[quote]TACHICK wrote:
PGA200X wrote:
What the hell, has this turned into the Ruggedmag forums? 
LOL PGA…no, it’s the Antman “I whine and cry about my life seeking sympathy from other guys because my girl finally got smart and left my sorry woman-beating self.”
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I had a similar situation occur. After a tempestous breakup, my ex-girlfriend went on a rampage and straight lied, telling anyone and everyone that would listen that I hit her. I began getting calls from close friends who couldn’t belive what they heard, asking me if it was true. I told them that she was lying, but refused to run around pre-emptively telling everyone that she was lying. I felt it was beneath me.
I’ll tell you one thing, there is nothing worse than having your name slandered by jack-asserey and trying not to stoop to that high-school gossip B.S. yourself. She even began to threaten me by saying that she was going to try to put me in jail for assaulting her!
In frustration, I started looking around on the internet for guys who had been in similar situations, and to my amazement, there is a freaking entire network or forums, legal sites, legal specialists, and help-groups dedicated to men who have had ex-wives, girlfriends, etc. deceitfully slander them by falsely accusing them of abuse, and even worse, accusing them of abusing children! I mean this shit apparently happens so much that there are legal specialists and firms that deal solely with cases such as this! That turned my stomach.
To this day, I feel the only thing worse than a man who hits a girl is a girl who lies about a man hitting her. These women are the lowest of the low, and the most desperate, sorry hags ever to walk the earth.
My best advice is, even though hard, is to simply keep quiet. Maintain your cool and dignity, and speak the truth only when asked. Be honest to the letter, and never succumb to anger or say anything in spite. The truth, and this person’s true nature, will be revealed plainly for all to see in time.
You probably still have love for this girl; god knows I still love my ex, despite all she has done for me. I just pity her from a distance, and wish her the best. We did, after all, have good times. She’s just a different person now.
Anyway Ant, sorry for the rant, and if you need legal advice, or want to know what steps to take to protect yourself should you feel things might escalate, you can PM me. In my opinion and experience, when dealing with a crazy, scornful chick, it never hurts to take extra measures to protect yourself.
