I can not believe that you posted this!!! You could not keep you girlfriend satisfied so you try and blame it on her… ROFLMAO!
I think this is called deflection…
Maybe you need a penile implant…
Or
Learn how to use it…
Some have said she didn’t cheat. She didn’t cheat on a PHYSICAL level but she sure did on an EMOTIONAL level. Go back to the first post and read what she said and look at her intent, “yea, I think about you all the time, I want to give it another try.” In court there is murder, and then there is conspiracy to commit murder. Both are considered crimes. I’d say his ex is guilty as charged.
To answer a few comments/questions. Where did I get the idea to do this? I knew before we were even together that she had cheated on every boyfriend she ever had. She in fact cheated on the ex in question with me. Not a smart place to put myself to be sure, but I’m young. In the entire 8 months things never felt that solid, so I just always had that feeling. To those who said I should of had more fun: I definitly wish I had, but I figure anything else she said would have been moot by the end of things. As far as she’s cheating. I don’t know about everyone else’s standards and definitions, but where I’m from going behind a gf/bf’s back, especially with an ex, is considered cheating. You should have seen the means she took to cover it all up. Like when I showed up at her house, I looked in her window before knocking and she was on the phone with who I assume was her best friend, as soon as I rang the doorbell she hung up. I then tried to get on her laptop to check something online, and she told me it wasn’t charged up. She was totally going behind my back, and even though there was no physical cheating, what she did qualifies in my opinion. As far as an update on the situation: I talked to her and she called up her ex that night to “tell him what I did”. She said she talked to him for several hours, etc etc etc, and of course he didn’t want her. Later I heard from him and he congratulated me on job well done.
“Once a cheater, always a cheater.” And I can’t believe some of you are seriously attacking Fragile for what he did. Sure, he could have handled things in a different way, but doing what he did was a sure way to find out just how his ex girl was truly feeling. And like tsbball said, “girls always have to be the victim.” In many cases that is so damn true. I have seen it happen a million times where they try to make it seem like they were the victim, when in reality, they were the ones causing the whole mess to begin with. No, I’m not saying all girls do this, but in many cases, I have seen it and have heard others talk about it happening. Fragile got out of a relationship that was obviously not headed in the right direction. Better to leave like he did rather than feel screwed in the end. And I never said she cheated. She didn’t. But her emotions, feelings, heart, soul and whatever else were not in the right place in this relationship.
Dude, you ROCK! Beautiful work…
You’re the chump…she was going to cheat on you anyway, you didn’t gain anything.
The asshole inside of me asks, “To what end should one go to find out the state of a relationship?” Where does what he did end and stalking begin? Though he didn’t know it when he started, I think the girl deserved to be caught. I also think it’s funny as hell that he caught her. I don’t think it was the right thing to do, but also can’t say I would be above it under certain circumstances.
You know the more this thing unfolds, the more I have respect for what he did. Listen, he is young and acknowleged that he probably shouldn’t have been with her in the first place. He knew she was up to no good, and he had to do whatever it took to defend himself. Sometimes when you are dealing with underhanded people being “nice” about it doesn’t always work well. This girl got what she deserved. He is no prick. She was a sleazebag to begin with. He defended himself, learned from the experience and made his life alot better. There is nowhere to go from here but up.
Wait a minute! Did I just read that she cheated on her ex with YOU? Did you know that she was with this guy when you went out with her? If so, then this whole situation is wack.
Interesting stuff, this. First - In light of the fact that The Fragile knew her history and never had that “solid” feeling and all - I’d say he did the right thing in putting her through a few paces. I think people can change, but rarely do change. He found out she was not behaving in what he considers a trustworthy fashion. Whether it was entrapment or not is moot. No one is going to prosecute this in a court of law so making the comparison is retarded. Whether or not it is “cheating” is dependent on the individual’s perception of cheating. This obviously qualified for him.
Char-dawg’s point of the testing being unacceptable is also a good one but that would be assuming the door to suspicion hadn’t been opened by either being directly involved in cheating (as Frag and the chick were) or by confessing how many times she’d fucked around. In my mind, having opened that door to prior acts justifies the testing. She also, should have been testing him as he was involved in her cheating on her ex.
Second - Dude, that was hilarious! I think I would have taken a few hours to compose myself (I’d have been livid) and then plot how I was going to fuck with her head. No, probably not the “mature” and “sensible” thing to do but WTF, it’d have been some well deserved fun. I doubt this relationship was quality material anyway.
Third - I think it was Mission Impossible II that had the statement “Women are like fucking orangutans. They never let go of one branch til they’ve got a good hold of the next.” Maybe a bit of truth…
well at least you found out about the truth and found out what kind of person she was…look at it this way…nice guys make it last!!
Lol at all the bitches taking the girls side. Go ask your girlfriend’s/wife’s permission to get your balls out of her purse. You guys need them to help up the t levels and lower your estrogen.
Please, if you can, post her and her friends email addresses here. These have got to be the easiest and sleaziest bunch of dime whores I have ever heard of. Good work, good follow up. I’d quit any contact with this matress back and move on.