[quote]1 Man Island wrote:
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
Incidentally, OP, whenever I see your name attached to a post, I imagine it being spoken by a well-endowed woman to her brassiere.
“Just lift, bra.”[/quote]
My girl saw this picture on my screen and accused me of looking at porn while we were talking.
I only do that w/ my mom… god.
[/quote]
Glad I could help. 
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny.
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
Yea college days.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
Yea college days.[/quote]
Derek downer, just because you were already popping them out by then.
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
Yea college days.[/quote]
Derek downer, just because you were already popping them out by then.
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Shit when I started college I had one already and the second a year later.
BUT when I was divorced going to college different story
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
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For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
[/quote]
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
I just noticed something. Is that “ghey” hat in your avatar still from that time way back when everyone was applying that hat to their avatars?
[quote]CLUNK wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
[/quote]
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
I just noticed something. Is that “ghey” hat in your avatar still from that time way back when everyone was applying that hat to their avatars?
[/quote]
Haha. Yep! Keeping it alive
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]CLUNK wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
[/quote]
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
I just noticed something. Is that “ghey” hat in your avatar still from that time way back when everyone was applying that hat to their avatars?
[/quote]
Haha. Yep! Keeping it alive[/quote]
Wormwood Theory!
I wonder where he went.
[quote]CLUNK wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]CLUNK wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
Back during my frat college days, it was a pretty common occurrence to wake up next to a female and not remember much of the events that transpired the night before. Never thought much of it, never heard any complaints and the girls would be gone by the late morning…
[/quote]
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
I just noticed something. Is that “ghey” hat in your avatar still from that time way back when everyone was applying that hat to their avatars?
[/quote]
Haha. Yep! Keeping it alive[/quote]
Wormwood Theory!
I wonder where he went.
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I was trying to remember what his name was. Last I remember he couldnt’ beat Lanky in a philly cheesesteak eating contest and then he disappeared. I am just too lazy to find the old pre-doctored photo of my bike and I don’t want a new avatar.
[quote]Yogi wrote:
do you guys remember what age you got to when getting laid just became part of your life and not something you felt the need to subtly brag about?[/quote]
Yeah…
It was glorious
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
Yeah, its the kind of doubt that’d be associated with lack of experience or lack of exposure to college aged youth. Or exposure to heavy drinking, in general.
See also: that recent maryjane thread
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Well played.
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
Yeah, its the kind of doubt that’d be associated with lack of experience or lack of exposure to college aged youth. Or exposure to heavy drinking, in general.
See also: that recent maryjane thread
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Well played.[/quote]
I have a rebuttal, just to give another perspective based on MY experiences. Having a one night stand is much like everything else, comes down to a numbers game. Quite simple as that, on any given night going out you will have only a small pool of women that will actually be interested in a night of promiscuity with no strings attached. That number also drastically decrease after a woman leaves her college years behind, and starts her journey to adulthood. Being “easy” is no longer something that the majority of woman boast about(at least not publicly, they keep those after work hobbies a bit more discreet). I may be wrong but I went to a large college, and we passed around sorority girls more than we’d probably like to admit.
It’s almost comparable to a perfect storm, certain conditions need to be met for a one night stand with a woman that doesn’t make you question your standards, and your existence the next morning. You know? That feeling you get when you take a shower the next morning, you scrub and scrub hoping that you can cleanse yourself. Sometimes hoping you can scrub your memories as well…
Anyways…you only have a small pool of women that will be attractive (I understand this is subjective, but there are certain standards that exemplify beauty), choose to go out to the same place and same time as you, and find you attractive as well. I’m sure there are others conditions (I.e alcohol, drunkenness and game level, previous experiences…)but these are the ones that I deemed necessary. Most productive, available and attractive males will only have two nights to go out and go “play” per week. Friday and Saturday night, this isn’t everyone but once again it’s a majority and I play percentages not those one in thousand hands that you need the planets to align.
Finding those attractive, willing women that you posted about, isn’t easy. In college it was like shooting fish in a barrel (based on my experience) but the “real” world mandates a new style of game. There are less and less women that are looking for that specific type of relationship. That woman you speak of, searching for a physical release solely, is much rarer than the woman seeking a previous relationship before “sealing the deal”. Just my two cents but I understand your point. This is all excluding relationships that you “pay” for, as that is not only pathetic but I think cheating.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Thanks for the sarcasm but I don’t see where I even implied, let alone said, that all women are the same?
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
Yeah, its the kind of doubt that’d be associated with lack of experience or lack of exposure to college aged youth. Or exposure to heavy drinking, in general.
See also: that recent maryjane thread
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Well played.[/quote]
I have a rebuttal, just to give another perspective based on MY experiences. Having a one night stand is much like everything else, comes down to a numbers game. Quite simple as that, on any given night going out you will have only a small pool of women that will actually be interested in a night of promiscuity with no strings attached. That number also drastically decrease after a woman leaves her college years behind, and starts her journey to adulthood. Being “easy” is no longer something that the majority of woman boast about(at least not publicly, they keep those after work hobbies a bit more discreet). I may be wrong but I went to a large college, and we passed around sorority girls more than we’d probably like to admit.
It’s almost comparable to a perfect storm, certain conditions need to be met for a one night stand with a woman that doesn’t make you question your standards, and your existence the next morning. You know? That feeling you get when you take a shower the next morning, you scrub and scrub hoping that you can cleanse yourself. Sometimes hoping you can scrub your memories as well…
Anyways…you only have a small pool of women that will be attractive (I understand this is subjective, but there are certain standards that exemplify beauty), choose to go out to the same place and same time as you, and find you attractive as well. I’m sure there are others conditions (I.e alcohol, drunkenness and game level, previous experiences…)but these are the ones that I deemed necessary. Most productive, available and attractive males will only have two nights to go out and go “play” per week. Friday and Saturday night, this isn’t everyone but once again it’s a majority and I play percentages not those one in thousand hands that you need the planets to align. Finding those attractive, willing women that you posted about, isn’t easy. In college it was like shooting fish in a barrel (based on my experience) but the “real” world mandates a new style of game. There are less and less women that are looking for that specific type of relationship. That woman you speak of, searching for a physical release solely, is much rarer than the woman seeking a previous relationship before “sealing the deal”. Just my two cents but I understand your point. This is all excluding relationships that you “pay” for, as that is not only pathetic but I think cheating. [/quote]
If the women willing to engage in NSA sex disappear after college then I would say a good number of them found someone with whom they wanted to have a relationship, rather than that they suddenly took a frank look at their Sexual Market Value and abruptly changed course. Why are they different from men? Fooling around while they look for someone special, then settling down when they find him.
Remember that not all men care that women have been sexually active. I would assume that the ones left mouldering on the shelf into their late 20s and early 30s have something wrong with them, e.g. unpleasant to be in a relationship with.
Or, could all be a diabolically well-thought scam, played out on a global scale. Hard to say.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
Yeah, its the kind of doubt that’d be associated with lack of experience or lack of exposure to college aged youth. Or exposure to heavy drinking, in general.
See also: that recent maryjane thread
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Well played.[/quote]
I have a rebuttal, just to give another perspective based on MY experiences. Having a one night stand is much like everything else, comes down to a numbers game. Quite simple as that, on any given night going out you will have only a small pool of women that will actually be interested in a night of promiscuity with no strings attached. That number also drastically decrease after a woman leaves her college years behind, and starts her journey to adulthood. Being “easy” is no longer something that the majority of woman boast about(at least not publicly, they keep those after work hobbies a bit more discreet). I may be wrong but I went to a large college, and we passed around sorority girls more than we’d probably like to admit.
It’s almost comparable to a perfect storm, certain conditions need to be met for a one night stand with a woman that doesn’t make you question your standards, and your existence the next morning. You know? That feeling you get when you take a shower the next morning, you scrub and scrub hoping that you can cleanse yourself. Sometimes hoping you can scrub your memories as well…
Anyways…you only have a small pool of women that will be attractive (I understand this is subjective, but there are certain standards that exemplify beauty), choose to go out to the same place and same time as you, and find you attractive as well. I’m sure there are others conditions (I.e alcohol, drunkenness and game level, previous experiences…)but these are the ones that I deemed necessary. Most productive, available and attractive males will only have two nights to go out and go “play” per week. Friday and Saturday night, this isn’t everyone but once again it’s a majority and I play percentages not those one in thousand hands that you need the planets to align. Finding those attractive, willing women that you posted about, isn’t easy. In college it was like shooting fish in a barrel (based on my experience) but the “real” world mandates a new style of game. There are less and less women that are looking for that specific type of relationship. That woman you speak of, searching for a physical release solely, is much rarer than the woman seeking a previous relationship before “sealing the deal”. Just my two cents but I understand your point. This is all excluding relationships that you “pay” for, as that is not only pathetic but I think cheating. [/quote]
If the women willing to engage in NSA sex disappear after college then I would say a good number of them found someone with whom they wanted to have a relationship, rather than that they suddenly took a frank look at their Sexual Market Value and abruptly changed course. Why are they different from men? Fooling around while they look for someone special, then settling down when they find him.
Remember that not all men care that women have been sexually active. I would assume that the ones left mouldering on the shelf into their late 20s and early 30s have something wrong with them, e.g. unpleasant to be in a relationship with.
Or, could all be a diabolically well-thought scam, played out on a global scale. Hard to say.[/quote]
A virgin bride has an 80%+ chance of staying married. That drops to around 50% if she has had sex with even one man before marriage other than her eventual husband (pre-marital sex with the eventual husband does have a negative effect but it is small). A woman who has had 5+ sexual partners before getting married has a greater than 70% chance of getting divorced.
Most men (almost all) care about how number of past partners when considering a long term partner (per above, the ones that don’t probably should). Most women instinctively know this and thus try to hide their partner count. Obviously, for some men it’s a much bigger deal than for others. That’s different than not caring.
[quote]Silyak wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
For real. I’m sort of surprised there is a question of the validity of a blacked out sexcapade. I’ve had my share of waking up next to a girl that I don’t even remember meeting up with. Made sure I got another go in the morning so I could at least count it. But I have always been a very very functional black out drunk. It’s also part of the reason I have severely limited my alcohol consumption- got myself into too much shit that I had no knowledge of until filled in later.[/quote]
Yeah, its the kind of doubt that’d be associated with lack of experience or lack of exposure to college aged youth. Or exposure to heavy drinking, in general.
See also: that recent maryjane thread
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Well played.[/quote]
I have a rebuttal, just to give another perspective based on MY experiences. Having a one night stand is much like everything else, comes down to a numbers game. Quite simple as that, on any given night going out you will have only a small pool of women that will actually be interested in a night of promiscuity with no strings attached. That number also drastically decrease after a woman leaves her college years behind, and starts her journey to adulthood. Being “easy” is no longer something that the majority of woman boast about(at least not publicly, they keep those after work hobbies a bit more discreet). I may be wrong but I went to a large college, and we passed around sorority girls more than we’d probably like to admit.
It’s almost comparable to a perfect storm, certain conditions need to be met for a one night stand with a woman that doesn’t make you question your standards, and your existence the next morning. You know? That feeling you get when you take a shower the next morning, you scrub and scrub hoping that you can cleanse yourself. Sometimes hoping you can scrub your memories as well…
Anyways…you only have a small pool of women that will be attractive (I understand this is subjective, but there are certain standards that exemplify beauty), choose to go out to the same place and same time as you, and find you attractive as well. I’m sure there are others conditions (I.e alcohol, drunkenness and game level, previous experiences…)but these are the ones that I deemed necessary. Most productive, available and attractive males will only have two nights to go out and go “play” per week. Friday and Saturday night, this isn’t everyone but once again it’s a majority and I play percentages not those one in thousand hands that you need the planets to align. Finding those attractive, willing women that you posted about, isn’t easy. In college it was like shooting fish in a barrel (based on my experience) but the “real” world mandates a new style of game. There are less and less women that are looking for that specific type of relationship. That woman you speak of, searching for a physical release solely, is much rarer than the woman seeking a previous relationship before “sealing the deal”. Just my two cents but I understand your point. This is all excluding relationships that you “pay” for, as that is not only pathetic but I think cheating. [/quote]
If the women willing to engage in NSA sex disappear after college then I would say a good number of them found someone with whom they wanted to have a relationship, rather than that they suddenly took a frank look at their Sexual Market Value and abruptly changed course. Why are they different from men? Fooling around while they look for someone special, then settling down when they find him.
Remember that not all men care that women have been sexually active. I would assume that the ones left mouldering on the shelf into their late 20s and early 30s have something wrong with them, e.g. unpleasant to be in a relationship with.
Or, could all be a diabolically well-thought scam, played out on a global scale. Hard to say.[/quote]
SCIENCE! [/quote]
Love the Internet
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]tsantos wrote:
[quote]jzy50309 wrote:
On a serious note, I hate the social stigma associated with the promiscuous one night stand. Woman shouldn’t feel objectified, or disgusted with the thought of having sexual relations with a relative stranger, its a primordial instinct. No reason to justify it with excuses, such as: I drank too much, or it was drunk mistake…We all know it was no mistake, you just were horny. [/quote]
No issues with this, however, I don’t understand why women who do do this then get so righteous about men only being interested in them for sex. Or why they continue to find themselves single - as if it’s an issue with the guy when he doesn’t want anything serious with someone who has bedded more people than he’s shaken hands with.[/quote]
But, like, imagine there was more than one kind of woman. One might like to get to know men before thinking about sleeping with them, while another could be interested in physical pleasure rather than commitment. Wouldn’t that be crazy? Like, ALL DIFFERENT WOMEN.[/quote]
Thanks for the sarcasm but I don’t see where I even implied, let alone said, that all women are the same? [/quote]
So you have encountered women who both play the field sexually and bemoan that men only want sex? Somehow I think not.