LOL, looks that way.
Iâm 5â6 and my college girlfriend was 5â11, with most of her height advantage in her legs. But we had the same hobbies like martial arts and D&D and I was a black belt with a three hundred pound bench press and she was more opinionated than many men (and women) liked in a woman. If someone is looking for a quantity of encounters, then I suppose there are a variety of tactical considerations, but if someone is looking for a quality relationship, patience, honesty, and your own qualifications as a mate should be cultivated.
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My husband is 3-4" shorter than me. Iâm 5â6". As far as I understand he never had issues meeting or getting women. I certainly noticed that he was/is shorter than me but the only time itâs an issue is when weâre squatting. I just learned to set up with the bar lower 
Attitude is everything.
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Compromise is key to every relationship lol
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Apparently she began the first message with âare you into trans women?â
He just never responded (he claims).
So youâre saying somewhere out there is a tranny waiting for a response huh? Cold bloodedâŠ
Canât say I know what it feels like to feel so short, Iâm 5â11. But your story does remind me of when I worked retail in college. We would have a customer come in, he mustâve been 5â4 to 5â5. Really nice guy, very polite, well kept, and he would joke around with us if something funny came up. He would always show up with his SMOKING HOT WIFE!! This woman, had an amazing body, gorgeous face, and was probably 5 inches taller than him. Also very well kept. I thought maybe he made a ton of money, but he didnât seem to be too flashy, so I just chalked it up to him probably being hung like a horse. Either way his wife seemed to really love him, the way she stared at him and the way they interacted made it clear it wasnât about money, also they had kids.
Iâm sure money helps, but in the end just keep being a good guy and youâre bound to find someone who really likes you. Youâre still young, try maybe going places you donât normally go to. See if a different set of people would do you some good.
I am 6â4" and my wife is 5â2". Honestly if I were a single man I probably wouldnât date any taller than that. What pisses me off about being tall is (I believe) they tag smaller shirts with a bigger size so the smaller guys can feel a little bigger. I sometimes shop with my wife and think they do the opposite with womenâs clothes.
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I was a 6â3â freshman and all the girls loved me when I was kicking ass at sports. Walking down the halls I was a freak.
Although, now my biggest problem is I canât fit in any sports cars and shoes are near impossible to find. Fuckng sucks.
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Solid point, had three flights yesterday. My knees and back hurt today. Not to mention every fat ass who walks down the aisle mid flight either steps on my toes, which are in the aisle, or slams their fat ass against my shoulders.
If Iâm 6â1", where do I sit to get boobs to knock into my face?
I always sit at the seat in front of the bartenders sink when I go to Hooters.
I couldnât stop laughing at this
Damn lol Does he smell bad as well?
Related, make sure you smell great, your teeth are clean and hair/nails trimmed (make sure you dont have hair coming out of your ears or nose lol) Try look after your skin as well, women seem to notice nice skin - make sure all scales are removed. That goes a very long way.
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Thanks for the CONSTRUCTIVE comments from people like Flipcollar. I shall bear these in mind. As for the insults and rudeness displayed by those on here with less IQ I shall put your petulant comments and observations down to a lack of intellect and also an underdeveloped capacity for empathy and understanding, otherwise termed emotional intelligence.
so now youâve had people with PERSONAL experiences, both men and women, who disagree with your belief. Does that change your opinion at all?
Own who you are and be yourself. Thereâs nothing wrong with short, so donât worry about it. And 5â7" ainât that short. 5â4" is short. 5â7" is average.
Also, donât be in a hurry. You might accidentally meet âthe oneâ and then you are stuck with her the rest of your life.
Most men have bad experiences with women. And vice versa. It makes for great song lyrics.
I like being an elder statesman. You can learn from my mistakes. Donât rush anything. Embrace who you are and like it. Also, donât put women on a pedestal, they are just regular people like you and I. I made that mistake and it made me miserable. Once you figure that out, then you will be far less intimidated. And if you have the means, travel, as much as you can, experience the world. Itâs the best education you can get.
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After reading this thread Iâm wondering if I should stop driving my truck.
You should consider the concept of the false because. Although it wonât really help you with your height directly, it might explain your experience.
Some women might tell you that things arenât working out because of your height. However, if a fantastically charismatic, confident, rich, fit, good looking, well-groomed man showed interest in a woman, about 95% of them could overlook the fact that he was 5â7â. The others are just being honest that they need a man of a certain height before they feel it. This is not to say that your height has nothing to do with any rejection you have faced or that your experience wouldnât be different if you were taller. But you almost certainly werenât rejected in most cases solely based on height.
The height reason is something that women tell themselves and you because itâs convenient and easy. Itâs convenient because she doesnât have to dig deep and understand the real balance of reasons. Itâs convenient because you canât argue with it. Itâs convenient because from a certain point of view itâs actually nicer because there is nothing you can do about it and thus it isnât your fault.
I donât think most women actually consciously make this decision. Most people make decisions based on something they canât explain and then make up the reasons afterwards. Height is just an easy reason to make up. And itâs probably true that if you were taller they would like you better. Or maybe theyâd just give you a different reason to end it. Either way, focus on what you can change.
I put mine on Craigslist immediately. Also selling the olâ Corvette to buy a Camry.
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Instead of putting it down to the fact youâre a whiny little douche? Just like you put the fact you canât get girls down to the fact youâre a manlet when in fact itâs because youâre a whiny little douche?
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