[quote]forlife wrote:
Sloth wrote:
On the contrary, they often have a whole congregation to love (and be loved by) and look after (and to be looked after by). It’s their bedroom behavior you’re concerned with, interestingly enough. Though, as has been said repeatedly, marriage IS a valid vocation (yes, marriage is it’s own vocation), too. They CAN leave one vocation, for another. Voluntarily.
Why should they have to choose between loving their congregation and loving their wife and children? It’s a completely unnecessary dichotomy, and I think it’s sad.
The more a church tries to control the intimate deatails of your life, the more concerned they are with having power over others. I just finished a book on Michelangelo that discussed how extensively the Catholic church has dominated the lives of others, through direct or (as in this case) indirect force. I don’t think this applies to all (particularly American) Catholics to the same degree, but it is still there.
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Again, catholic church trying to control the intimate details of your life, bad, government trying to control the intimate details of your life, good?
Why?
So others are wrong when they do it just because they can, but when you do it just because you can it is a-ok?
Either you are for coercing other people for their own good or you are not. You cannot complain when it is done to you and yet want to do it to others, you instantly lose all credibility.
Plus, the Medici pestered Michelangelo all his live but not because of religious reasons. Even the the Medici popes who forced him into doing the Sistine Chapel were hardly religious men, they could not care less who or what he had sex with for example.
They needed a propaganda peace and he was the best, roma locuta, causa finita.