Excessive or Well Deserved?

[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
I gave this some more thought b/c of all the viral internet chatter it’s getting.

Unfortunately for this kid, the self-defense standard changed for him when he wielded the weapon and the girls suffered serious injury. Based on the felony assault charge against him, they are treating his use of force as potentially deadly, which under the law has a higher standard under self defense. In short, he’s going to have to prove that be believed the threat he faced was potentially deadly. They will also employ what is usually referred to as a “reasonable person” standard which means what a “reasonable person” would have done in his shoes. He’s going to have a “long row to hoe” convincing a jury that two smaller presumably unarmed (more on this presumption below) women were a deadly threat to him. He would have been better off striking, shoving, kicking, retreating. When he picked up a weapon, it was a legal game changer in terms of the legal standard applied to cases like this.

Our initial outrage aside, the BEST information we have based on the video is that the “ladies” were unarmed and once down they did not pose a threat. How do I make such an assumption? In short, the actions of his coworkers, which speaks loud and clear to any alleged “threat”. If the coworkers perceived some deadly threat, they themselves would have retreated and/or help subdue, in fear for their own safety. This pretty much rules out a weapon or any representation of a weapon. Had the aggressor uttered gun or knife or some such threat, you can bet your ass his coworkers are running for cover. They barely move. His coworkers do not retreat in any fashion. They will likely all testify consistent with my assumption.

Finally, even if you give the kid the benefit of the doubt regarding his welding and using a weapon to subdue them, it’s pretty tough to defend his continuing to strike them when they are down due to the coworker attempting to stop the attack. The coworker’s actions clearly speak loudly that there is no threat - why else would he try to stop it? If there was a serious threat, the coworker is unlikely to attempt to break it up. He’s more likely to help or, retreat himself. And the bottom line is that this coworker will likely testify to that effect.

If they had no weapon, and did not represent a weapon (and I believe based on the footage and actions of his coworkers that they neither represented nor possessed a weapon), he’s going to be convicted. If he had just punched, kicked, pushed, etc. to subdue them or escape, he would have been good. Picking up the weapon was the game changer in the eyes of the law. Continuing to use it after they were down probably not defensible.

Now, most of you will piss and moan and play the “what if” game. And you can play “what if” all you want. It will be very fact specific as all these cases are and maybe he does convince a jury he thought they had a weapon…but that’s what it will boil down to and the footage depicting the actions and postures of his coworkers do not support such a belief.

Now, do you guys want to hear the real sickening, maddening part of this whole affair?

The “victims” will likely sue McDonald’s and the franchise. They will allege, among other things, “negligent hiring” for their hiring of an employee with a violent criminal past. Some of you will reason that someone has to hire him and everyone deserves a second chance and you’d be right. However, the civil/legal issue here is that he is a past violent offender, and the conduct he’s accused of is violent and the plaintiff’s will argue the conduct was “foreseeable” based upon his prior conviction.

Criminal conduct by itself, like trespass is usually not a bar to a claim. Criminal conduct by itself is also not always a bar to a claim.

I haven’t thought it thru thoroughly but my initial reaction is that these ladies can sue and recover. Does a jury shower them with money? No. But a compromised settlement is likely, if nothing more than to avoid further publicity and legal expense. [/quote]

I haven’t looked but I hope they get convicted of felony trespass or whatever they were charged with and that might limit their ability to get damages.

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

I think people misinterpret what I say when I mean whippy. The tools I have seen have been a little bit thicker gauge than number 9 wire still can mess you up but not like if someone had a 1 inch chuck of angle iron or something which the women would have never gotten up from.

Right, because if the sexes were reversed it would be a completely different situation. pound for pound, girls are considerably weaker than males. Throw in an extra 50 pounds to the male, and the fight is completely one-sided. Where do you do draw the line with this whole “sex/size doesn’t matter, self defense is self defense!”

You are telling me that if some 140 pound weakling were to attack you, a 280ish? pound adult male, you should have carte blanche to beat the living shit out of him/her? With a weapon no less?

[quote]groo wrote:

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

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How much worse could finding a job possibly get for him when he already has spent 10 years in prison for manslaughter?

[quote]chitown34 wrote:
Right, because if the sexes were reversed it would be a completely different situation. pound for pound, girls are considerably weaker than males. Throw in an extra 50 pounds to the male, and the fight is completely one-sided. Where do you do draw the line with this whole “sex/size doesn’t matter, self defense is self defense!”

You are telling me that if some 140 pound weakling were to attack you, a 280ish? pound adult male, you should have carte blanche to beat the living shit out of him/her? With a weapon no less?[/quote]

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First off, THERE WERE TWO attackers here, not one. Second, that guy in the vid is doubtfully even weighing in at 150lbs…which would make him about average weight for the average grown woman in America now.

This isn’t about me. This is about ALL OF US. If these women get charged with nothing for this, I guarantee you will see way more of it soon since this shocks so many now.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
…but it is funny how some people try to look for every reason to fault this guy even more than he has been when I know they wouldn’t do anywhere near the same if the sexes were reversed.

hell, no one would even be questioning what was said before if this were a woman…which is why two women can use a fake 50 dollar bill, hit a man in the face, chase him down to beat him up…YET NOT GET CHARGED WITH ANYTHING.[/quote]

I agree. Without knowing, ANYTHING about the situation, some people start making justifications and excuses for inexcusable behavior, yet they don’t seem to understand how this thought process can create these situations. Some of you live in some serious denial or are ridiculously sheltered if you can’t comprehend that some people (male AND female) are just assholes and don’t need a reason to be other than the simple reason that they can.

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]groo wrote:

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

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How much worse could finding a job possibly get for him when he already has spent 10 years in prison for manslaughter?[/quote]

Bad enough to now find NO job when he at least had Mc Donald’s before. Dude was doing his job, got attacked and now will likely see jail again.

rehabilitation FAIL, social FAIL.

[quote]chitown34 wrote:
Right, because if the sexes were reversed it would be a completely different situation. pound for pound, girls are considerably weaker than males. Throw in an extra 50 pounds to the male, and the fight is completely one-sided. Where do you do draw the line with this whole “sex/size doesn’t matter, self defense is self defense!”

You are telling me that if some 140 pound weakling were to attack you, a 280ish? pound adult male, you should have carte blanche to beat the living shit out of him/her? With a weapon no less?[/quote]
Well if said weakling were at his business or home in the great state of Texas, the answer is hell yeah.

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]chitown34 wrote:
Right, because if the sexes were reversed it would be a completely different situation. pound for pound, girls are considerably weaker than males. Throw in an extra 50 pounds to the male, and the fight is completely one-sided. Where do you do draw the line with this whole “sex/size doesn’t matter, self defense is self defense!”

You are telling me that if some 140 pound weakling were to attack you, a 280ish? pound adult male, you should have carte blanche to beat the living shit out of him/her? With a weapon no less?[/quote]

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First off, THERE WERE TWO attackers here, not one. Second, that guy in the vid is doubtfully even weighing in at 150lbs…which would make him about average weight for the average grown woman in America now.

This isn’t about me. This is about ALL OF US. If these women get charged with nothing for this, I guarantee you will see way more of it soon since this shocks so many now.[/quote]

White Knight Syndrome with a serious case of denial thrown in there, X. He already worked out a justification for them attacking him, so facts don’t matter. All of us don’t necessarily agree, but at least we are debating how to interpret facts, not self created fantasy.

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]groo wrote:

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

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How much worse could finding a job possibly get for him when he already has spent 10 years in prison for manslaughter?[/quote]

Because every person he applies to is not only gonna get a peek at his felony conviction he’s gonna be known forever as the guy who beat the holy hell out of the two hood rats on video.
Have you ever been in charge of hiring people? I’ve gone to bat for people with criminal records but it always involves putting my reputation on the line. And to make some decisions like agreeing to hire this guy after this incident would likely bring a whole decision making process into question.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
…but it is funny how some people try to look for every reason to fault this guy even more than he has been when I know they wouldn’t do anywhere near the same if the sexes were reversed.

hell, no one would even be questioning what was said before if this were a woman…which is why two women can use a fake 50 dollar bill, hit a man in the face, chase him down to beat him up…YET NOT GET CHARGED WITH ANYTHING.[/quote]

I think in all fairness your point is getting lost in your seeming attempt to defend this guy. And along the way, people are misconstruing what’s legal.

I agree with you on the one hand and I even repeated this rule when Lew and I met up one night b/c they subject came up. You act like a lady, you get the deference a lady deserves. You raise up and hit me thereby acting like a man, I’m going to smack your ass upside your head.

That said though, most of us are talking about the legal issues. And like it or not, the relative sexes DO matter, much like a disparity of size analysis would be employed.

Further X, I don’t see anyone really disagreeing with what I think your main point is…that they had it coming. What everyone is arguing about is where he ceased “defending” himself and became the attacker.

Remove sex from this scenario and you’re left almost with the same analysis; two people down, and the guy beating on both and a coworker trying to stop the beating. The coworker’s actions I think are very telling. The coworker obviously at that point does not perceive any threat other than his coworker beating this two people. That’s the bottom line, legally.

Your message is getting lost in all that because you’re not distinguishing the larger issue from the legal one.

[quote]lewhitehurst wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]chitown34 wrote:
Right, because if the sexes were reversed it would be a completely different situation. pound for pound, girls are considerably weaker than males. Throw in an extra 50 pounds to the male, and the fight is completely one-sided. Where do you do draw the line with this whole “sex/size doesn’t matter, self defense is self defense!”

You are telling me that if some 140 pound weakling were to attack you, a 280ish? pound adult male, you should have carte blanche to beat the living shit out of him/her? With a weapon no less?[/quote]

?

First off, THERE WERE TWO attackers here, not one. Second, that guy in the vid is doubtfully even weighing in at 150lbs…which would make him about average weight for the average grown woman in America now.

This isn’t about me. This is about ALL OF US. If these women get charged with nothing for this, I guarantee you will see way more of it soon since this shocks so many now.[/quote]

White Knight Syndrome with a serious case of denial thrown in there, X. He already worked out a justification for them attacking him, so facts don’t matter. All of us don’t necessarily agree, but at least we are debating how to interpret facts, not self created fantasy.
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Oh hell he’s blind too if that woman didn’t outweigh the guy by a good 50 pounds I’d be amazed.

[quote]groo wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]groo wrote:

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

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How much worse could finding a job possibly get for him when he already has spent 10 years in prison for manslaughter?[/quote]

Because every person he applies to is not only gonna get a peek at his felony conviction he’s gonna be known forever as the guy who beat the holy hell out of the two hood rats on video.
Have you ever been in charge of hiring people? I’ve gone to bat for people with criminal records but it always involves putting my reputation on the line. And to make some decisions like agreeing to hire this guy after this incident would likely bring a whole decision making process into question.
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Unfortunately, I think he’s going to have to do some time, so he won’t have to worry about getting a job anytime soon.

Let’s not forget he appears to have crossed a legal line before we go feeling too sorry for him. He clearly lost it. When you “lose it” and someone is injured, there are consequences, and there should be.

I do think they women should be charged with higher offenses though. I just don’t see what offense is there they can be charged (in addition to that already charged) with other than simple assault (I don’t remember if they got charged with that).

[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:
…but it is funny how some people try to look for every reason to fault this guy even more than he has been when I know they wouldn’t do anywhere near the same if the sexes were reversed.

hell, no one would even be questioning what was said before if this were a woman…which is why two women can use a fake 50 dollar bill, hit a man in the face, chase him down to beat him up…YET NOT GET CHARGED WITH ANYTHING.[/quote]

I think in all fairness your point is getting lost in your seeming attempt to defend this guy. And along the way, people are misconstruing what’s legal.

I agree with you on the one hand and I even repeated this rule when Lew and I met up one night b/c they subject came up. You act like a lady, you get the deference a lady deserves. You raise up and hit me thereby acting like a man, I’m going to smack your ass upside your head.

That said though, most of us are talking about the legal issues. And like it or not, the relative sexes DO matter, much like a disparity of size analysis would be employed.

Further X, I don’t see anyone really disagreeing with what I think your main point is…that they had it coming. What everyone is arguing about is where he ceased “defending” himself and became the attacker.

Remove sex from this scenario and you’re left almost with the same analysis; two people down, and the guy beating on both and a coworker trying to stop the beating. The coworker’s actions I think are very telling. The coworker obviously at that point does not perceive any threat other than his coworker beating this two people. That’s the bottom line, legally.

Your message is getting lost in all that because you’re not distinguishing the larger issue from the legal one. [/quote]

I have already said that my main issue at this point is these women getting off Scott Free with no charges when they are why this even escalated to this level. I am not here to argue law with anyone.

This affects US by people making excuses for the women…just like chitown tried to do so your statement that no one is arguing that is a little off by that mark.

This is bigger than this one incident. That is my point.

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:
…but it is funny how some people try to look for every reason to fault this guy even more than he has been when I know they wouldn’t do anywhere near the same if the sexes were reversed.

hell, no one would even be questioning what was said before if this were a woman…which is why two women can use a fake 50 dollar bill, hit a man in the face, chase him down to beat him up…YET NOT GET CHARGED WITH ANYTHING.[/quote]

I think in all fairness your point is getting lost in your seeming attempt to defend this guy. And along the way, people are misconstruing what’s legal.

I agree with you on the one hand and I even repeated this rule when Lew and I met up one night b/c they subject came up. You act like a lady, you get the deference a lady deserves. You raise up and hit me thereby acting like a man, I’m going to smack your ass upside your head.

That said though, most of us are talking about the legal issues. And like it or not, the relative sexes DO matter, much like a disparity of size analysis would be employed.

Further X, I don’t see anyone really disagreeing with what I think your main point is…that they had it coming. What everyone is arguing about is where he ceased “defending” himself and became the attacker.

Remove sex from this scenario and you’re left almost with the same analysis; two people down, and the guy beating on both and a coworker trying to stop the beating. The coworker’s actions I think are very telling. The coworker obviously at that point does not perceive any threat other than his coworker beating this two people. That’s the bottom line, legally.

Your message is getting lost in all that because you’re not distinguishing the larger issue from the legal one. [/quote]

I have already said that my main issue at this point is these women getting off Scott Free with no charges when they are why this even escalated to this level. I am not here to argue law with anyone.

This affects US by people making excuses for the women…just like chitown tried to do so your statement that no one is arguing that is a little off by that mark.

This is bigger than this one incident. That is my point.[/quote]

But they WERE charged. What else do you believe they should be charged with?

Again, they WERE charged, with menacing, trespass and disorderly conduct. The only other charge I’m aware of that might apply is simple assault assuming the one “woman’s” slap connected.

[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:

[quote]groo wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]groo wrote:

I think the guy is pretty much screwed as well though since even if he were to be found not guilty its going to be very difficult for him to move on get a new job or whatever. And if that is the standard in new york the reasonable person he’s screwed because we have become an extremely non-violent society in comparison to any historical and the vast majority find any violence excessive.

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How much worse could finding a job possibly get for him when he already has spent 10 years in prison for manslaughter?[/quote]

Because every person he applies to is not only gonna get a peek at his felony conviction he’s gonna be known forever as the guy who beat the holy hell out of the two hood rats on video.
Have you ever been in charge of hiring people? I’ve gone to bat for people with criminal records but it always involves putting my reputation on the line. And to make some decisions like agreeing to hire this guy after this incident would likely bring a whole decision making process into question.
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Unfortunately, I think he’s going to have to do some time, so he won’t have to worry about getting a job anytime soon.

Let’s not forget he appears to have crossed a legal line before we go feeling too sorry for him. He clearly lost it. When you “lose it” and someone is injured, there are consequences, and there should be.

I do think they women should be charged with higher offenses though. I just don’t see what offense is there they can be charged (in addition to that already charged) with other than simple assault (I don’t remember if they got charged with that).[/quote]
Yah I think he’s legally screwed. I don’t necessarily think that is gonna be just but he’s gonna get the shaft. Especially in our society of today, a few 100 years ago he’d probably not have been charged with anything.

Yes, I want ASSAULT charges for the ASSAULT. They also danced on the counter. I want them to pay for the health inspector to come out for an extra trip.

I also want their faces on every news channel along with names so people know who they are.

Hell, if this man’s life is fucked, why not share the notoriety?

I would also like these two women to be made fun of by name on Saturday Night Live with a special return performance of Eddie Murphy as the cashier.

And by the way X, you get no argument from me on principal. I’m defending myself. I’m just not causing serious injury doing it.

I was involved in an altercation a few weeks back when a van full of drunks almost ran my son’s mother and son off the road. I caught them at the end of my road (deadend). Long story short, one of the “women” in the van started mouthing off like this and very clear said she would “cut” me.

At that point, I told her if she took one step forward, I’d knock her the fuck out. Put my hand on the guy’s chest closest to me and shoved him away and told HIM if he came within my reach, HE was going down.

Then the police arrived. She told her story in all her glory…“he said he was going to knock me out…he THREATENED me”. 8 police cars there, 10 officers. I repeated exactly what happened. And I was happily on my way back home while they were getting arrested for DUI and underage drinking.

Bottom line: I would have knocked her the fuck out. But she made a specific, deadly threat. I would not have KNOCKED either of these two “women” out. I would have dialed it down.

…and bumper stickers that read, “get off my ass or I’ll beat you like I work at Mc Donald’s” with “LOL insert women’s names” under it.

[quote]Professor X wrote:
Yes, I want ASSAULT charges for the ASSAULT. They also danced on the counter. I want them to pay for the health inspector to come out for an extra trip.

I also want their faces on every news channel along with names so people know who they are.

Hell, if this man’s life is fucked, why not share the notoriety?
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I don’t disagree there.