I think it’s different than being racist in private. Here’s the thing, with this Irwin situation, if some jackass where’s a tasteless costume where I am and no one who knows steve irwin, no one who really knew him and is truly feeling loss and missing him in their lives after his death, I would probably chuckle. I’m not AFRAID of Irwin’s family…I’m afraid of hurting them any more than they’ve already suffered. I don’t want to make them feel bad about something horrible that happened.
I would probably laugh if they weren’t there, just being honest. But if Irwin’s wife were there and someone did that I would say ‘hey man, get out of here with that bullshit’ Because it’s really deeply hurtful to her, it’s a real loss, not a ‘TV loss’ like all of us may claim we feel. Come to think of it. you’re right, I’m just a coward…
[quote]EmperialChina wrote:
Scrappy wrote:
I would probably laugh if someone I knew did it at a small party or something. But to do it from Bill’s position on TV and all is really bad cause you know his family will see it.
I would laugh at a small private halloween party but I would not want to remind or rub it in to his family if that makes any sense.
How does that make it any better?
I am seeing a lot of people who find this tasteless and horrible, are saying they would get a laugh out of it at a party or some where, where the family of Irwin potentially would not see it.
I guess its ok to through around sexist or racial comments, as long as said persons are not there, then it’s completely ok, seems cowardly to me.
I have been a big fan of Maher, I think he is extremely intelligent and his views come from a place or realism, that I have yet to see in other people. The only things I disagree with him on are animal rights et cetera. But I have to say I don’t see the point of teasing someone like Irwin who by most accounts was a great guy anyhow.
I also don’t understand the “too soon” argument, what a fallacy. It’s ok to tease it once the people that said tragic event effected are either dead or too old to remember correctly, then it’s ok, hahaha we humans are masters of self-propagated bullshit.
So in ten years when most people have “forgotten”, it will then be not as bad to make a pun…yeah…Hmmm been 5 years since 9/11 I guess its safe to start with light hearted jokes, in 5 more years we can get raunchy.
By the way I am not against free expression, everyone will do it regardless of any law or morality/ethics. I just don’t understand why people can’t be honest, if you find it funny ok if not ok.
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