[quote]MikeTheBear wrote:
[quote]ZEB wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
ZEB, please stay on topic without your usual diatribal ranting.
Sexual preference has nothing to do with [a]theism, so take it somewhere else.[/quote]
But our emotions have much to do with our belief system. We find the facts that reinforce our beliefs, and we all do it one way or another. If you don’t like the facts maybe you better take it somewhere else.[/quote]
This is a common theme among true believers. As I said before, they MUST attribute a nefarious motive to those of us who disbelieve or question the existence of a deity. To do otherwise would mean that maybe, just maybe, the emperor really isn’t wearing any clothes.
I probably live more like a Christian than most Christians. Been married for many years to one woman, never wanted to “try” being with another man (don’t take offense forlife because I care not what others do in the privacy of their bedrooms, nor do I “worry” that watching figure skating might suddenly predispose me to be attracted to men), I don’t cheat or steal, I don’t do drugs and never have, I have a regular job and work hard to support my family.
I wish there was a supreme being, I really do. How cool would that be to have a benevolent being watching over us? Although I think that some religious people are scary, I have no phobia or fear of any deity. Why would I? I would WANT nothing more than to believe that a benevolent supreme being exists. And yet…
I cannot accept that one exists. While I don’t deny that one can possibly exist, I cannot accept one either. I simply do not know. No one can KNOW. You can believe with all your might. You can pretend that you “feel a presence.” You can insult those who question the existence of a deity all you want. But you will never, ever KNOW.
My agnosticism can be explained very simply: I don’t just want to believe, I want to know. And there simply is not enough evidence to KNOW. Period. That’s it. No desire for an “alternative lifestyle” or whatever else the believers may attribute to my skepticism. There simply is not enough evidence to KNOW.[/quote]
Excellent post. I’m seeing some twisted logic in this thread. People are acknowledging the role of cognitive dissonance and confirmatory bias in determining their belief system, but for the religious it is only a surface acknowledgment. Deep down, they actually believe that their religious experiences are rock solid, undeniable proof for the veracity of their beliefs. They refuse to acknowledge that people of contradictory religious faiths have had similar profound religious experiences, and that logically these experiences are NOT a reliable proof that their beliefs are actually true.
It’s true that the nonreligious are similarly subject to these cognitive biases. But that is where the similarity ends. Recognizing that we have these biases, we are distrustful of personal conclusions that are not supported by science. The very reason we turn to science is because it offers an objective, reliable method for differentiating fact from fiction. It protects us from these cognitive biases, and instead of demanding that people just have faith, it encourages others to independently test its claims. If they fail to produce supporting results, science rejects the hypothesis as unreliable and unfounded.
Instead of dismissing “dusty old science”, people would do well to recognize that it is our only reliable method for knowing what is real. Wanting something to be true doesn’t make it so.