'Dear Woman' Video

They’re a bunch of dorky virgins who have sunk to the level of trying to appeal to women by being different than all the rest of the ‘asshole’ men in the world. Their intentions are the same as any other man; to get with women. They’ve adopted this technique because they lack any sort of aggressive or competitive drive and are generally weird pussies. So, instead of confidently entering into engagements with women, they made a weird video and put it on the internet. These are the worst kind of people.

LOLz:

  • all dudes from 3-3:20 (esp. the black dude)
    -“We devalued feeling and intuition in favor of a view of data and logic”
    -The fact that a 7 min. youtube vid is supposed to make up for rape and human trafficking

[quote]1 Man Island wrote:
rape and human trafficking
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And burning at the stake.

Can’t wait to see their Dear Black People video… prob like this:

[quote]csulli wrote:
“Your ability to apologize and forgive with grace”

lolwut[/quote]

I have seen the video before but that must have escaped me.

After almost falling off my chair, I am trying to remember when a woman sincerely apologized to me or forgave with grace.

For some guys, the last remaining way to be a man is to feel guilty about it.
It’s a sort of swan song.
No wonder it’s not pretty.

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[quote]kamui wrote:
For some guys, the last remaining way to be a man is to feel guilty about it.
It’s a sort of swan song.
No wonder it’s not pretty.

[/quote]

I think feeling guilt for something you didn’t do and had no part of is a sign of mental illness.

I think that when certain interest groups, be they feminist, or race baitors like Al Sharpton for example try to impose a collective guilt on someone because they’re white or male or whatever, they are obviously trying to gain advantage, be it social or economic. And I don’t blame them! If a certain play consistently puts points on the board you’d be a fool not to run it.

But I don’t understand the motivation to grovel in submission. Any sane, reasonable person knows that’s not a strategy for success. I didn’t watch the video by the way, but it’s not hard to deduce it’s content by the response it gets.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
“Your ability to apologize and forgive with grace”

lolwut[/quote]

I have seen the video before but that must have escaped me.

After almost falling off my chair, I am trying to remember when a woman sincerely apologized to me or forgave with grace. [/quote]

Oh come on now, I’ve forgiven you with grace at least twice.

[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:

[quote]kamui wrote:
For some guys, the last remaining way to be a man is to feel guilty about it.
It’s a sort of swan song.
No wonder it’s not pretty.

[/quote]

I think feeling guilt for something you didn’t do and had no part of is a sign of mental illness.

I think that when certain interest groups, be they feminist, or race baitors like Al Sharpton for example try to impose a collective guilt on someone because they’re white or male or whatever, they are obviously trying to gain advantage, be it social or economic. And I don’t blame them! If a certain play consistently puts points on the board you’d be a fool not to run it.

But I don’t understand the motivation to grovel in submission. Any sane, reasonable person knows that’s not a strategy for success. I didn’t watch the video by the way, but it’s not hard to deduce it’s content by the response it gets.[/quote]

I agree. I cannot imagine apologizing on behalf of dishonorable women or using the term “we” to describe them and myself. Do I owe an apology for the Lorena Bobbit incident or for the women who laughed about it when I found both the action and the response repugnant? No.

The video smacks of smarmy manipulation, though for what purpose I can’t imagine.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:

[quote]kamui wrote:
For some guys, the last remaining way to be a man is to feel guilty about it.
It’s a sort of swan song.
No wonder it’s not pretty.

[/quote]

I think feeling guilt for something you didn’t do and had no part of is a sign of mental illness.

I think that when certain interest groups, be they feminist, or race baitors like Al Sharpton for example try to impose a collective guilt on someone because they’re white or male or whatever, they are obviously trying to gain advantage, be it social or economic. And I don’t blame them! If a certain play consistently puts points on the board you’d be a fool not to run it.

But I don’t understand the motivation to grovel in submission. Any sane, reasonable person knows that’s not a strategy for success. I didn’t watch the video by the way, but it’s not hard to deduce it’s content by the response it gets.[/quote]

I agree. I cannot imagine apologizing on behalf of dishonorable women or using the term “we” to describe them and myself. Do I owe an apology for the Lorena Bobbit incident or for the women who laughed about it when I found both the action and the response repugnant? No.

The video smacks of smarmy manipulation, though for what purpose I can’t imagine. [/quote]

Just like a woman to bring up old an argument.

I keed! I keed!

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

The video smacks of smarmy manipulation, though for what purpose I can’t imagine. [/quote]

The same reason people train their dogs to bring their newspaper and slippers. The same reason people get their dogs castrated. It makes them more docile and submissive. They want a guy that will do whatever they say and won’t argue or talk back. Kind of the same thing that feminists accuse men of doing to women. Two sides to the same coin.

Eh, feminists can be annoying.

Its actually true SexMachine. When I think about it and am honest, I justify feminists because I recognize their acts as a sort of angst representation against a male dominated society…

So, why am I annoyed so much at these guys? It does all seem strange. They are doing the same thing, except they are guys appealing to women. I think the difference is that feminists aren’t making the same sort of pathetic pleading appeals?

I’m nowhere near as annoyed at feminists than I am these guys.

[quote]Severiano wrote:
So, why am I annoyed so much at these guys? It does all seem strange. They are doing the same thing, except they are guys appealing to women. I think the difference is that feminists aren’t making the same sort of pathetic pleading appeals?
[/quote]

I’m annoyed at them because they talk about “we”.

No. It is not a “we”. You do not represent men, no more than Elliot Rodgers and other misogynists represent men.

I would like it if people stopped taking the actions of the many to represent the actions of the whole, or even the people that are outside of the “many”.

It’ll never happen though.

[quote]Severiano wrote:
Eh, feminists can be annoying.

Its actually true SexMachine. When I think about it and am honest, I justify feminists because I recognize their acts as a sort of angst representation against a male dominated society…

[/quote]

It’s not a “male dominated society.” More girls go to university today than guys. Notice how feminists aren’t really interested in activism in societies where women really are oppressed? Radical feminism is just misandry.

I blame these guys too. You don’t blame a rattlesnake for biting someone. That’s just the snake’s nature. You blame the idiot who tried to pick it up.

Even though I think it’s a good idea to keep masculinity in check this video was cringe-inducing. It also panders to American women (who are the ones most likely soo see it) who may have been reassured by society into thinking they are perfect in every way in anything they do too much already.

Allow me to explain the first part of my sentence. I think many guys will blindly follow certain ideas dogmatically because it’s a guy thing. Even in something like gun control. How much of the opposition to gun control is due to guys not wanting to look unmasculine? I’ve fired lots of weapons and it was hard for me to get over the idea that gun=manliness.

Or some guy says Transformers is great because there’s a hot chick in it. You don’t care? Fag!
Watch porn instead I say and then watch a movie that makes sense.
Sometimes I order a salad at a local restaurant…hey, I need veggies…and some coworker will say something like I must suck cock or whatever. Fucker’s from Texas though.

That’s only a little pet idea of mine and not very coherent…so don’t give me too much shit about it.

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

The video smacks of smarmy manipulation, though for what purpose I can’t imagine. [/quote]

The same reason people train their dogs to bring their newspaper and slippers. The same reason people get their dogs castrated. It makes them more docile and submissive. They want a guy that will do whatever they say and won’t argue or talk back. Kind of the same thing that feminists accuse men of doing to women. Two sides to the same coin.[/quote]

So you believe that the feminists somehow demanded this of these men?

I’ve been pleased by apologies on the part of organizations (e.g. the Catholic Church) and I also appreciate the acknowledgement of individuals that group behavior wasn’t right - say, Germans expressing regret over the Holocaust. But there was something different about this. Maybe the worship part. Do the Germans need to worship Jews now to rebalance things, or just leave them the hell alone? Do the Catholics become more like the Muslims? Also, the Catholics and Germans had leadership that was able to speak for administrative decisions past and present. These men are speaking for whom?

It’s irritating. I don’t want anyone worshipping my feminine energy any more than I’ve appreciated being backed into corners by drunk guys thinking they were being sexy. Stop trying to decide for me what I represent - your conquest, your object of reverence - and leave me the hell alone.

Also, I don’t think I have the kind of feminine energy they seem to be crediting me with. And I consider myself pretty feminine! But I avoid men and women of the sort the video embraces. Feminine /= weird and cloying.

[quote]Nards wrote:
Even though I think it’s a good idea to keep masculinity in check this video was cringe-inducing. It also panders to American women (who are the ones most likely soo see it) who may have been reassured by society into thinking they are perfect in every way in anything they do too much already.

Allow me to explain the first part of my sentence. I think many guys will blindly follow certain ideas dogmatically because it’s a guy thing. Even in something like gun control. How much of the opposition to gun control is due to guys not wanting to look unmasculine? I’ve fired lots of weapons and it was hard for me to get over the idea that gun=manliness.
Or some guy says Transformers is great because there’s a hot chick in it. You don’t care? Fag!
Watch porn instead I say and then watch a movie that makes sense.
Sometimes I order a salad at a local restaurant…hey, I need veggies…and some coworker will say something like I must suck cock or whatever. Fucker’s from Texas though.

That’s only a little pet idea of mine and not very coherent…so don’t give me too much shit about it.[/quote]

Haha, man you really nailed it with your explanation.

Kinda interesting, that shit was a big deal to me until I joined the Military. Now, I just don’t give a fuck and define the world by the way I see it.

Transformers is fucking retarded!

But, I’m totally down to go see Planet of the Apes haha. I actually love the old/new ones. Shit’s like O.G. Starwars on a good batch of Bladerunner.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

So you believe that the feminists somehow demanded this of these men?

[/quote]

Many men - especially these days - are really weak and easily manipulated. Especially desperate men. The men in that video literally oozed a desperate weirdo vibe. That’s why normal women steer clear of them. They have good sense. These desperate creepy men are then easy prey for radical manipulative feminists.

I should point out I don’t have any problem with genuine women’s rights. But like all these identity movements nowadays they’re infested with radicals.

[quote]1 Man Island wrote:
Can’t wait to see their Dear Black People video… prob like this:

it always comes down to making fun of the Gingers -

(le sigh)