Do Women Care How Much Weight A Guy Lifts?

[SkyzykS]

@unreal24278

far-right politics,

There had been a tremendous warping of the definitions and concepts behind what is and is not political for quite a while now.

Politics involves public policy or institutional policy making, its effects, and the theory and philosophical foundations that they are rooted in.

But when someone grabs a concept from a branch of philosophy or politics and twists it up to use as a weapon or the means to exact their will, its really no longer politics.

I just kinda wish people would stop doing that.

It’s like taking a baseball bat, which Is part of the game of baseball, and driving nails through it.

It’s no longer a bat at that point. It’s a bludgeoning device.

It’s not even a subtle difference.

[dagill2]

@unreal24278

I think wokism makes it somewhat more difficult

Why so?

[BrickHead]

@unreal24278

This is not what an incel is today. I’m not sure of the history behind the terminology. The current era interpretation of an incel someone who is involuntarily celibate.

Dr. Gilmartin used the term love-shy. Dr. Zimbardo called it something else. Some others simply use womanless man. Pick which term you want to. They all work.

@unreal24278

I don’t blame women for my predicament, I predominantly blame myself.

That’s alright, although as I said I went over eight or nine societal factors that might not affect you at all. The ninth or tenth factor I didn’t mention was demographic winter.

@unreal24278

A community rifle with misanthropy, misogyny, far-right politics, self loathing and even (at times) anti semitism and racism.

Some of those are actually all over PWI, or used to be.

@unreal24278

If the man CAN “just screw around” but doesn’t want to he isn’t an incel.

That would make him a so-called volcel.

[unreal24278]

@SkyzykS

There had been a tremendous warping of the definitions and concepts behind what is and is not political for quite a while now.

Agreed, however I’m not intending to bludgeon

I’m talking about concepts like nationalism, forced assimilation, anti egalitarianism, isolationism etc.

It’s interesting in that to a degree the extremes of the right and left wing spectrums harbour many similarities… though the two sides hate one another so much… if one looked at the particular ideologies both extremes push without context you’d think “they’re the same… aren’t they?”

[SkyzykS]

That’s all I intend to say on the matter.

Back to the Butt Stuff!

[unreal24278]

@BrickHead

Some of those are actually all over PWI, or used to be.

Yes… it’s not that uncommon to be “far right” or “far left” for that matter. Political factions on average are becoming more and more divisive.

Bordering extremes has become commonplace. Someone who resides on the far right of the political axis isn’t necessarily racist, rather they might adhere to many alt right talking points (such an individual might be termed as ‘alt lite’).

Same can be said for the left. You might be radically left wing in terms of social outlook yet but oppose socialism, Marxism or communism. You’re bordering on the far left… but you aren’t a communist.

[unreal24278]

@SkyzykS

Back to the Butt Stuff

I’m not sure how to respond to this

Realistically speaking, I don’t think many women (or men) are into this. Granted I don’t care who is or isn’t, so long as they’ve been vaccinated against HPV.

It’s avoids pregnancy, but I don’t buy the “it preserves virginity” logic that a few girls I went to highschool with upheld.

Penetration is penetration is it not?

[BrickHead]

@unreal24278

I think wokism makes it somewhat more difficult,

Is that because you don’t share woke views? Chances might be this might be a phase or not serious. Some women even just drop their views when they find a guy they like.

[unreal24278]

@BrickHead

Is that because you don’t share woke views

Two things

1: woke dating advice makes initiation very difficult. I’m expected to ask if it’s okay to pull the “yawn and put my arm around a girl”… or “could we please hold hands”… no… that’s confusing and awkward

2: I don’t share woke views. Amongst my demographic it is EXTREMELY common for individuals to hold woke views or reside on the “far left” side of the political spectrum. Many self identify as feminists… but the nasty type of self entitled third wave feminism that I really don’t appreciate.

I can’t speak out against this or disagree with woke ideology… or there won’t be a second date…

I’ve been arguing with some teenagers over here over “chromosomes don’t define your gender”..

Yes… they fucking do…

Me saying this is actually liable to piss quite a few people off.

I’ve been given the argument “gender and sex are different”… what’s the definition of gender again?

“either of the two sexes (male and female)”.

I’ll call you a they/them, I acknowledge gender dysphoria and transsexualism exists… I don’t care

I find it incredibly disingenuous for a large swath of woke kids to suddenly reject gender constructs and identify as men or women depending on the way they feel at the time. Then when I ask what they consider themselves "are you a boy or a girl’’ (speaking to biological woman here) “I’m not a girl”.

''So you’re a boy?"

“I’m neither”

And then they get all pissed off when a show like family guy makes a joke about trans people? It’s family guy… they make Jewish jokes, catholic jokes, gay jokes, straight jokes… no one is safe, if you don’t like it… don’t watch it

But woke people seemingly go OUT of their way to shut down opposing bodies of thought. There is no conversation that can be had and this is why I hate wokism so much.

If I was on a date and a girl was woke… but we could talk about it without it respectfully and agree to disagree yet still have a good time I’d be fine with it

But it appears woke people are out on the attack… same goes for much of the far right though.

What’s more, I feel as if SOME of those who identify as gender fluid yet aren’t really trans are doing a disservice to the actual trans community.

There are those who are SUICIDAL because they legitimately feel trapped in the wrong body. I feel for these people, and I think it is totally disingenuous and disrespectful for a bunch of dumb kids to be running around shouting about how they don’t adhere to gender norms because traditional gender constructs are sexist… so they’re neither male nor female.

Being trans is very uncommon and I really do feel for those who are as it must be a shiiiiiiiiiit life to go about your days trapped in a body that totally repulses you.

I also happen to believe wokism, particularly when we refer to economic outlooks stem from ignorance and a lack of worldliness. “Everyone ought to be given a rationed, evenly spread income no matter your profession”

Come back to me and say that again when you’ve struggled through college for eight years to practice medicine… then you specialise for another four years… and as a result you’re given a measly 10k per year, but the government provides you with a small apartment and enough food to cover basic necessities…

[RT_Nomad]

As much as I dislike growing old, maybe I am lucky to have been born when I was. Is the dating world really as convoluted as many of you describe?

Good luck out there to all. I am a forgotten dinosaur and never happier.

[SkyzykS]

@unreal24278

Two things

That’s like 40 things.

Try this-

Walk up to a chick and go “I’m a med student. Say ‘Ahh’.”.And when she does, look sternly at her and say “I don’t think it will fit, but it’s worth a shot…”.

Not that verbal derpocalypse you just dropped about the state of the world.

[unreal24278]

@SkyzykS

I’m a med student

I’m not a med student. Doing biomedicine

Maybe I’ll transition to medicine one day, but I feel as if I have a lot of growing up to do before I could do this

Biomed is a good avenue to get into medicine… or many other professions, hence why I chose it.

I didn’t really know what I wanted at 18, so I chose a degree that would open up many possibilities.

[Californiagrown]

@RT_Nomad

As much as I dislike growing old, maybe I am lucky to have been born when I was. Is the dating world really as convoluted as many of you describe?

No, it’s not. Same game, different uniforms.

If you’re in shape, have a good job, are smart, do cool stuff, have an ounce of personality and confidence, and most importantly… Are NICE, you’ll do well in whatever era you were trying to find a mate.

Probly easier now actually, as the pool to date from is sooooo much bigger due to online and dating apps. And societal restrictions on acceptable interests, fashion, culture is are so much looser now.

Young men and women complaining about the difficulties of dating is as old as non-arranged marriage.

[BrickHead]

If the environment you are in is that extremely woke generally, and it actually is hampering your chances at finding a wife, I’m surprised you solely blame yourself for your difficulty.

If on the other hand, there are plenty of non-woke women around and you don’t bother with them, then it might be your “fault”.

[SkyzykS]

@unreal24278

I’m not a med student. Doing biomedicine

That was not the point.

[unreal24278]

@BrickHead

the environment you are in is that extremely woke generally

Interestingly, the religious communities tend to be considerably less woke. But I’m not religious and I have qualms about dating within the Jewish community around where I lived (too far away… and many kids were very entitled… we even have a name for it… JAP… Jewish Australian princess).

But yes, university/uni students… very woke paradigm on average.

At my brothers university there was a conference/debate students were free to attend. It was something along the lines of “who was the better socialist? Leon Trotsky or Carl Marx”

I was joking about it with my brother because socialism socks. Almost every country that has experimented with pure socialism has wound up with crippling debt…

[Californiagrown]

@SkyzykS

derpocalypse.

Bravo! Adding this to the engineering arsenal… Clusterfuck was getting overused.

[unreal24278]

@BrickHead

If on the other hand, there are plenty of non-woke women around and you don’t bother with them

There are

But now that I’m not in Aus I’m having to go about meeting new people. I don’t know many girls here. I’ve started using tinder, but it doesn’t appear as if many are interested in dating.

My two options are

• try date an older woman
• ask my cousins to try set me up with someone

I’m going with option two. Option one seems inappropriate

[BrickHead]

I think one of your obstacles is you don’t understand the female mentality, woke or not.

[SkyzykS]

For when they’re trying to install the skylights before the walls are up.