I had been around the block a few times before my wife to be and I met, she had never gone for a walk. We were in our 30’s and it was a first marriage for both of us. We have been married for over 20 years and jpfitness has it right, it is a commitment to continuing that makes a marriage work, they don’t just happen they are built one day at a time. I see nothing standing in the way of our continuing till one of us dies and considering what my heart is doing lately the chances of our being together till death gets better all the time. Cupcake, you are partially right, lots of sex but lots of sex from someone who knows every button you got and just how to push them and also likes how you push her buttons, I’m on HRT and take a guess who gives me the shots, no shots, no interest in button pushing so she never lets me forget a shot. Although, we do live in Utah and she still won’t let me have another wife and I think that is a little selfish but none of us are perfect, then again, how long would my honey-do list be with two wives, maybe she’s right. Also two sons, one of whom goes to the gym with me, he has caught up and is on the verge of passing me and going to places I will never see again.
I’ve been married for 28 years, and yes, I think both of us are happy, and without regrets.
I think communication is important. I also think it is important to treat your significant other with the came integrity you use towards others and yourself. Keep it honest.
I’ve also thought this quite a bit over the years. You need to treat the marriage with as much care as you do yourself or your significant other. What I mean by this is that the marriage in many ways must become a third entity that needs nuturing, sometimes even when that my be in conflict with what the individuals need and/or want.
WOW…good for all of you! This is a GREAT thread. Best one in a looooooong time. Keep em coming…;o)