Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
Those who live in grow houses with a known base head (with warrants no less) shouldn’t be calling the police under any circumstances.
For obvious reasons, Distribution (dealing) of any drug is not dealt with as harshly as Manufacturing (growing). You’ve got real problems.
You have put yourself on a very steep learning curve. Right now you are at the bottom of it and the cops are at the top.
You and your brother (who is an accessory) need to be making some hard decisions right now, today. At this point it’s all about damage control and you two sound seriously damaged.
The fact that you didn’t have a really good criminal defense attorney on speed dial before you even ordered your seeds is a good sign that you are in way over your head. You should have been calling your lawyer before they entered your house.
The problem you have, is that with 40 plants in the house they can very reasonably argue to a judge, that when they talked to you on the night in question you wreaked like pot and you had a spaced out look about you that made them suspicious and they knew your brother from the local crackhouse they’ve been watching.
When the got to the front door of your house they could smell it. The K9 unit in one of the cars was begging for a milkbone before they got in your driveway.
Make no mistake, in the eyes of the law, you have 40 viable pot plants. Male, female, hermaphrodite it’s all good to the law.
In my state of MI 1-19 plants is a 7.5 year felony, 20 - 199 steps it up to a 15 year felony. 40 plants is serious.
If you are a dirt farmer they will weigh the plants in the pot with the dirt, so you are looking at possesion of possibly several hundred pounds of weed even if they just sprouted.
There is a place you and your brother can go to get FREE help tonight. It’s called the fellowship of Narcaotics Anonymous. You need to stop using, get a sponsor and start a 90/90 (ninety meetings in ninety days).
You and your brother freely making an admission that you both have a drug problem and are actively taking steps to deal with it, might get you a little mercy when you go before the judge. Rehabs cost thousands, NA is free.
The two of you telling the judge “this has been a much needed wake up call for our family”
might save Mommy and Daddy from losing the house. Think about it, you owe them that much.