[quote]Cortes wrote:And what does the barometer of foul language measure?
[/quote]I once sent this in an email to a friend: [quote]While I have you here I have to say that I really wish you wouldn’t use that profane language. I’m not your Mama or your pastor and I’m not saying this with an attitude of fundamentalist judgment. Honestly. It does not become a man of God. I think of you more highly than that. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks Jesus said. I just can’t believe you would say “f bomb laden expletives” if you were in the presence of the Lord, which you are.
Do a bible study sometime on the significance and power of the spoken word. It will change the way you speak on every level. I don’t mean some bizarre heretical name it n claim it new age doctrine either. The power of spoken communication is a major component of the image of God in man. It is to be cherished and guarded and used only in ways that bring glory and honor to it’s author. We shouldn’t say anything to each other that we wouldn’t say in prayer to Christ Himself. Can you imagine Mary talking like that?
My head dropped and I winced when I read that because it’s ugly coming from you. I don’t see you like that anymore. This is from my heart {friends name}. Please do take it that way.[/quote]Ephesians 4:29>[quote]Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.[/quote]Colossians 3:8>[quote]But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.[/quote]1 Timothy 4:12>[quote]Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.[/quote]James 1:26>[quote]If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless.[/quote]How bout a couple of your own. Sirach 23:13>[quote]Let not your mouth become used to coarse talk, for in it lies sinful matter.[/quote]and 23:15>[quote]A man who has the habit of abusive language will never mature in character as long as he lives.[/quote]Folks can rationalize all they want. Spoken communication IS part of our being created in the image of God and used for any other purpose than bringing glory to His name and representing Him in purity and faithfulness betrays a heart that does not grasp it’s responsibilities before His throne. Jesus did indeed say, “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks”. If filth is coming out guess what’s inside?
I stop right where I am and if I can’t say what I’m about to, to God in prayer? I won’t say it. I also will not give occasion for unbelievers to unjustly scoff at my claim upon His name because I don’t speak or act any different than they do. They will have plenty to scoff at already if I’m being faithful without my illegitimately adding my own lack of self control to their list. It’s a first telltale sign to me. “I’m a Christian you fking ahole!!!”. Tell somebody else please.