There are a lot of benefits and good things to take from lifting and training in general. It can be a good outlet or hobby, to give you something interesting to do or think about, like Rob mentioned. Or provide structure or order to your life, like Mark (maybe ) was getting at.
There are also lots of ways to “improve” or “get better” in the gym. You can get stronger, leaner, learn technical lifts, jump higher, increase from a small workload to a bigger workload, and on and on…
Sometimes it’s all great. The regimented lifestyle feels good, the actual workouts are enjoyable, the gains are coming and you’re meeting your goals. Everything is awesome.
Other times, the lifestyle is cool. The workouts are hard and kinda tedious, but the gains are so good it makes up for it. And you’re making progress towards your goals so overall it’s still really good.
Other times you bust your ass with challenging workouts, but don’t make progress so it’s frustrating. Or you bust your ass with challenging workouts, make progress in what you’re doing, but you move further away from what you really want. Nite the worst. Like when beginners do months of starting strength and end super disappointed and skinny fat with sore backs.
For awhile I was really trying to get my squat “better” in a powerlifting sense, like to depth and stronger. I spent a few hours a week messing with it, and I got minimal results and a sore back. It was cool to be in the gym, and fun to have challenging, interesting workouts, and to make progress breaking records all the time. but I was kinda frustrated and pissed off until I realized what I really wanted was a little meat on my legs and to be able to tie my shoes with out warming up first.
Now my individual workouts aren’t ass bad ass or fun. Westside style lower body workouts are really awesome, step ups and calf raises are not that great. But I’m making progress in what I want, more muscles, so I’m more satisfied now.
Strongman was cool for me for awhile. It was a fun challenge and great motivation to train hard and get results. And then a fun chance to compete. Then after awhile it was just a lot of worrying about improving yoke and max log, taking a beating to try improve on some stuff I didn’t really like messing around with. It made it way less fun.