That sucks, PMPM…
any compromises anywhere you can make??
[quote]mom-in-MD wrote:
That sucks, PMPM…
any compromises anywhere you can make??[/quote]
x2
That was what I meant in my first post.
Last “heavy” benching tonight, before my first meet, and it just so happens to fall on International Bench Day. YAY!
^ What meet?
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
[quote]DJHT wrote:
^ Why #1? #2 I understand.[/quote]
Lots of things. Changed weight classes means the women who were very good but lighter or heavier than me are no longer in different classes. Constant tension with spouse about me doing only things for me (lifting, traveling, etc) and not “us” is too much to bear anymore. Time to squirt out crotch critters? I don’t know. I just feel like something is dying. [/quote]
Tell them about me, it was worked every time.
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
[quote]DJHT wrote:
^ Why #1? #2 I understand.[/quote]
Constant tension with spouse about me doing only things for me (lifting, traveling, etc) and not “us” is too much to bear anymore. Time to squirt out crotch critters? I don’t know. I just feel like something is dying. [/quote]
This saddens me and pisses me off at the same time. Sorry,I don’t like it.
[/quote]
x2. And I’m with MiM, any way to compromise on stuff?
Re: compromise… I just don’t know. It’s one thing to try to work out a compromise, but from his POV I don’t really have any negotiating ground. I’m selfish and all I think about is what’s good for me, not what’s good for us. And he’s probably right.
And I’m sorry for venting. This is kind of my only place I can do that.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Re: compromise… I just don’t know. It’s one thing to try to work out a compromise, but from his POV I don’t really have any negotiating ground. I’m selfish and all I think about is what’s good for me, not what’s good for us. And he’s probably right.
And I’m sorry for venting. This is kind of my only place I can do that.[/quote]
Really? What does he mean by no negotiating ground? Is he talking competing and training? Is that how you’re selfish?
It’s okay to vent here, it’s what we’re here for! Vent all you want!
For IH…I think I might an owl folder…
So true!
compromise Hell ~
He’s wrong and She’s right.
She deserves her space and is allowed to have her feelings.
He needs to love and respect her as she is, roll with her ebb and flow of emotions and be there for her. support and encourage her. take care of her and help her to grow.
that’s what menz do~
And the real menz do it with a smile on thier faces.
:^)
(see?)
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Re: compromise… I just don’t know. It’s one thing to try to work out a compromise, but from his POV I don’t really have any negotiating ground. I’m selfish and all I think about is what’s good for me, not what’s good for us. And he’s probably right.
And I’m sorry for venting. This is kind of my only place I can do that.[/quote]
First of all, don’t EVER apologize for venting. That’s what “we” are here for, PMPM.
And, I understand the lifestyle can/is very much a “me” activity… BUT, it’s part of your life and it makes you happy.
Would you be able to make those sacrifices AND be happy eventually?
Stifling someone’s passion does not seem very conducive to a happy marriage, either.
I feel very strongly with issues like this, but i’ll stfu if it doesn’t help matters…
PMPM that sucks, i know that has been an issue for you for awhile now. Best wishes to you and i hope there is a compromise that can be made.
PMPM has croth critters?
god damn dont they all now?
[quote]Soulja874 wrote:
Ive seen lots of fights…
never AN ACTUAL BODYSLAM LMAO
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Ive seen lots of fights…
never AN ACTUAL BODYSLAM LMAO
[/quote]
Dude you need to get into more schoolyard brawls. I’ve slammed someone in every fight I’ve ever been in. Not the smartest thing to do but it works lol.
[quote]Soulja874 wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
Ive seen lots of fights…
never AN ACTUAL BODYSLAM LMAO
[/quote]
Dude you need to get into more schoolyard brawls. I’ve slammed someone in every fight I’ve ever been in. Not the smartest thing to do but it works lol.[/quote]
So, what you’re saying is you beat up little kids all day? And, you want me to join you?
[quote]Edgy wrote:
compromise Hell ~
He’s wrong and She’s right.
She deserves her space and is allowed to have her feelings.
He needs to love and respect her as she is, roll with her ebb and flow of emotions and be there for her. support and encourage her. take care of her and help her to grow.
that’s what menz do~
And the real menz do it with a smile on thier faces.
:^)
(see?)[/quote]
Amen brother, it could not be said any better than this.
is it just me, or does it seem that I see more and more punk-ass guys who are dogging out their wimmenz? I am not talking about not being a man, but just treating women more and more like shit. Just an observation that I am seeing more and more, it’s fucking bullshit.