[quote]vroom wrote:
“I love you ProfX, mmmm, mmmm”
“I love you too Vroom, mmmmm, mmmm”
“No, I love your more ProfX, mmmm, mmm”
Do you two kiss with your eyes open?
Or we can keep the fucking horse on life support so we can kick it forever.
Some of us choose to try and move on. (Yes, mindful that those who do not remember the past are doomed to repeat it.)
Okay, you are an asshole, but I have to admit that was kind of funny.
The issue of moving on is a strange one. You’ll find that by pretending the past doesn’t exist, and that people aren’t still living it’s long lasting effects, basically makes it impossible to move on.
Why? Because in trying to do that it is generally the majority dismissing the concerns and issues of the minority, which I’m guessing feels like a “par for the course” type of thing.
Everyone would like to move on. Doing that means not trying to blame minorities for having a need to point out the issues that were done are still being done. It also means working to stop doing those things.
Just simply ignoring past and current problems is not a solution. Sure, it might work for you if you ignored everything, but that would be because you aren’t feeling the effects of the issue otherwise.
I know I’m not doing a good job, but just telling everyone to shut up about it because you are tired of hearing about it, when others have to live it, is incredibly unfair and unrealistic.
If other people can live it, you can certainly deal with their need to talk about it.[/quote]
I think u r doing a good job and everything u r saying is very profound. If the people with these concerns that are replying to the thread would step back and jump into the minorities shoes for one day then their opinion would most likely be changed. I gotta say though, man it feels good to have a person speak so eloquently on this matter.