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X, I am NOT saying that the Tukegee Experiment didn’t happen or that Millions of blacks weren’t routinely disenfranchised. [/quote]
If you are comparing getting into a few fights growing up to what my grandfather experienced in the US military, then I would say you are very much trying to decrease the effect that racism had on an entire race in this country.
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First of all I didn’t “get into a few fight’s growing up”. I was beaten at home, in school, after school, after I left home at sixteen, and while I was in PRISON for four years I was stabbed five times and got into more fights than I can remember.
Second of all, no one is talking about your grandfather’s experience, we are talking about opportunities NOW and weather there is racism NOW. I have acknowledged that I’ve seen it, but I also used my own circumstance as an example of how one can overcome it.
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As I said before, I didn’t have any guidance. I didn’t start turning my life around until I was in PRISON. Ever been to prison, X? There are opportunities there to improve your self if you choose to take them. For example, I worked in the library and helped MANY men (almost all of them black) how to read and/or improve their reading proficiency. There are MANY programs in “the system” that anyone who passes through that system can take advantage of and become exposed to new ideas and new ways of thinking. It makes me very sad that so many people choose to ignore these options. But it is their CHOICE, and therefore their RESPONSIBILITY.
I’m glad that your parent’s were able to guide you and support you so that you became a successful dentist/doctor (I’m not sure which, I’ve seen people refer to you as both). Part of me wishes that MY parents had the ability and vision of YOUR parents - I would have suffered a lot less. But my point is that my parents didn’t do SHIT for me, other than hurt me.
I NEVER denied these factors exist, I only maintain that they can be overcome.
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When I grew up, I didn’t really have a strong grasp of politics, I only really knew my neighborhood. And the small businesses in my neighborhood were owned by every nationality BUT whites. So your theory of a lack of role models, while may be true politically, certainly didn’t apply to being a successful business owner. [/quote]
What?!
Dude, who are you talking to? All you had to do was turn on any tv and see whites in positions of power. Hell, until The Jeffersons, there hadn’t been even one single public SUCCESSFUL portrayal of a wealthy black man on tv in prime time. Are you really going to pretend that the world was the same for you as it was for all of those other guys you grew up with assuming you were born before 1980?
I’m not talking about television. I was born in 1974. And frankly, I didn’t watch much TV. I was referring to my direct observations of my environment. I do remember the Cosby show starting in the mid 80’s and ran for a VERY long time (you can still see it on cable tv). But I’m not arguing about television - I will concede there were more shows appealing to a white demographic than to a black or minority demographic. So what? That isn’t the point of this discussion.
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I agree that it will take more time, but I also see a lot of progress.
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A percentage of ALL government contracts HAVE to go to 8A or minority owned businesses - even if they are not the lowed bid. There are plenty of businesses and performance based jobs that don’t discriminate against ANYONE, where results are truly the only limiting factor of your income. So if someone feels they cant succeed, they are wrong. They just have to choose the vehicle for their success and work hard at it. I know PLENTY of successful minorities, black, spanish, asian, middle eastern - I live and work in northern Virginia, it’s a virtual melting pot here. There’s plenty of opportunity for everybody. They just have to stand up and take it.[/quote]
Right…and there is no way in hell we would be at this point without literally forcing a change through the 80’s and 90’s. [/quote]
So now it’s 2010. And the OPPORTUNITY IS THERE. So WHAT is holding people back from taking advantage of it?
I see you didn’t bother to reply to my OTHER post. Is admitting that you need to let your anger go something you’re not ready to do? That’s fine - we’re all at where we’re at. But if ANYTHING is going to heal the deep seated wounds inflicted by racism it’s going to require change on BOTH sides of the equation.