Next time something like that happens I do plan to hang out with the girl. My goal would just to be friends with her and maybe meet some of her friends. I seriously need more girl friends in my life…spending too much time with guys doing guy stuff, which makes it more difficult to meet women.
The vast majority of guys probably don’t get hit on…if you sit around waiting for a girl to make a move you’ll probably wait forever. Just because you’re not getting hit on or whatever…I wouldn’t take it too personally.[/quote]
[quote]Geminspector wrote:
pachell wrote:
The cougars annoy me, especially the super aggressive, leathery skinned, halfway naked variety who do head to grass lat pulldowns and dick around with the 2.5# dbs.
Just curious - are you annoyed because they hit on you or just their mere presence? I would prefer to be considered a MILF (although I’ve never reproduced) than a cougar. Kitten is good.
[/quote]
Too busy to pay attention to what’s going on – I’m talking about the attention whoring skinny fat types doing frivolous routines with the sole intention of hooking up.
The pesky stalkers who follow you around like a stray cat.
The other night while deadlifting some floozie kept walking between me and the mirror, pausing to admire her “beautiful” self in the mirror. Repeat ad nauseam. Distracting to say the least…
Next time something like that happens I do plan to hang out with the girl. My goal would just to be friends with her and maybe meet some of her friends. I seriously need more girl friends in my life…spending too much time with guys doing guy stuff, which makes it more difficult to meet women.
The vast majority of guys probably don’t get hit on…if you sit around waiting for a girl to make a move you’ll probably wait forever. Just because you’re not getting hit on or whatever…I wouldn’t take it too personally.
I have the same problem. Not any balance.[/quote]
I just realized you’re only 15. You have plenty of opportunities ahead of you to meet women…my only advice: Take advantage of them. I let tons of them slip by and regret it. Don’t make that mistake.
So if a very hot lady seems keen on training with me, seemingly for the sake of having a male pushing her lifts to their limit, would I be just plain stupid to think that she really does just want to train with a bloke? Or is there more at play here?
She’s very good looking, married, 40+ (I’m 44) very slim with a great body and very very flexible.
Either way I’m lucky she’s training with me (she’s a trainer who’s is very knowledgeable on muscles and exercises) but I just wonder if I’m being stupid?
Mmmmm. You probably won’t find out till you start training together. You will find out in pretty short order what is what. I sometimes wish I had a training partner, and IF I had one I would prefer it to be a man. Biggest reason - Men, in general, adhere to a training schedule better than women. If she is a trainer this is exactly what she could be thinking.
On the other hand, it’s always nice to have something good to look at…
[quote]pachell wrote:
Geminspector wrote:
pachell wrote:
The cougars annoy me, especially the super aggressive, leathery skinned, halfway naked variety who do head to grass lat pulldowns and dick around with the 2.5# dbs.
Just curious - are you annoyed because they hit on you or just their mere presence? I would prefer to be considered a MILF (although I’ve never reproduced) than a cougar. Kitten is good.
Too busy to pay attention to what’s going on – I’m talking about the attention whoring skinny fat types doing frivolous routines with the sole intention of hooking up.
The pesky stalkers who follow you around like a stray cat.
The other night while deadlifting some floozie kept walking between me and the mirror, pausing to admire her “beautiful” self in the mirror. Repeat ad nauseam. Distracting to say the least…
[quote]Geminspector wrote:
I sometimes wish I had a training partner, and IF I had one I would prefer it to be a man. Biggest reason - Men, in general, adhere to a training schedule better than women. If she is a trainer this is exactly what she could be thinking.
On the other hand, it’s always nice to have something good to look at…[/quote]
Next time something like that happens I do plan to hang out with the girl. My goal would just to be friends with her and maybe meet some of her friends. I seriously need more girl friends in my life…spending too much time with guys doing guy stuff, which makes it more difficult to meet women.
The vast majority of guys probably don’t get hit on…if you sit around waiting for a girl to make a move you’ll probably wait forever. Just because you’re not getting hit on or whatever…I wouldn’t take it too personally.
I have the same problem. Not any balance.
I just realized you’re only 15. You have plenty of opportunities ahead of you to meet women…my only advice: Take advantage of them. I let tons of them slip by and regret it. Don’t make that mistake.[/quote]
I will. But now it’s getting harder then ever to sort the sane ones from the crazy ones.
All of you are pussies. If you are at the gym you should be training. If you have time to be flirting then you are NOT training. If you feel like flirting then you are not training hard enough. If you even notice people around you then you are not training hard enough!
[quote]mmllcc wrote:
All of you are pussies. If you are at the gym you should be training. If you have time to be flirting then you are NOT training. If you feel like flirting then you are not training hard enough. If you even notice people around you then you are not training hard enough!
[quote]mmllcc wrote:
All of you are pussies. If you are at the gym you should be training. If you have time to be flirting then you are NOT training. If you feel like flirting then you are not training hard enough. If you even notice people around you then you are not training hard enough!
[quote]Polish Rifle wrote:
mmllcc wrote:
All of you are pussies. If you are at the gym you should be training. If you have time to be flirting then you are NOT training. If you feel like flirting then you are not training hard enough. If you even notice people around you then you are not training hard enough!
[quote]Geminspector wrote:
Mmmmm. You probably won’t find out till you start training together. You will find out in pretty short order what is what. I sometimes wish I had a training partner, and IF I had one I would prefer it to be a man. Biggest reason - Men, in general, adhere to a training schedule better than women. If she is a trainer this is exactly what she could be thinking.
On the other hand, it’s always nice to have something good to look at…[/quote]
Gem, I trained with her yesterday, and again today and we have another session lined up for tomorrow.
She’s fabulous to look at and when she bends over to put her head between her ankles, I have to roll my tongue back up.
She’ll take her hair out of it’s pony tail and swish it from side to side - fucking beautiful. She removes her outer top revealing a tight training top and she’s so delicious I’m fighting to keep my eyes and hands on the training - but DAMN it’s great fun.
Oh, and we really do train and in fact I’m training harder with her than I have for many months.
[quote]Geminspector wrote:
pachell wrote:
Geminspector wrote:
pachell wrote:
The cougars annoy me, especially the super aggressive, leathery skinned, halfway naked variety who do head to grass lat pulldowns and dick around with the 2.5# dbs.
Just curious - are you annoyed because they hit on you or just their mere presence? I would prefer to be considered a MILF (although I’ve never reproduced) than a cougar. Kitten is good.
Too busy to pay attention to what’s going on – I’m talking about the attention whoring skinny fat types doing frivolous routines with the sole intention of hooking up.
The pesky stalkers who follow you around like a stray cat.
The other night while deadlifting some floozie kept walking between me and the mirror, pausing to admire her “beautiful” self in the mirror. Repeat ad nauseam. Distracting to say the least…
[quote]mmllcc wrote:
All of you are pussies. If you are at the gym you should be training. If you have time to be flirting then you are NOT training. If you feel like flirting then you are not training hard enough. If you even notice people around you then you are not training hard enough!
Focus people! Focus![/quote]
One can not deny the symbiotic relationship between the scantily-clad college coed with a stunning physique and the bodybuilder.
Her ego gets stroked, we get an instant test boost: it’s a win-win situation.
As long as you keep it on the floor and don’t progress into the handicapped stall and/or sauna, it’s all good.
