Sexual contact with a stranger without their consent.
Sexual escalation of a relationship when one partner doesn’t want it.
Sexual contact in a relationship when one partner doesn’t want it at that time, even if he or she is okay with it generally.
These things are very different from each other. Grouping them together is foolish.
Also, if you kiss your girlfriend (or wife) and she wasn’t really feeling it at the time, she may go along with it anyways. Little do you know, you just sexually assaulted her.
[quote]csulli wrote:
You are fucked up rofl. Lay off the drugs or something dude and chill.[/quote]
You wouldn’t shove a stranger out of sheer reflex if they suddenly fondled your balls?[/quote]
It is not amongst my reflexes to attack something before I know what it is. What if I were lying down or something and suddenly I feel a brushing against my testicles. WHAM! Oh shit I just caved my dog’s skull in.
My reflex, if the beautiful woman were to approach me from behind in a crouch and then stealthily caress my scrotum, would be first to jump away in surprise and turn to evaluate this mystery fondler, not to do a blind spinning back fist into her beautiful face.
I think I need to contact the police. I’ve been sexually assaulted many times. If you’ve never had your ass grabbed while at the bar or a party then you suck.
[quote]csulli wrote:
You are fucked up rofl. Lay off the drugs or something dude and chill.[/quote]
You wouldn’t shove a stranger out of sheer reflex if they suddenly fondled your balls?[/quote]
It is not amongst my reflexes to attack something before I know what it is. What if I were lying down or something and suddenly I feel a brushing against my testicles. WHAM! Oh shit I just caved my dog’s skull in.
My reflex, if the beautiful woman were to approach me from behind in a crouch and then stealthily caress my scrotum, would be first to jump away in surprise and turn to evaluate this mystery fondler, not to do a blind spinning back fist into her beautiful face.[/quote]
[quote]magick wrote:
I don’t quite understand why some men think it’s no big deal to touch women without consent.[/quote]
if you substitute “men” and “women” with “people”, your statement would be more objective and accurate.
I personally (and im sure many, many other guys on this site) have had my personal space violated by women…and men (no homo)…many times.
men just don’t have anything at all to gain from crying rape[/quote]
Just yesterday, sitting at a blackjack table, I had a elderly lady rub my nose as she was telling me she was born in France and that I had a very Jewish nose. She then patted my head and told me I had very Jewish hair and was wondering if I was Jewish. Dealer told her to stop a couple of times, she didn’t stop and eventually borderline passed out on my shoulder. Was I sexually assaulted?
[quote]csulli wrote:
It is not amongst my reflexes to attack something before I know what it is. What if I were lying down or something and suddenly I feel a brushing against my testicles. WHAM! Oh shit I just caved my dog’s skull in.
My reflex, if the beautiful woman were to approach me from behind in a crouch and then stealthily caress my scrotum, would be first to jump away in surprise and turn to evaluate this mystery fondler, not to do a blind spinning back fist into her beautiful face.[/quote]
I am very “twitchy” when it comes to sudden and unexpected physical contact, especially if it’s anything beyond a light tap on the shoulder. I have done some things that I’m not proud of because of that.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Look at what you said. Did you say “stranger” at first?[/quote]
But that was the intention behind my post. You just zeroed in on the “beautiful woman” portion and ignored the “gay guy” and the “ugly girl” part. I always intended it to mean a stranger, and meant to insinuate that it shouldn’t matter who they are.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Lemme get this straight, Magik man.
You are dancing at the club with this young lady or sipping coffee at Starbucks or shopping for your Froot Loops at Albertson’s or reading books at the library or lying on the beach
AND
she is a complete stranger.
She then starts grabbing your ass and even fondling your balls.
[quote]magick wrote:
I don’t quite understand why some men think it’s no big deal to touch women without consent.[/quote]
if you substitute “men” and “women” with “people”, your statement would be more objective and accurate.
I personally (and im sure many, many other guys on this site) have had my personal space violated by women…and men (no homo)…many times.
men just don’t have anything at all to gain from crying rape[/quote]
Just yesterday, sitting at a blackjack table, I had a elderly lady rub my nose as she was telling me she was born in France and that I had a very Jewish nose. She then patted my head and told me I had very Jewish hair and was wondering if I was Jewish. Dealer told her to stop a couple of times, she didn’t stop and eventually borderline passed out on my shoulder. Was I sexually assaulted?
[/quote]
I honestly dont know what that was, but in this case, we can actually pull out the overused “creepy”.
[quote]magick wrote:
I don’t quite understand why some men think it’s no big deal to touch women without consent.[/quote]
if you substitute “men” and “women” with “people”, your statement would be more objective and accurate.
I personally (and im sure many, many other guys on this site) have had my personal space violated by women…and men (no homo)…many times.
men just don’t have anything at all to gain from crying rape[/quote]
Just yesterday, sitting at a blackjack table, I had a elderly lady rub my nose as she was telling me she was born in France and that I had a very Jewish nose. She then patted my head and told me I had very Jewish hair and was wondering if I was Jewish. Dealer told her to stop a couple of times, she didn’t stop and eventually borderline passed out on my shoulder. Was I sexually assaulted?
[/quote]
I honestly dont know what that was, but in this case, we can actually pull out the overused “creepy”.
[/quote]
Definitely was a little creepy but I turned $200 into $1200 at that table so I held my ground ha.