[quote]jasmincar wrote:
[quote]dreadlocks1221 wrote:
Like all males, you probably learned to ejaculate with your orgasms, which is why you can’t simply think yourself into an internal orgasm at first. You have to undo the reflex you’ve built up over the years/decades. The technique I learned is called the pinching technique. To practice, you would masturbate right up until the point at which you are at the edge before your orgasm. You would then put pressure on your perineum (there should be a spot at which it feels like there a small ball or a pea, thats where you do it) with a finger or two on one hand and then on the other you would pinch the head of your penis wit your thumb and index finger (this should NOT be painful). Its best to do this just as you go over your edge (or just get your hands in the right position and then push yourself over). You most likely will not get it the first few times, which is ok, you will need to practice your timing and where to pinch, put pressure, etc. Sometimes you may even get it half way or 75%, etc. Just keep working on it. the point of doing this technique is to show your body the difference between your orgasm and ejaculation. Once you get it the first time it should be easier to do, however you will need to keep practicing before you can untrain your reflex.[/quote]
I tried this and it was great, I had an orgasm maybe 65% the strenght of an ejaculatory orgasm without losing energy. The post ejaculation syndrome are really that bad for me, usually I can’t do anything for 45 min after it, then I have near suicidal thought for the next 3 hours, then I feel like the worst chump in existence for the next 2 days and finally my energy come back gradually until 1 week has passed. Actually I did it twice, I really didn’t want to ejaculate so I pushed very hard on my perineum the whole time. I didnt really pinch the tip.
The first time the contraction were violent and I thought I would explode from the pressure. That was really a wtf moment when I felt like I was ejaculating but I wasnt. The second time I didnt push as hard, the orgasm and contraction were weaker but I lost a very small amount of fluid (when the tip of you penis becomes wet). It is really great, the horniness is gone but the energy is still there.
My only wonder is if pushing hard for a long time on the perineum or frequently is a good thing…
And sorry everyone for such expliciteness. Be sure I wouldn’t write all of this if I didn’t think I was anonym here.[/quote]
I guess my first question is, how did it take you a week to get your energy back if I told you about this technique a few days ago? (or have you tried this before?). When you said the contractions were violent, was this in a somewhat good way or was it painful? After using the technique, did your load come oozing out or were you completely dry?
The internal orgasm at first will feel like you are coming but the pinching technique when it works should still leave you completely dry. I have had the exploding orgasm feeling before followed by and intense heat (not like a burning but more like an intense energy store) sensation. Knowing meditative techniques can help dispel the energy and/or prevent it from building up that much at the end. My first one was super intense and I tried it right before I went to bed (so obviously I had a hard time going to sleep afterwards) When you become more experienced, managing your energy will be easier.
As for pushing on your perineum, it shouldn’t be painful, that’s a given. You may not need to push as hard as you think you do, so experiment with different levels of pressure. Keep in mind that the end goal is to undo your reflex and not have to push on the perineum at all and still be able to achieve the internal orgasm.