[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]tootles27 wrote:
[quote]pch2 wrote:
Oh, and she’s not in the academy. She’s a whore from our local coffee shop.
What adds to it Ct. is that I was open to open. Instead he said he didn’t want open and lied. [/quote]
Would you really have been OK with an open relationship?
Being in an open relationship wouldn’t work for me. I feel like people that want this have the ‘grass is greener’ syndrome and I’ve wasted enough time with those fools.[/quote]
From an open relationship.
These types of things are more friendship oriented and sex is just what happens at times. Basing a relationship around sex complicates everything. To eliminate that all you need to do is make sex less important on the list between a couple. You’ll find that relationship goes from “youre beatiful/hot/whatever” to “man, you’re so cool/smart/funny”.
I hear the “grass is greener” thing all the time and from my experience its not true. Going back to my point of building a strong enough friendship that the most mind blowing sex wont take you from your partner is the key. It sucks that in pch’s case the guy blew off the friendship by declining the offer to be open.
He probably did it because open relationships are seen as pervy and only engaged in by sex crazed people that can’t commit, again, not true. [/quote]
I’m not talking about sex really. It would bother me that he would even want to have certain connections with someone else. Not saying that I would want to be everything to a person because that’s a huge burden to bear. Some people are comfortable with multiple connections and that’s cool it’s just not for me. Me likes security even though there’s no guarantees in life.
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and they say you’re a freak? hmph! lol
I get what you mean though about wanting a more stable areana to play in. Maybe I’ll change my super liberal 20 year old mind someday.
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I know, I’m way more freaky in the head.
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lol
so, you’re a theorist and not into application.
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YES! Alot of people think it’s stupid that I don’t act the way I think but to me it makes perfect sense. Once there is ‘application’ (lol), things lose their appeal to me. (: