Father Disciplines His Son For Acting Up In School

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[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

[quote]maraudermeat wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:
While the boy initially claimed that marks and scars on his legs were caused by a bicycle accident, he later “disclosed that Devery ‘whips’ him ‘all the time.’” The child told cops that “Devery made him tell the story about the bicycle because ‘he don’t wanna go to jail.’”

Marks and scars on his legs?

No, no child abuse here.

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hopefully Devery will end up with some “marks” and scars of his own after this is all said and done. [/quote]
If only you had a 1% patch your post would have teeth.

Sometimes I hang out with a handful of Bandidos. Does that mean anything to you?[/quote]

I’m not a 1%er. We are an outlaw MC as shown by the three piece patch but not 1%. That’s a totally different lifestyle right there.

Of course I’ve heard of the Bandidos. They are definitely 1%ers.

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[quote]backyardleopard wrote:
This is not discipline.

A kid stuffing around in school does not equate to that whole saying “fuck me” thing he does. Discipline equals a lesson. There is no logic in the guys argument. So what the fuck is he teaching that kid?

The whole multiple punishment thing? Shave head/eyebrows. What does demeaning the kid achieve? Insult to injury.

Has anyone else noticed that the only thing the kid says is “Yes sir”? If you are trying to modify a childs behavior don’t you think the kid should be somewhat intellectually engaged.

Now how many time do you have to hit a kid with a belt? Give him five strokes and leave it at that. Why keep beating him? And then tell him to shut up. You just hit a little kid with a belt a couple of dozen times of course he’ll cry.

I’m just listing shit that strikes me as wrong here. I am not a parent and am basically theorising. And I think if I ever do become one I’ll be a god aweful bastard like this guy because thats how I lose my temper.

All the beatings like this never got me to behave, they just made me more bloody minded. Point being this video is categorically wrong. This sort of thing perpetuates itself.

My 2 cents. Not a parent, hopefully never will be.[/quote]

Good post. I am a parent, I never felt compelled to beat the living fuck of my kids. I am not against corporal punishment, but that was way over board. There is no way that was staged, that shrill of terror and agony was the real thing.
If you have to do that to the 7 year old, he ain’t the problem, you are. 7 year olds are easy to control, even bad ones.
When I do use corporal punishment, it’s quick and spontaneous and it’s a ‘cease and desist’ immediately message. Also, I believe in make a lot of noise rather than inflicting pain.

I have gotten a few like that in my life and I am not grateful or better for it. it made me a better liar. I was motivated to avoid the punishment, but not avoid the behavior that led to it.
That ‘spare the rod, spoil the child’ horse shit is just that, horse shit. BTW that phrase ← is NOT in the bible contrary to popular belief. No where in the bible does it say ‘beat the living shit out of your kids’.

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[quote]maraudermeat wrote:
i was whipped as a child and all i learned was to not get caught when doing something wrong and that when i was big enough and strong enough i would put an end to it. the first person i ever knocked out was my father. i was 13 years old and he broke out the belt and started in on me and i finished it by knocking him out cold. luckily this was a turning point in our relationship and he soon learned that physical abuse only made me mean and full of rage. we now have more of a brotherly relationship.

I’m now a parent and have been an elementary school teacher for 12 years. I work in a school with a large population of low income and single family children. I’ve known many children that are beaten by their parents. I’m always amazed when i talk to a parent about a child’s behavior and they tell me “don’t worry… they will get a good ass whipp’n when they get home” It’s like they are bragging about their beating of some little kid. I often tell them that I’m not impressed. I can say from my experience that beating a kid NEVER improves behavior. Consistency improves behavior. As a teacher obviously i’ve never layed my hands on a student but often i get comments from parents that their kids listen to me but they won’t listen to them. the reason… I’m consistent. The kids respect me and they know they are safe with me. There’s also mutual respect.

As it pertains to my daughter. i knew the moment she was born that i would NEVER lay my hands on her other than to show her love and affection. Raising a child requires one to actually be involved in your child’s life. You have to be there every moment to lead them, protect them and love them. It’s all about love and being there through it all. [/quote]

Good post.
Further, every kid is different. Gettin’ the shit beat out of me never taught me anything but fear. I also withdrew from my parents. The older I got the less they knew about my life. I didn’t tell them shit. They didn’t know if I was working or off, they didn’t know where I was if I could avoid it and if plans they knew about changed, they didn’t know about it. If I was dating a girl or something they may have found out about it months later.
So if you want that kind of relationship with your kids, beat the hell out of them. when your old and need help, they’ll drop your sorry ass off at nursing home and send you a card every Christmas.

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[quote]Soulja874 wrote:
UPDATE #2

The truth comes out.

Not even his Dad, that’s just sick. And how much of a pussy was he? He tried to lie and weasel his way out of it in order not to get punished. What a pussy.

I hate mother fuckers who hurt kids. I would like him sentenced to get what he got and let me do it. For ever lash he gave the kid he gets two, and I’ll use the buckle. Then, if he survives, you can throw what’s left of his carcass in to a cell with a desperate rapist. Let’s see how big a man he is then.

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You will never convince an abusive parent to stop whipping his child if you tell him that it’s bad and how it’s bad.

Just tell him that his child may end up loving it. And that, once adult, he will avidly frequent some obscure californian backroom just to have his scars ridden ass whiped by random leather-and-mustache-wearing “daddies”.

now, that may touch the heart of this kind of primate.

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[quote]LarryDavid wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:

  1. Larrydavid, whos your avatar?

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Sorry for the late response- it’s Jada Stevens. [/quote]

she looks annoying