[quote]nephorm wrote:
Tatjana23 wrote:
I’ll do that!
A year later?[/quote]
Maybe he just went out for cigarettes.
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[quote]Tatjana23 wrote:
She told me that she would like to have a 200-pound fat teddy bear. Isn’t this kinda freaky, right?[/quote]
I see this all the time. Woman want to feel protected. A big guy gives this illusion. Some girls like muscle, some like fatties. Not much you can do about that.
I remember years ago I was trying to work this redhead hottie but I just wasn’t her type. I was too skinny, too small. She was an aerobics instructor (remember aerobics before it was called cardio?) and hot hot hot. You could bounce a quarter off her ass she was so tight and hard. What kind of guy did she date? 250lb+ fatties. Life is cruel sometimes.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Tatjana23 wrote:
She told that she doesn’t dig muscles at all =D.
Then you should have been in those jeans in no time.[/quote]
OH SNAP!
[quote]Ericka wrote:
I love every ounce of my 6’1" 300lb man!!! Well, I am not a small girl by anoyone’s standards so big boys have always been my type, and I don’t want to be with some guy that I can out bench and out squat.[/quote]
Well then, I can bench and squat. Just not alot.
[quote]Doc Stig wrote:
AG1 wrote:
I’ve found people gravitate to ‘like bodies’.
What does that mean ?[/quote]
Simple…if you are a guy who weight trains, eat wells and has a great body comp. you will probably like a girl who is relatively the same. (and vice versa) If you watch TV for a hobby and eat alot of McDonald’s you are likely to tolerate these habits in a mate. Like tends to attract like.
[quote]AG1 wrote:
Doc Stig wrote:
AG1 wrote:
I’ve found people gravitate to ‘like bodies’.
What does that mean ?
Simple…if you are a guy who weight trains, eat wells and has a great body comp. you will probably like a girl who is relatively the same. (and vice versa) If you watch TV for a hobby and eat alot of McDonald’s you are likely to tolerate these habits in a mate. Like tends to attract like.
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Ok I see, thanks.
Maybe an unpolitically correct idea, but
surely less attractive (although Cassanova was no oil painting)and more overweight people set their sites lower ?
I don’t think she means that she doesn’t actually dig muscles.Some girls don’t dig guys with muscles.
Maybe she has had bad experiences with athletic guys and that has turned her off.Some good examples of why women don’t like muscle heads can be:
#1 they’re jealous(they’re better looking than the girl).
#2 they think they’re players
#3 they think they’re meatheads(not all athletic guys are).
#4 they think they’re not intelligent
#5 they take too much pride in themselves and are egotistical
However,I can understand girls that like taller/bigger guys.After all,men are men.They’re not meant to look like little girls.
[quote]Tatjana23 wrote:
Professor X wrote:
Tatjana23 wrote:
I’m very confused, because I was chatting with a 100-pound young girl and she told me that I’m too thin and muscular for her (I’m currently weighin 145). She told me that she would like to have a 200-pound fat teddy bear. Isn’t this kinda freaky, right?
Many girls like the security of being with a larger guy. I don’t think she was in any way referring to someone who was an obese 200lbs. She was probably referring to someone with a more “stocky” build. That isn’t odd at all. I have found that MANY smaller girls like larger men.
Also, unless you are under 5’7", you are NOT muscular at 145lbs…you are just skinny as hell and lean.
No no man! She actually told me that she wants a man with a huge BEERBELLY lol. She told that she doesn’t dig muscles at all =D.
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The protection thing is right on the money. I don’t know how many times I have heard this from both the girls that I have dated and most of my female friends. Many women are afraid of having personal crimes commited against them. They want a man who will stop anybody from trying to do anything to them and I can tell you that no matter how big and muscular you are, you are not going to stop someone from going after your girl. I am lucky enough to have the look and size of being able to kill a horse with my bare hands which scares alot of people especially men. My girlfriend often comments on how she got hit on when she goes out alone but never has a guy even get close to her when she is with me. Big guys scare off other guys which girls like, plain and simple.
[quote]bigscarymonster wrote:
I am lucky enough to have the look and size of being able to kill a horse with my bare hands
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Hence, the nick, I take it.
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[quote]ChazyChaz wrote:
Professor X wrote:
I have found that MANY smaller girls like larger men.
Prof X is a player :D[/quote]
I think ChazyChaz would be grateful to get professor x’s sloppy 2nd’s. What a kiss ass.
Having live oversea and traveled a fair amount, I would say that there are ?chub chasers? worldwide. Also, I have been skinny, muscular and ripped, fat, and everything in-between. And there are girls that like all types (regardless of their personal build.) I have found been outgoing, confident, and not too worried if anything happens is the biggest thing. If you are willing to just talk to a girl like a human, more time than not, you will end up going further than you thought. And if not?. Who cares? There is always more where that came from. In my experience, the only thing having a good body was good for was/is my own personal well being.
I am sorry to shatter your world, but at 145, you are not muscular.
She prefers the soft, teddy bear type, there is not a blessed thing you can do about it.
I think that women everywhere prefer their men to be somehow large. Tall, muscular, fat, just big in some way. Somebody that is 5’2", 110 and can curl a 20 pound dumbell is probably not going to attract many women. Somwhere, DEEP within our psych, we look for certain things. Men, a long time ago, had to fight a lot. A tall man could run fast, a muscular man could hit hard, and a fat boy probably was good at finding food, otherwise he wouldn’t be fat. Those things probably appeal to women, way down deep within their minds. Think about it like this-
Men like perky, large breasts. (not all men, but I bet theres more than a handful of us!) Deep down, it is probably our mind telling us that she can produce a lot of milk, and therefore feed our demonspawn better. We like a good hip to waist ratio, becuase, after all, it is hard for us to pass on our dna if our lady can’t even pass a golf ball.
At 145, not being very tall, and not neccessarily even being that strong, you probably don’t appeal to women that much on their animalistic side.
You couldn’t club a baby seal as well as a bigboy, you couldn’t run as fast or have the reach of a tallboy, and you obviously don’t know your way to the local mcdonalds like a fatboy. Animalistically speaking, your dinosuar bait. However, people aren’t completely animals per se. Personality, money and confidence are all things that weigh on women’s minds. Think of all the smaller people around here, who seem to be able to attract attractive women. No disrespect to Nate Dogg, but he has a nasty habit of attactiting fine looking ladies, even though he has to use a childs seat to drive his pickup truck. (just kidding about the child seat thing)
It does seem rather interesting that most of the vixens on here have big men for husbands/boyfriends.
[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
I think that women everywhere prefer their men to be somehow large, just big in some way.[/quote]
I rest Barney’s case.
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[quote]Cthulhu wrote:
I don’t think she means that she doesn’t actually dig muscles.Some girls don’t dig guys with muscles.
Maybe she has had bad experiences with athletic guys and that has turned her off.Some good examples of why women don’t like muscle heads can be:
#1 they’re jealous(they’re better looking than the girl).
#2 they think they’re players
#3 they think they’re meatheads(not all athletic guys are).
#4 they think they’re not intelligent
#5 they take too much pride in themselves and are egotistical
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And what’s wrong with taking pride in what you do? Shouldn’t that attract women?
And jealousy? WTF? I thought chicks were jealous of each other, for example: “look at me I’m sooooooo preeety”… etc.
[quote]The3toedSloth wrote:
BarneyFife wrote:
I think that women everywhere prefer their men to be somehow large, just big in some way.
I rest Barney’s case.
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I’m both disgusted by what he is and extreemly impressed by how much he does with so little… and the fact he did over 4000 women.
Absolutely.
It is safe to assume that whatever this woman likes will hold true for all skinny women.
3toed,
That’s actually a good picture of him. Much skinnier than he is now…er, uh, not that I’ve ever seen him or even know who he is…
fuck it.
I’m late to reply, but I’ll add what I think:
No one likes fat people. Fat people don’t like fat people.
Thank you
[quote]WolBarret wrote:
I’m late to reply, but I’ll add what I think:
No one likes fat people. Fat people don’t like fat people.
Thank you[/quote]
fat people are the devil.
[quote]The3toedSloth wrote:
BarneyFife wrote:
I think that women everywhere prefer their men to be somehow large, just big in some way.
I rest Barney’s case.
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Not only that, you have proven the point. Ol’ Ronnie was a fattie, and he sure had his share of skinny women. But perhaps that’s not what you meant by “big in some way”.
Fat, balding, with bad hair and a cheesy moustache, but he had the best pickup line in history:
“Hey, baby, I got a 10-inch cock!”