I agree with you. A lot of places raising animals are not up to great standards. However, growing up in Wisconsin I knew a number of dairy farmers who truly treated their cows as extensions of the family. Like you said this probably the exception though.
I don’t hold animals in the same regard as humans though. I do believe animals have a spirit, but it is something lesser than the human soul.
I think there is a spectrum of awareness. I think certain animals have very little understanding like shrimp. I’m more conflicted with pigs as they are smarter, and have some of the worst conditions. Cattle, even grain fed are mostly pasture raised, and finished on grains.