[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
I see that.[/quote]
Me too.[/quote]
Lol…not just obvious life is obvious.
[quote]pch2 wrote:
[quote]Grneyes wrote:
the owner of TGRITW?[/quote]
What this mean?
Oh And Hai Guys!
I’m going to a party tonite and TB will be there, I think I’m going to sex him (ok I know I’m going to, but it’s nice to pretend he has a choice). Ex Sex, woo hoo!
This morning I fell off a bosu ball. Embarrassing but not as bad as falling off stationary bike. Turns out I need to work on le balance. [/quote]
The Greatest Rack In The World
I do not understand what the outside is doing. It’s too cold, too hot, now pouring rain?
DO NOT LIKE!
[quote]Grneyes wrote:
Also, I’ve never had sex not on prozac so I don’t know if my libido is inhibited by that or not. I did go 3 years before having sex twice with a friend and then another 3 years before IH. The reason for the first 3 year abstinence is personal and I won’t discuss it on here and the second 3 year abstinence is partly for the same reason and partly because I was focused on getting done with school before I could “start my adult life” so to speak. Right now we’re out of synch because both of us do have some work stress and my hours changed the last two weeks. We’re definitely in the “courting” or “getting to know” stage still, just while married and living together. :)[/quote]
IH - your attitude will def help things. getting angry and frustrated won’t. We try to laugh it off and be more receptive but it’s not always easy.
Greenie - There def has been cases of anti depressants causing low libido in women. As for life getting in the way I would suggest a “stay-cation” where the rules include no phone, no TV and NO PC. Tuning out outside sources of distraction helps to focus on yourself and the other person. Apart from the obvious having sex we’ve also played geeky board games, red erotica to eachother, red each our own books on either end of the sofa, cooked awesome home meals and chatted over supper.
Working on the “connection” increases seratonin levels and boosts the libido naturally. I know you like to read the “girly” novels which tells me you do have a spark. perhaps you need to figure out when this “spark” has the possibility of turning into a flame and keep that time open for fun.
We’ve been through poor college students period, nightshifts, pagers and on-call period, prolonged sickness with both our parents, job loss and a shit load more. The trick is to be human and patient, to know that once the crap clears, the wheels turn yet again and brings some sunshine and good fortune.
PCH - yes Chewy because in highschool back in '97 he looked like this and the name stuck.
my exp with ex sex was that the anticipation was better than the act. Hope you prove me wrong.
[quote]nlmain wrote:
Frenchie and her tamed Chewy back in 2004.[/quote]
Aww do you miss the Chewy being Chewy?
Does he like the curves you have now? You look very tiny in this pic.
One freaking week until I’m married.
Frenchie has a beautiful smile…lights up the room.
Beans is right, BYUkid def has the best one-liners on the interwebz
I’m slowly becoming a fan.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
Beans is right, BYUkid def has the best one-liners on the interwebz
I’m slowly becoming a fan.[/quote]
You shut your mouth, I am no such thing.
[quote]nlmain wrote:
I still have that problem to this day with my hubbie and we’ve been friends for 17 yrs and screwing for 11 of those. The best advice I can give you is you both need to learn to be direct. Sending out “hints” is all nice and cute in the movies but when you both are stressed over work and such being direct gets the job done.
Frenchie “Chewy, I need to get off. Either you come here and help me or I get the job done solo.” He has yet to answer me to get the job done on my own. 
On the other hand he likes to ask me if I had any plans for the evening and gage my response. I’ve learned to be incredibly direct in my answer. “Yes I plan to screw your brains out” is nice and clear. “I’m not sure, let’s see how much energy I have later” has usually led to him playing computer games.
My one criticism is that ONCE in our lifetime I would love for him to just grab me caveman style over his shoulder, throw me on the bed and do it thoroughly. Problem is we both have had abusive pasts and we just can’t seem to overcome the “I’m afraid to trigger a negative response”.
Also with time we have learnt WHEN we are better timed for play. Near bedtime I am sleepy. I want to sleep. In the AM I am grumpy. I want coffee, not sex, or very rarely. I’m a 3pm happy girl. Plenty of energy left for having fun. My belly’s not bloated with alcohol or supper and not sleepy yet. And it’s also a perfect time for a nice afternoon nap in the leftover sweat and smells all rolled up against eachother. Problem is we have adult lives and jobs. The solution was to stop OVERBOOKING our freakin weekends. Seems simple enough but it took me years to figure this one out.
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Done the caveman thing (Viking thing)…works every once in a while, but not on a regular basis.
Done the hints…making eyes, touching…staying close,flirting - this works even less than one would think.
Done the listening to your day, and what he/she said and helping to figure out what he/she meant by what they said…this works more oftener than most. but can be misleading (and is fucking exhausting)
done the weekend afternoon thing, this is fine when you can sneak it in.
done the few glasses of wine to get her in the mood, this does lead to satisfying sex, but it is usually followed up with the alcohol remorse “don’t want to be a drunk”(not on my end, that is)
the truth is, that there is no silver bullet. This is a confusing area where you are doing your level best to mix oil and water…like trying to thread a needle at 500mph.
Why does it have to be so difficult?
Pic unrelated - sort of~
[quote]pch2 wrote:
[quote]Grneyes wrote:
the owner of TGRITW?[/quote]
What this mean?
Oh And Hai Guys!
I’m going to a party tonite and TB will be there, I think I’m going to sex him (ok I know I’m going to, but it’s nice to pretend he has a choice). Ex Sex, woo hoo!
This morning I fell off a bosu ball. Embarrassing but not as bad as falling off stationary bike. Turns out I need to work on le balance. [/quote]
TGRITW = The Greatest Rack In The World.
Feel free to demand photographic evidence from her! Can NEVER EVER be enough pics of TGRITW.
Work laptop rebooted. Didn’t have encryption codes (how? don’t ask me). IT won’t reset them or even let me bring in the laptop…mind you, I have photo ID and that should be verification enough.
Have to wait until manager gets back on Monday. Behind on work already. Goddamnit.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
[quote]nlmain wrote:
I still have that problem to this day with my hubbie and we’ve been friends for 17 yrs and screwing for 11 of those. The best advice I can give you is you both need to learn to be direct. Sending out “hints” is all nice and cute in the movies but when you both are stressed over work and such being direct gets the job done.
Frenchie “Chewy, I need to get off. Either you come here and help me or I get the job done solo.” He has yet to answer me to get the job done on my own.
On the other hand he likes to ask me if I had any plans for the evening and gage my response. I’ve learned to be incredibly direct in my answer. “Yes I plan to screw your brains out” is nice and clear. “I’m not sure, let’s see how much energy I have later” has usually led to him playing computer games.
My one criticism is that ONCE in our lifetime I would love for him to just grab me caveman style over his shoulder, throw me on the bed and do it thoroughly. Problem is we both have had abusive pasts and we just can’t seem to overcome the “I’m afraid to trigger a negative response”.
Also with time we have learnt WHEN we are better timed for play. Near bedtime I am sleepy. I want to sleep. In the AM I am grumpy. I want coffee, not sex, or very rarely. I’m a 3pm happy girl. Plenty of energy left for having fun. My belly’s not bloated with alcohol or supper and not sleepy yet. And it’s also a perfect time for a nice afternoon nap in the leftover sweat and smells all rolled up against eachother. Problem is we have adult lives and jobs. The solution was to stop OVERBOOKING our freakin weekends. Seems simple enough but it took me years to figure this one out.
[/quote]
Done the caveman thing (Viking thing)…works every once in a while, but not on a regular basis.
Done the hints…making eyes, touching…staying close,flirting - this works even less than one would think.
Done the listening to your day, and what he/she said and helping to figure out what he/she meant by what they said…this works more oftener than most. but can be misleading (and is fucking exhausting)
done the weekend afternoon thing, this is fine when you can sneak it in.
done the few glasses of wine to get her in the mood, this does lead to satisfying sex, but it is usually followed up with the alcohol remorse “don’t want to be a drunk”(not on my end, that is)
the truth is, that there is no silver bullet. This is a confusing area where you are doing your level best to mix oil and water…like trying to thread a needle at 500mph.
Why does it have to be so difficult?
Pic unrelated - sort of~
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I’m sure its a whole lot diffrent when you’ve been married for a long time, but you can never go wrong doing a woman’s house chores; laundry, dishes, fix something, or wash their car without asking (doing these things shirtless mind you) has worked for me in the past. Throwing it in the mix!
Continued elegance by the French Queen. Very nice Mainy !
[quote]Charlie Horse wrote: pic of weiner
It is almost summer now but it’s always wiener season.
They are the funniest dogs EVAR. [/quote]
Goddam thats one cute weiner!
[quote]Hallowed wrote:
[quote]Charlie Horse wrote: pic of weiner
It is almost summer now but it’s always wiener season.
They are the funniest dogs EVAR. [/quote]
Goddam thats one cute weiner!
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(wish I had a dollar for everytime I heard that)
…Natural Family Planning will help with the sexors, so I heard. 
Nice work.