[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
A man or women not so called will warp and pervert their sexuality with no God given outlet. No good thing can come of this situation and in all seriousness I don’t see how it can be denied that unnaturally suppressing one of the most powerful divinely designed human drives leads to sinful, perverse actions. This is made so blindingly clear by Paul in the 7th Chapter of his first to the Corinthians that the existence of even a discussion in that regard is truly disturbing.
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Okay, Tirib, your prejudices are beginning to show. Are you saying, then, that teens and unmarried men who choose to remain celibate until marriage are on a road to sin and perversion? [/quote]Of course not. Pre-marital purity is a wholly natural and divinely instituted state wherein God will provide the proper anointing for it’s fulfillment. I really also believe that modern society has perverted God’s intention by not marrying young and startinmg godly families. Actually pretty much EVERYTHING that modern man, especially western man does is designed to pervert God’s design for sex and the family. This site is a prime example.
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Okay, so let me get this straight, pre-marital purity is a wholly natural and divinely instituted state. Yet, celibacy, which Paul HIMSELF practiced, is something ultimately corrupting? Here are his words,
6 Now as a concession,not a command, I say this.7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
He is encouraging the practice here, offering it as an alternative to marriage AND sexual profligacy.
And he continues:
8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. 9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry.
“If they cannot,” doesn’t mean ALL should not. Where do you get that? Indeed his implication appears to be that is preferred.
[/quote]please see above. I said a man or woman “not so called”, as in without that calling. There is a special gifting God provides to those for whom He has prepared a celibate life. I am WELL aware of 1st Corinthians 7 which says exactly that. Those specifically gifted for singleness should live that way and are enabled to honor God in that life, but everyone else should not and any person assuming this call to themselves without divine appointment is subject to all of what my last couple posts were about. I didn’t see this until just now BTW. I would never say nobody should be celibate. A very dear elderly lady friend of mine who turns 80 in October is such a person whose entire life has been given wholly to the service of the Lord. She was not given the desire to be married and have children. That was God’s gifting specifically for her. Someone without that gifting attempting to live under it is a tragic disaster on the way and if you cannot concede that in at least some cases, especially men who have attempted to illegitimately suppress this God given drive have been perverted in the process then I say YOUR biases are showing.