Hey everybody. I’ve made a thread or two before about becoming an officer in the military, but this is a bit different.
Currently, I’m in the process of applying for an Army ROTC scholarship that will pay for college. I have a good chance of receiving it and getting a lot of great benefits. However, there’s one issue that I have.
For about two years now, I’ve wanted to enlist first and then go to college. I’m 17 (turn 18 in a month) and have been weighing my options for a while. The biggest thing that is preventing me from enlisting is my parents. Pretty much, they won’t let me. I’ve tried to talk to them on numerous occasions and they tell me that if I enlist, then I’m never going to go to college afterword, or I’m going to die, etc. Quite frankly, I’m tired of it. I know they’re just being my parents and looking out for me, but I don’t want to wait to serve.
First and foremost, I want to serve my country; that is number one. Second, I want the life experience and challenge of being an enlisted guy. I’m hoping to become an officer some time down the road, and I think that serving 4 years in the enlisted ranks would do me some good and definitely help me become a better soldier and officer.
The Army has a program called SMP (Simultaneous Membership Program) where I can be in the National Guard and go to college and participate in my college’s ROTC program at the same time, which is also appealing to me. I only have to PT once a month and go for 2 weeks of training once a year. But again, my parents have told me it’ll be too much with school and ROTC.
Any thoughts as to what I should do?
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