This whole time I just figured Erika was a virgin??? I’m going to cry!
“How many “bodies” did your mom “bag” before she had you? For our benefit, should she come on the board and brag about it? Should the guys she slept with come on the board and brag about “bagging” her?”"
Damn man. My mom was a ho! Sleeping with everyone. I think I’m the product of the whole high school football team. And she won’t stop going on message boards talking about everyone of them…LOL
Ericka, it is true that a women can pretty much get laid anytime she wants to (especially you). Even the ones who aren’t so good-looking. This is not true for men. Typically you have to be attractive, be able to relate to women, treat them with respect, etc. BEFORE you get the opportunity to sleep with them. But make no mistake, every guy still wants the ultimate prize. Have I changed dramatically since my 20’s? Yes, I have. Does my wife know about my past? Yeah, all about it. I dated her in college and she was a part of that history. I broke up with her cuz I wasn’t willing to settle down. When we met up 8 years later, it took a lot of convincing that I had indeed changed and was ready to settle down. Fortunately she gave me the chance. But she definitely has had her fun as well although not as much.
I still have no regrets. I loved sex and still do. Being able to sleep with beautiful women were some of the most fulfilling experiences I had in my younger years. It was pretty much a mutual experience. It’s not like I was misleading them to say “I want to marry you, would you sleep with me?” And yes, I actually had intimate relationships that lasted more than a night. Actual girlfriends that I did not cheat on.
This is a message board. You definitely can be a little more free with what you share anonymously so I responded to the subject. It’s obviously an emotionally charged one because everyone brings their own personal feelings/experiences into it. If I offended anyone, however, I’m not sorry. Get over it…
“I get fed up with women judging men by their own standards.”
You missed my point. It’s not in the numbers it’s in the attitude and obvious lack of respect that some of these guys have. Bragging about PRs in the gym is one thing, but last time I checked this is not a forum all about sex.
Randman, believe it or not it takes a lot to offend me. None of this even really offends me. I was just voicing my opinion and offering another point of view, and that is what these forums are here for right?
age 26
number: I really couldn’t tell you…over 100, probably under 200. But this was all age 15 to about 23. In the last three years I’ve been with 2 girls that were/still are long term and one that was between relationships…and that was a mutual crush that was between us for about 6 years, but we never did anything about it b/c I had a relationship with her sister at 20. Am I proud of my past sexcapades? No. Do I regret them? Yes, some of them, of course. My gf knows about my past and she knows I can’t give her a number. But…if I weren’t so experienced she wouldn’t be enjoying the fruits of my labor right now lmao. I have been very fortunately to not have contracted anything, and now that I’ve grown up I don’t think I have much to worry about anymore. I don’t have one night stands anymore, and I don’t have any desire for one. I get too attached these days with sex, it has become very emotional for me, whereas in the past it was purely physical and nothing but a conquest.
I will say this…I train a few doctors (women) and they agree with me that it is not natural for a woman to want to sleep around, and perfectly natural for a man to want to sleep around. This attitude was programmed into humans since the beginning of time. It’s just something you have to learn to control and from 15 to about 30 it’s EXTREMELY hard for a man to control this…it’s seriously like a drug.
Ericka, if everyone had the same POV, this message board would get boring pretty quick. And by the way, you caught me (just letting my fingers type away w/o regards to reality). I really didn’t sleep with that many women. Actually, I’m not even a 33 yr old male. I’m Randman’s mom and boy I’m looking for some fine young T-men to bump and grind with. How bout it GreekDawg? You want a piece of me? LOL.
roflmao Randman…
I guess we will just agree to disagree…I don’t think this thread is disrespectful. Like I said, I’ve never taken advantage of anyone. I’m actually a laid back guy. I just like sex…more than beer and all that other shit.
Like creed said, maybe its hormonal. Men have an infinite number of sperm, whereas women have a limited supply of eggs.
Further, all you know about me is the words I type here. You don’t know my name, don’t know what I look like. I can never receive any benefit from posting on here. So I still don’t see how posting this is bragging.
It’s not like I said “hi, my name is______ come over and fuck me tonight because I’m good in bed.”
It’s no different than answering any other question truthfully. I got 3 good reps at 245 on the bench the other day. I felt good about it. I’ve done better in the past but I was hormonally altered at the time. I know there are guys out there that eclipse those numbers every time they hit the gym. So? It’s not a competition. I fucked those girls for personal reasons of my own, not to impress anyone (like that’s gonna happen). The same for my weight lifting. I do it for me, not to have some number to brag about.
I don’t see it as disrespectful or dehumanizing to engage in consentual sex with someone. I suppose if I lied somehow to get them to do so then it would be wrong.
So honestly answering how many women I had sex with shouldn’t be any more a value thing than asking how many cars I’ve had or how many horses I’ve ridden.
I for one puposely left it a bit ambiguous for a couple of reasons. One is that I didn’t notch the bedpost or otherwise keep track so any number I came up with would be an estimate. The other is that if I did rerun the math and it came up as between 75 and 100 I know for a fact it would look worse than just in the dozens which could be as low as 24.
My wife knows about the whole story. I told her well before we were going to be married. I’m kind of big on that honesty thing. An untold number of things came together to put us on the path to meeting each other. Changing any of them might well have had a different outcome. We both accept that the paths we took got us to the right place, no matter how imperfect they were in other people’s eyes.
I have other friends with similar backgrounds that have had similar results. I have some that didn’t do so well. The number are about evenly split. Oddly enough those are the numbers for the more righteous and moral folks when it comes to successful and happy marriages too. I don’t see a clear winner there. It’s a crap shoot either way.
‘Men can be consider whores and sluts just as easily as females. Maybe not to your buddies, but any other females that read this will definately view you in this way.’
This is what i mean by judging men by womens standards!
Women are wrong to view men as whores compared to women who sleep around just for the simple fact that it is much more unusual for women to do so. But personally I think you are only a whore if you cheat alot! But lets get real this is much more common for men to do than women and when a women does it is far more socially unacceptable. Right or wrong that is the way it is.
Age 45;
“Bodycount” if that how you crudely want to call it; >200 maybe 300??
Living in Pattaya, Thailand have a strange influence on your sexlife.
I don’t understand why so many on this forum is so “convinced” that have had sex with many is bad.
If you meet someone you want to have sex with and they agree or vice versa, what’s wrong with that? As long as you’re protecting yourselves!
I’m not talking about cheating on you girl friend / boyfriend, that’s not fair. My last long relationship lasted 5 years and I was actually faithful. Must be a record in Pattaya!! Now when I’m sort of unattached I don’t see anything wrong with a more active sexlife with various partners.
Body Count, saw them at the first Lollapalloza (sp?) when it was a good set of bands. Ice-T later came out and did a song with Perry from Janes Addiction.
“Body count, body count, body count, body count.”
My friend’s addicted to cocaine, smokes day and night
drives mom and pop insane.
Living his life in the dark light
every dollar he gets goes into the pipe.
He wants to borrow some money from me,
do you think I’m blind, don’t know the score, can’t see?
You wanna get high as the sky
You’re kissing your life goodbye
You think it’s a game that you play
But the winner lose it all someday.
Ya don’t know who you are
are you losing your mind?
Things get a little tight he committed a crime.
Give me you money or give me your life!
You betta empty your pockets because ya, ya don’t live twice.
You wanna get high as the sky
You’re kissing your life goodbye
You think it’s a game that you play
But the winner lose it all someday.
He took the money to the dope man
and he said he had the best
next thing ya knew, cardiac arrest!
It was a rollercoaster, he couldn’t get off
next thing I knew my friend’s life was lost. Noooooooooo.
You wanna get high as the sky
You’re kissing your life goodbye
You think it’s a game that you play
But the winner lose it all someday.
Peace out.
ericka, i think you may have missed my point. i am almost 30, not some silly young thing who has no idea what life is about. i have a healthy sex drive that i do with it what i see fit. i wasn’t posting to brag, i was posting to counter the blanket statement that ALL women are emotional about sex. we’re not.
i’ve had several LTRs, i’ve also gone through periods of time (nearly a year) without sex b/c i wasn’t in a LTR and decided that maybe i should wait until i have a meaningful relationship before having sex. that sucked, and i will never do that again. you feel how you do about sex, and i feel how i do. neither is right and neither is wrong.
Minimeow, I say you and I get together and bump up our “body count”.
“I love sex just as much as anyone else and probably even more than a lot of people but the risks are far to high for casual sex these days”
bwaaaaaaaaha
born and raised in compton.
I got the adrenaling pumpin
I got the stereo bumpin
I got to kill me somethin
A pig zapped me for nuthin…
Cop Killer…better you than me
Cop Killer…F___ police brutality
Cop Killer…I hear your family screamin
F___ 'em
Cop Killer…tonight we get even…
"Evil D__K, likes warm, wet places
Evil Di__, dont care about faces
Evil ___k, likes tiny small spaces
Evil ic, leaves gooey tell-tale traces
Evil…Dic_
Late at night, evil D__K he comes to me and he says ‘don’t sleep alone, don’t sleep alone…’
Late at night, evil DIC_ he wakes me up and he says ‘don’t sleep alone, don’t sleep alone, don’t sleep alone, don’t sleep alone…don’t sleep alone!!!’"
Just to keep true to both tangents of this thread… 
(Part of the BodyCount Intro)
Thats not my job, asshole! / My jobs not to help your fucking ass out!
Well, could you tell me what your job is?
Right now, my job is eating them donuts. Hey! What a minute! Aren`t you…?
Gunshots (3)
Yep!
(Without prejudice!)
As for the sex thing, numbers are pretty much useless.
In the end, the number is basically a denominator of the different opportunities you had to know yourself better and/or pay attention to others.
Whether you fall into a 100 times = 1 experience (i.e. closed mind, same inner experience, and you could call it wet-hole masturbation), or 100 times = 100 learning opportunities is a whole different debate. And, I hope, where you separate the stupid from the mature. Personally, I would prefer the quick learners instead of the endless-repeat-1-track-record.
And, please, kill that women turning the tables on mens behavior shit. Biology tells us that men are geared for go out there and sow as much as you can without too big a biological price, whereas women are more geared towards 9 months investments between shots if youre careless. In some species, alpha males have the harem and are precisely expected to sow as much as they can AND beat the shit out of contenders. I don`t recall ever hearing about females having harems of men at their disposal.
And thats just for starters...Gender identity is reality. Idealisms and equality are fantasy and only in the eye of the Beholder. The Human Race survived many years before law, equality and equal opportunities came in. Just shows you how much its a modern-day caprice.
Age 48 Body Count ~40 – But 39 of these were before age 27, when I met my wife, so for the last 20+ years, 1. Oh and the 40 also includes a lot of whores overseas. I guess without them, it would be more like 15 or so. I guess I should put something in here about the whores: Before you condemn, picture yourself trapped on a submarine with a bunch of guys for weeks on end. Then they turn you loose in a country where they don’t speak English, and you have about 24 hours to play. I went straight to the beer and pussy… who wouldn’t?
I don’t know if my last post went through. It disapeared before I could spell check! LOL! I don’t condem, I just suggest think twice of the consequenses before acting. 2/3rds of all women don’t enjoy sex for sex sake. Emotional damage does occur. Some day she is going to be some t-man’s girl. Make sure your not creating problems in somebody elses life. If you are not considering the effects on others it is a significant sign on immaturity. Which is more important blowing my load or finding out why this person is REALLY with me?