My old man called me out to the yard many times to beat my ass back into line for being mouthy and asshole-ish.
Over time, I’ve learned humility and self-control, though at times I let my anger get out of control, causing myself to look childish and immature at nearly 30 yrs old.
You need a better outlet, either playing angry-ass guitar/drums, or art, or whatever. Hell, go buy several tubes of astro glide and have some good private time alone with some porn.
Such a character flaw will embed itself further if you aren’t taking proactive measures to mitigate the effects. I’ve been there and it almost got me locked up a few times, got me kicked out of school many times, lost jobs and friends, and later on, promotions in the military. I recently was able to intervene. By not allowing other’s access to myself in a corruptible manner.
In short, you need a challenge of some sort of real tense to encourage you to seek all information and problem solving directly from yourself.
In contrast, some people need to be punked by being made to drink a “shit shake” , or “cum cubes”. I’m sure somehow those will be arranged.
[quote]djoh615893 wrote:
You need a better outlet, either playing angry-ass guitar/drums, or art, or whatever. Hell, go buy several tubes of astro glide and have some good private time alone with some porn.
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Are you telling a 14 year old to watch porn?
Well most of us watch it anyways lol
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
djoh615893 wrote:
You need a better outlet, either playing angry-ass guitar/drums, or art, or whatever. Hell, go buy several tubes of astro glide and have some good private time alone with some porn.
Are you telling a 14 year old to watch porn?
Well most of us watch it anyways lol[/quote]
ahzaz, seriously where is your dad in all this? You haven’t mentioned him at all, and I’m wondering if that’s a large part of the problem. Listen to what ukrainian said, he’s 14 also, so he knows where you’re at…and the rest of us have been there already.
Flipping out when you get angry won’t fix your problems, so man up and deal with it. Figure out what you’re mad about specifically in every situation, and take care of it in some way besides having a tantrum.
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
Ok, I need some help. I have the WORST anger possible. I dont care if that makes sense or not. When im angry, ill rip someone’s throat out just to feel better. Ive tried punching walls, stamping my feet, etc.etc. but it never seems to work. The “lie down and relax” bs wont do. Can someone help?
Im at the point where the people around me want to send me to a psychiatrist. THATS how bad it is. I dont wanna go tho, because if i hear him say “so how does that make you feel” one more time im gonna rip his nutsack out and shove it down his throat. Anyone else with anger issues learn to deal with it? Im in SERIOUS need for help.[/quote]
You could be ADD; anger is often a telling sign of it. At least that’s what they told me and it’s seemed to work rather well. I don’t even take any drugs to treat it. Rather I limit my stimulants, and load up on fish oil and other things such as Power Drive or Spike.
Second choice is go take your anger out on the weights and you’ll feel better.
Ok well things are better now
thx for the people that pm’d me and for some of the advice on here. Ill try channeling my anger towards other activities.
My dad doesnt kick my ass anymore, he used to but he knows that i only go this extreme once or twice a month, just angry the rest of the time.
well thx for all that tried to help, appreciate it