Whenever I see him for some reason the term “Douche-Nozzle” comes to mind. I know it’s not PC but feels apt.
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From the article.
“Tate’s handling of women had a dark side, which was exposed during his eviction from British Big Brother in 2016 after a video surfaced of him hitting a woman with belt. His brother Tristan Tate and his Romania-based company, which used webcam models to dupe men into transferring the Tate brothers tens of thousands of pounds, were covered in this March’s issue of Britain’s Daily Mirror newspaper. In one of his YouTube videos, Andrew Tate claimed that 40% of the reason he relocated to Romania was because the police there were less likely to investigate claims of sexual assault.”
It kinda frustrates me knowing about this guy.
Feels like some other information is being pushed aside for it, like the critical tempratures for the formation of interstia in different types of metals.
Boop! There goes austentite!
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Agree with most of everything you said. The issue is compounded by lots of things, similar cult-like figures on the women’s side are just as bad as Tate if not worse. “Modern” men and women are extremely bitter against each other.
The dating and therefore social landscape is in a real crisis right now with no obvious resolution. It’s going to lead to more characters like Tate and the growing hivemind with people standing up for their genders.
I initially did not want to derail this thread, but it is not a thread with anything consistent with the OP’s topic because she apparently doesn’t care about the thread.
I read this book this summer and, despite the title some might consider corny, it contains constructive information that is far better to put to work in dealing with the current scene.
And the author is no stranger to reality considering the content, and what he wrote in this book I’ve also recommended several times.
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We could all just be gay.
Apparently men can have babies now so we, like, don’t even need women anymore… I say we secede.
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Will check them out, always looking for something new to read.
Do I have to be gay AND 6ft?
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only laying down 
EDIT: No homo
With the wink on the end of that, I’m apprehensive to click the heart. But I do like your post.
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Bring back the He-Man Woman Haters Club
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I gotta say, I kinda like the direction this thread went.
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Actually if you read the second book I recommended, any man not obsessed with being nice can come up with a resolution. Such a resolution would be multi-faceted, but it would involve nerve and discipline and a lot of fun would end for many men.
Men can implement resolutions for pretty much anything they want. But, for all his shenanigans and flaws, something Andrew Tate likely would agree with, is that men in the West are obsessed with being nice, rather die than be rude, and pandering to women as a whole.
I wasn’t talking about a man as an individual or a way to counter the modern misandry, I’m talking much wider than that. Things like women’s promiscuity leading to a declining ability to pair bond, the “I’m beautiful at any weight” movement making light of a serious health epidemic, lack of accountability, higher number of single mothers raising children that are more likely to deal with mental disorders and substance abuse among other things. The list goes on, all of them are a massive discussion within themselves.
@tlgains I’ll answer here considering there is no track to this thread and it has become another generalized dating thread.
I’ll keep it simple.
- I overcame horrible depression, and with that, irrational, self-limiting, and false beliefs (eg, “I don’t have enough of X to be a good dad and husband.”) I was what the online-incel crowd calls a “mentalcel”.
- I dumped two toxic friends (toxic actually is fitting here). Toxic friends actually can ruin your mind, particularly if they’re abusive. It can be embarrassing for a man to admit he was mentally abused by a friend, but I sincerely say that I was abused by a former friend.
- I shed some “nice guy” ways. I’m
likely considered a nice guy by all who know me but I’m no longer what I refer to as Nice Guy ™. - I started acting on what the PUA’s, awful as they are, call “indicators of interest” (IOI’s).
I did have a fair share of “fun”, and what I call “porn come to life” after correcting all this but I would not repeat this if a time machine were available and I don’t think it’s something to brag about; it was not the right thing to do. I only say this because it actually is possible for some incels to go from lonely to having an assortment of dates and eventually a wife, if they get an understanding of the current scene and make some adjustments.
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Wait…
We aren’t already?
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I would appreciate it if you wouldn’t assume my sexuality. Thanksss
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I have never thought about these issues with such depth.
Maybe because I have never really had internal depression like you describe.
I went through some for sure after burying a fiancé at 24, but I had a good support system and funneled by grief into mostly positive avenues. I ran through a lot of women after that for a few years and I am not proud of it. But, I also found my wife during that time.
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Sir, I was asking not assuming.
But, you definitely gay.
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So am I. And the second book I recommended covers all that much wider stuff. And a resolution would require manpower (numbers), not just one guy adjusting his ways.
Hence, I said men can implement whatever policies or norms they want it they have the will, power, and nerve.
Fair enough. I guess that depends on how long men collectively continue to play the victims.
In response to your other post, funny how every positive turnaround story starts with “I overcame depression”. Depression is a gift if used wisely.
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