knows who will be saved and who will not, with no possibility that one destined to be lost will be saved, this knowledge represents God’s perfect knowledge of how humans will freely choose their destinies.[92]

[quote]thunderbolt23 wrote:

Good, then sack up and take it up with those non-gripers who should have spoken up. That’s not me, so stop wasting your time whining about what wasn’t said with me.[/quote]

Way to miss the point, TB. He wasn’t “whining about what wasn’t said”, he was pointing out the inconsistency you show in ignoring all those posts which were worse but get a rock hard erection at the chance to play forum sheriff with me. Because sniff I said somethin that was too mean!

Next time I’ll just tell the guy to choke on a bullfrog.

Oh, and before you make another post bitching about the “good ol days” of PWI, let me explain some options: get over it or leave.

Thunderbolt - if you had taken your own advice and simply told me the comment had gone too far, I probably would have admitted that including his loved ones was a bit much and “die in a fire” was not to be taken literally but a flowery way to say “fuck you”. I might have explained that, yeah, I reacted emotionally.

Instead, you spent several posts insulting me, calling me names, and making false claims about me. There are actually a lot of posters I’ve had disagreements with and never once insulted them or acted out of line (orion, abpt, thebodyguard). Yet you feel it necessary to tell me that I only want to insult anyone who disagrees with me.

My respect for you was entirely misplaced. I’m disappointed, mostly with myself - I confused educated with decent. I promise not to make that mistake again.

[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:

Way to miss the point, TB. He wasn’t “whining about what wasn’t said”, he was pointing out the inconsistency you show in ignoring all those posts which were worse but get a rock hard erection at the chance to play forum sheriff with me. Because sniff I said somethin that was too mean![/quote]

But I don’t have the alleged inconsistency - that I don’t ponder every post to act as censor isn’t relevant. When I see something that crosses a line, I speak up - and I expect everyone else here, too. What you said was idiotic and hateful - don’t like being told so? How is that my problem?

Nah, the idea of me taking advice from you is hilarious, but in any event - the “good ole days” of PWI don’t have to be “ole” if enough smart, educated people would come here and discuss the issues like they used to. They don’t, for the most part, and there’s a reason.

Now, I understand you have no use for the “good ole days”, largely because you have so little of interest to contribute or say. That’s fine. But that’s no reason not to try and get some good debates going - we have an election in a year’s time, and there are lots of juicy issues to talk about. You clearly aren’t up to the task of discussing any of them intelligently - can you recommend someone who is? Thanks in advance.

[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:

Thunderbolt - if you had taken your own advice and simply told me the comment had gone too far, I probably would have admitted that including his loved ones was a bit much and “die in a fire” was not to be taken literally but a flowery way to say “fuck you”. I might have explained that, yeah, I reacted emotionally.[/quote]

Poor baby. And this makes little sense since you “doubled down” on the comment.

I haven’t said a false thing about you. Your primary purpose here seems to be throwing a tantrum and perceived opponents and engaging in poor ad hominems. Not my problem to fix.

Let’s unpack your statement - here we have you, who tells someone that he disagrees with to go die in a fire with his family (and doubles down on the comment), complaining that I have acted without “decency”.

Hilarious, Capped. Just hilarious.

Why not just say “man, what I said crossed a line. And I shouldn’t have done it, because not only is it bad on its face, but it invites other posters to engage in similar hateful comments, and that’s no good for anyone.”…?

Instead, sniveling.

[quote]thunderbolt23 wrote:
Your primary purpose here seems to be throwing a tantrum and perceived opponents and engaging in poor ad hominems. [/quote]

Except the majority of my posts contain neither, making you an idiot or a liar. And you know lotsa big words, so liar it is.

[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:

Except the majority of my posts contain neither, making you an idiot or a liar. And you know lotsa big words, so liar it is.[/quote]

No, you’ve engaged in quite a few ad hominems in your day - i.e., my reply to your question about anything you have said that was “illogical”, your oft-repeated idiocy that anyone opposed to gay marriage must be a homophobe or a bigot. That is definitionally an ad hominem.

Because I am in the mood to help:

http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html

[quote]thunderbolt23 wrote:

[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:

Except the majority of my posts contain neither, making you an idiot or a liar. And you know lotsa big words, so liar it is.[/quote]

No, you’ve engaged in quite a few ad hominems in your day - i.e., my reply to your question about anything you have said that was “illogical”, your oft-repeated idiocy that anyone opposed to gay marriage must be a homophobe or a bigot. That is definitionally an ad hominem.

Because I am in the mood to help:

http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html[/quote]

I’ll ask again, since actually reading my posts isn’t your strong suit: how many posters here have opposed gay marriage and not shortly after revealed a personal bias against homosexuals?

You. BostonBarrister. Thats about it.

In every other case it seems to very quickly become clear that, for whatever reason, the poster is “against homosexuality” and they (oh my) just happen to support legislation which just happens to favor heterosexuals over homosexuals.

Of course, that doesn’t matter much to you. Whether or not they oppose gay marriage because they see it as simply falling outside the scope of the intent of marriage laws or they don’t want them gays thinkin’ their sinnin is ok… as long as they side with you, they are intelligent, thoughtful contributors. Small wonder that you continually attack me, Mak, Forlife, and other left leaning posters as stupid, yet rocket scientists like Mick28 and Zeb pass without remark.

[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:

I’ll ask again, since actually reading my posts isn’t your strong suit: how many posters here have opposed gay marriage and not shortly after revealed a personal bias against homosexuals?

You. BostonBarrister. Thats about it.

In every other case it seems to very quickly become clear that, for whatever reason, the poster is “against homosexuality” and they (oh my) just happen to support legislation which just happens to favor heterosexuals over homosexuals. [/quote]

Setting aside the accuracy of your statement, it’s still wrong on its face - a “personal bias” (some moral disapproval of homosexuality, etc.) is not, is not, is not ipso facto homophobia or bigotry.

That’s not to say there aren’t bigots and homophobes against gay marriage - it’s just your basic presumption that that has to be the driving force behind the argument is wrong and it is an ad hominem.

Mick28 was an idiot, and no, I didn’t in fact let his comments that were hateful “pass without remark.” Zeb is not an idiot. Zeb is thoughtful, argues in good faith, and has strong opinions, and he and I have disagreed before and I never got a sense that he was “bigoted” towards my opinions. I haven’t read every post of his, but I don’t think he is a bigot or a homophobe.

What you seem to be mad about is that I don’t agree with you and I have the audacity of telling you so. So what? You take the intellectually lazy way out - “someone disagrees with me, they must be a bigot!”. It’s dull and stupid.

As for you, Mak, and Forlife - when you make dumb statements, bad arguments, and argue in bad faith, I’ll tell you so. Don’t like it? Go sit at the kids’ table.