This thread got awfully interesting since I last checked in.
A club? Not necessary. Confidence claims the day; all day, every day.
I may be older than 90% of the men on this thread, but life keeps getting better every day.
Viva la vagina.
Woohoo! that makes me in the top 10%
You could flirt with girls at the gym when you’re all sweaty…or you could just find the same girls later at the local bar.
[quote]Digity wrote:
AngryVader wrote:
When I see a girl I like at the gym, I just point to her and say, “Tonight. You.”
Ha! Maybe back in the cavemen days…now it’s a lot more complicated. :P[/quote]
Trust me, no it’s not.
Hahaha this thread is great.
Unless a girl is pretty damn cute I don’t usually pay attention because I’m pretty much all up in my zone… but today there was this girl I saw as I was finishing up squatting who was a COMPLETE fox… just so sexy. Seemed about my age, really really pretty and she definitely took her training seriously. I went to do leg extensions, she came and did leg curls right by me, I went to the preacher bench to do curls and she pulled up a flat bench -right- behind me to do skullcrushers. Then she went over to a mat to do some ab work and I caught her looking at me several times.
I came THIS close to talking to her… but she left before I finished.
On a good note though, I saw her make small talk with one of the trainers who she went to school with that I know…
Anyways, had to get that off my chest. I hope I run into her again soon.
Right now I work out at a crappy chain gym in a snobby suburb.
But starting in January, I leave for the University of South Carolina. Godayum I can’t wait to use their gym… The Strom Thurmond Fitness Center:
80 cardio machines. 160 weight stations. A 52 ft climbing wall. 5 Racquetball courts. 5 bball courts. 4 Volleyball courts. 2 beach volleyball courts. An outdoor pool, an indoor pool, a whirpool/spa, a sauna… Basically I have no excuse not to workout
…Did I mention that outdoor pool? When I went to visit there, there were literally hundreds of the south’s finest tanning and swimming.
I don’t see how I could get away with NOT flirting at my gym…
[quote]bugeishaAD wrote:
Hahaha this thread is great.
Unless a girl is pretty damn cute I don’t usually pay attention because I’m pretty much all up in my zone… but today there was this girl I saw as I was finishing up squatting who was a COMPLETE fox… just so sexy. Seemed about my age, really really pretty and she definitely took her training seriously. I went to do leg extensions, she came and did leg curls right by me, I went to the preacher bench to do curls and she pulled up a flat bench -right- behind me to do skullcrushers. Then she went over to a mat to do some ab work and I caught her looking at me several times.
I came THIS close to talking to her… but she left before I finished.
On a good note though, I saw her make small talk with one of the trainers who she went to school with that I know…
Anyways, had to get that off my chest. I hope I run into her again soon.[/quote]
And from little things, big things grow. Could be the next love of your life. Next time - have a chat.
[quote]bugeishaAD wrote:
Hahaha this thread is great.
Unless a girl is pretty damn cute I don’t usually pay attention because I’m pretty much all up in my zone… but today there was this girl I saw as I was finishing up squatting who was a COMPLETE fox… just so sexy. Seemed about my age, really really pretty and she definitely took her training seriously. I went to do leg extensions, she came and did leg curls right by me, I went to the preacher bench to do curls and she pulled up a flat bench -right- behind me to do skullcrushers. Then she went over to a mat to do some ab work and I caught her looking at me several times.
I came THIS close to talking to her… but she left before I finished.
On a good note though, I saw her make small talk with one of the trainers who she went to school with that I know…
Anyways, had to get that off my chest. I hope I run into her again soon.[/quote]
good thing you were all up in your zone or you might have had to talk to her.
[quote]Defekt wrote:
I’m 17 and kind of ugly. No one talks to me, male or female. [/quote]
Another thing you could do is just get an uglier friend, you’ll look good in comparison 
[quote]bugeishaAD wrote:
I came THIS close to talking to her… but she left before I finished.
On a good note though, I saw her make small talk with one of the trainers who she went to school with that I know…
[/quote]
…so at least he’ll get a shot at her
I train alone. A trio of guys are always on the floor at the same time. There is some banter between the 4 of us and I am attracted to one of them. Yesterday “hot guy” was talking about his smoked turkey (yes, I said smoked turkey). Today, I see one of his boys on the treadmill. On my way out, I asked, “Your buddy, big one with the turkey. Married?” He answered “No, single. Great guy”. I said “thank you” and left with a grin. Of course he will report to “turkey boy” and the ball is now in his court. We’ll see what happens…
[quote]jchenky wrote:
I’ve had a guy kiss my hand at the gym. SICK… I thought he was an idiot[/quote]
I was just trying to be a gentleman!
[quote]AngryVader wrote:
Digity wrote:
AngryVader wrote:
Digity wrote:
AngryVader wrote:
When I see a girl I like at the gym, I just point to her and say, “Tonight. You.”
Ha! Maybe back in the cavemen days…now it’s a lot more complicated. 
And that’s why I carry a club as a backup. If my obvious charm doesn’t work, then I truly go caveman on them. 
Fuck charm…just cut to the caveman shit.
Considering my current success rate, I may have to anyway.[/quote]
That would probably work Great for you in Spokane, Vader. I’m not sure how people practice procreation here… nobody makes a move!
I’m like Oursboro - completely invisible in the gym. Deadlifting in a bikini doesn’t seem comfy, and I don’t think it would help, anyway.
Nobody flirts in any of the gyms I’ve been to here. It’s like people move inside their personal private bubble space.
Oh, wait. Was that guy making comments about “women who look like Arnold Schwarzenegger” trying to flirt? Oddness… Grins ~ Renee
I think I was getting flirted with at the gym today.
This girl who works at the gym came up to me and said:
“If you don’t put some pants on, I’m going to call the police”
I think she digs me.
[quote]sen say wrote:
One reason I started jelqueing my cock was so that it could flop out of the bottom of my gym shorts. At 18 inches and growing, I simply wait until the young lady my attention has been focused on wanders by the pull-up bar…I then crank out a set and allow my cock to fall out of the bottom of my shorts…this is a great conversation starter.[/quote]
hahahahaha
[quote]SteelyD wrote:
I think I was getting flirted with at the gym today.
This girl who works at the gym came up to me and said:
“If you don’t put some pants on, I’m going to call the police”
I think she digs me.[/quote]
Yeah I think you’re in…she did talk to you after all…
[quote]nephorm wrote:
jchenky wrote:
I’ve had a guy kiss my hand at the gym. SICK… I thought he was an idiot
I was just trying to be a gentleman![/quote]
You kissed my sweaty hand
[quote]nephorm wrote:
jchenky wrote:
I’ve had a guy kiss my hand at the gym. SICK… I thought he was an idiot
I was just trying to be a gentleman![/quote]
Well, that was weird and gross. Next time, offer to help her carry her 2.7lb nylon gym bag. That will seem much less weird after you’ve just watched her bench 120lbs.
I met my now-husband at the gym. I sold him a membership. I don’t recall any flirting, really, but I can be a little oblivious. I just remember him asking me out. Something like “Hey, are you doing anything Saturday night?” Direct and generic. I prefer that over politenesses like the door-opening or bag-carrying offer, which would make me feel self-conscious and awkward. (Not the door opening itself but the offering to do it. That would clarify that there was an underlying motive, and that would make me nervous.)
Plus, what if I’m not interested in going out? Now you’ve trailed me to the parking lot and you’re holding my bag of sweaty gym clothes. Unless back inside, when you first asked, I clutched my bag to my chest and said “No! No thank you! I’ve got it!” Which…ugh.
Just ask her out.
I had a girl at the counter flirt with me, but she came on waaay too strong and it was a turn off. She kept flirting with me as the days went by, but I was unresponsive. She just seemed a bit desperate or something…anyway, this thread is great for pumping up our egos.