[quote]Magnetic88 wrote:
Why is this thread still happening. Look man, it’s not like we don’t sympathize. We’re not all heartless bastards. My best friend’s wife and I fell in “love”, but I handled it. I straight up said: “yes we both have incredible feelings but it’ll never happen. Never.” I squashed that shit. They’re happy and married and I still have a best friend. And guess what? The “love” between us is gone and died a cold hard death, which is what will happen with you and this girl eventually.
Love is a spark. You can either fan it into a flame or stomp it out. For the love of god stop fanning that shit![/quote]
So what’s the difference between the love I have for my missus and the other girl? This logic dosnt make sense pretty much everyone is saying that there is no such thing as a “real connection”, “love” and a “soul mate” if you will
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Long story about the fight, but this is were you will realise how much of a mess I am, so we had a fight because I have a heroin addiction that I have been battling for awhile and I slipped up and relapsed. [/quote]
Is it wrong that I’m laughing?
Good luck Kenny McCormick! You’ll need it.[/quote]
Come on its not that bad lol[/quote]
The fuck it ain’t, bud.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Methinks this is all trolling.[/quote]
This is starting to piss me off I’m not bloody trolling this is my fucking life[/quote]
[quote]Magnetic88 wrote:
Why is this thread still happening. Look man, it’s not like we don’t sympathize. We’re not all heartless bastards. My best friend’s wife and I fell in “love”, but I handled it. I straight up said: “yes we both have incredible feelings but it’ll never happen. Never.” I squashed that shit. They’re happy and married and I still have a best friend. And guess what? The “love” between us is gone and died a cold hard death, which is what will happen with you and this girl eventually.
Love is a spark. You can either fan it into a flame or stomp it out. For the love of god stop fanning that shit![/quote]
So what’s the difference between the love I have for my missus and the other girl? This logic dosnt make sense pretty much everyone is saying that there is no such thing as a “real connection”, “love” and a “soul mate” if you will[/quote]
I don’t personally believe in the concept of soulmates. You are really being a fucking idiot right now and I’ve just gotten pissed off. I think Push is probably right but I cant quit getting sucked in.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Long story about the fight, but this is were you will realise how much of a mess I am, so we had a fight because I have a heroin addiction that I have been battling for awhile and I slipped up and relapsed. [/quote]
Is it wrong that I’m laughing?
Good luck Kenny McCormick! You’ll need it.[/quote]
Come on its not that bad lol[/quote]
Does new girl do heroine?
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No she’s perfect
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If you think this then you don’t know shit about her you dumbass…
[quote]Magnetic88 wrote:
Why is this thread still happening. Look man, it’s not like we don’t sympathize. We’re not all heartless bastards. My best friend’s wife and I fell in “love”, but I handled it. I straight up said: “yes we both have incredible feelings but it’ll never happen. Never.” I squashed that shit. They’re happy and married and I still have a best friend. And guess what? The “love” between us is gone and died a cold hard death, which is what will happen with you and this girl eventually.
Love is a spark. You can either fan it into a flame or stomp it out. For the love of god stop fanning that shit![/quote]
So what’s the difference between the love I have for my missus and the other girl? This logic dosnt make sense pretty much everyone is saying that there is no such thing as a “real connection”, “love” and a “soul mate” if you will[/quote]
I don’t think anyone’s saying there’s no such thing as love. They’re saying you’re just thinking with your dick right now. Love doesn’t happen. You build it. You might know there’s potential for love right off the bat (ie, you’re extremely attracted to her and you get along), but it ain’t actual love, pal. Make an effort to fall in love with the woman you have instead of watching the tube and boning every night. Also stop emotionally cheating on her and things might just turn around…
Ok, so you’re a relapsing heroin addict who’s currently on a cycle and you are unable to stop yourself from spending time with your best friend’s (who is also an addict and apparently a wife beater) girl, who is “perfect”, even though you know it’s wrong. If this girl is in fact the abused spouse of an addict she is, by definition, all kinds of messed up. You really think she is a good risk for a healthy LTR and worth giving up your kids for?
You, by your own admission, are completely unable to control your actions and yet you believe you are neither naive nor immature and are seeing this situation clearly. You have been “working on your relationship” with the mother of your children and yet you have been cultivating emotional intimacy with this other woman for years and your “partner” is aware of this fact. Does this pretty much cover it?
Dude, seriously, get help. Now. Please. The girl needs help as well. You are not that help. You are not capable of being that help. Get yourself right. Do it quick. There are no do-overs with this shit.
[quote]batman730 wrote:
Ok, so you’re a relapsing heroin addict who’s currently on a cycle and you are unable to stop yourself from spending time with your best friend’s (who is also an addict and apparently a wife beater) girl, who is “perfect”, even though you know it’s wrong. If this girl is in fact the abused spouse of an addict she is, by definition, all kinds of messed up. You really think she is a good risk for a healthy LTR and worth giving up your kids for?
You, by your own admission, are completely unable to control your actions and yet you believe you are neither naive nor immature and are seeing this situation clearly. You have been “working on your relationship” with the mother of your children and yet you have been cultivating emotional intimacy with this other woman for years and your “partner” is aware of this fact. Does this pretty much cover it?
Dude, seriously, get help. Now. Please. The girl needs help as well. You are not that help. You are not capable of being that help. Get yourself right. Do it quick. There are no do-overs with this shit.[/quote]
Yeah, nailed it
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Long story about the fight, but this is were you will realise how much of a mess I am, so we had a fight because I have a heroin addiction that I have been battling for awhile and I slipped up and relapsed. [/quote]
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Sadly, I’ve known people like this, and I tend to believe him.
OP, as AC said, you need to “slow your roll” for a while, until the mania / T / obsession passes some.
But I am pessimistic that you will.
Anyone who has come this far with fucking up his life ain’t likely to turn back now.[/quote]
Not sure if I like this post or not I’m glad you believe me, I put myself 100% out there on this one and I just copped insults and people saying that I’m trolling. But the part about me fucking up my life isn’t as bad as what you all think granted when I fuck up its usually a big one but we all have issues
