[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
I originally glanced through the video, now I’m actually listening to it. I signed the petition yesterday.
Most of her statements are too ridiculous to repeat.
Honestly, he did not do a very good job defending his position. He pretty much sat there and took it, then whined about it afterward. Instead of challenging her statements to the point that they were broken down and shown to be as ridiculous as they were, he allowed her to believe she “won”, which positively reinforces her behavior.
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How do you argue with the person that controls whether you get to see your daughter or not?[/quote]
Looking at the meeting from a legal standpoint, his goal is to make sure that the documentation works in his favor.
By not challenging her, he’s “allowed” her to write down those assessments as truth, in the notes that will be presented to the court. Most likely she will leave out several facts and summarize it as “father is not concerned about child’s health and wellbeing”, elaborating on “is encouraging an eating disorder” and on some variant of “scaring the child [via allegedly reading off side effects of the drugs]” and “actively working against doctor’s orders”.
A bunch of things that make him look bad, that will be in official documents.
Those are the things he should have challenged.
Because based on what she probably wrote, that meeting probably made things worse for him.[/quote]
I think you completely miss the point of the meeting.
This meeting was held to ‘correct’ the father’s behavior. It has already been determined that his actions were ‘incorrect’, that point is not up for debate at this time, and arguing with CPS (or even worse…acting like you don’t get it) only digs the hole deeper. CPS is not a neutral party! This guy hands them the bat to beat him with.
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In that case, I did completely miss the point of the meeting.
I thought this was basically:
- Mom made an allegation about Dad’s behavior
- CPS consults with Dad about the allegation
- CPS presents their assessment of the situation to the court