…if the father’s physical wellbeing was comprimised, like the mother’s health is by simply being pregnant, because a pregnancy is absolutely no picknick and may even result in the mother’s death, then i’d grant the father a say in the matter. Since this is obviously not the case, and the father does not have to go through the physical ordeal of simply being pregnant, he does not get a say in this matter…
[quote]Now, on to decisions and thier effect on peoples rights. If I come into your house and steal your TV, I will go to prison. The act of putting me in prison is taking away some of my rights as an individual. But I don’t hear any outcrying that my rights are being taken away, it is expected, I have free will and made a choice which put me into the situation I am in, so I must live with the consequences of my decisions and actions, even if they result in my rights being taken away. And in the case of stealing your TV, they would only be taken away temporarily, say for a year.
So Since the woman made a choice to have consentual sex, why is it wrong for society to force her to live with the temporary loss of her rights to her body, to prevent a crime from being committed, the murder that would take place should she abort the fetus. In my view, this follows precise logic, and is justifiable according to our current societal standards. This would be my basic position should we view the human fetus as an individual human being, who has by the mere fact of it’s existance, been granted the right to life. So I’m going to hold to my position now that no abortions should be legal until someone can explain to me a scientific reason why a fetus at any stage they want, is not a human being. But for your amusement, I will contend that if that notion is never accepted, I feel that at the very least, A father should have the right to oppose an abortion at any stage, and by law, his word should hold as much weight as the mothers.
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…because, more often than not in the case of abortion, both consenting adults took measures to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, but due to failure on the part of the contraceptive, the woman becomes pregnant. I must assume that, within reason, the precautions i’ve taken to prevent a pregnancy work, otherwise you’d simply have to abstain. That’s not gonna happen, is it? I agree with you that if i engage in sex, knowing full well the possible consequences of that act, without taking the necessary precautions to prevent a pregnancy, and my partner gets pregnant, i have to suck it up and have the child [bad choice of words, i know]. I also don’t think that’s a reason for abortion, altough i reluctantly agree that it’s within a woman’s right to abort said pregnancy…
…this issue must be an either/or scenario, giving the fact that you can’t take away the right to self determination of a woman. This is why there is no middle ground, except for placing an arbitrary cut-off point. As a nation/society we should educate first, and provide contraceptives to sexually active people in order to reduce abortions, and not outlaw abortion alltogether. That is like throwing the baby out with the bathwater [lol]…