Are you sure she is taking MOAI’s? Or perhaps an SSRI? It is rare to have some one prescribed an MAOI (unless it is for something very specific), and they clash with every know drug on planet… The first thing I would do is unload the MOAI. Trade up to Prozac,Zoloft or, the king of anti-deppresants, Paxil. If she ever took Paxil, the heat would definately be off because it aniahlates(sp?) your sex drive. There is no goo way to get off of them, you can taper to a point, but that may make milder side effects take longer to get rid of. I used to take anti-depressants, one day I decided I did not need them anymore so I stopped. It sucked for about two weeks…the first week worse than the first, but I have been fine ever since. As far as the Vicodin, I think codiene is great, but the variations such as oxycodone which is the main ingrediant in Vicodin will make you irritable as shit once you hit the the other side of the buzz. Make sure it is not contributing to the problem you she is having with bitchness. Vicodin will also cork you up, I am sure no shitting in a week would make anybody bitchy… Now I am far from preaching here, I just want to make a suggestion with you recreational drug use out side you particular problem…Codiene is a fickle friend, so either take the codiene or drink, but don’t do them together as a rule…They should compliment, but I have found the combo unpleasant for the most part. Also, it may do you some good to keep some phenagren around, codiene can also make you nausious(sp?). Also, always take it on an empty stomach, other wise you will generally need 50% more to get the same effect except it will feel like you swallowed a boat anchor if you hav food in your stomach…I hope this helps…BTW…I dude tend to enjoy your rude comentary.
What are you doing getting married at 26?
Thank you. I thought I had been in a few disfunctional relationships. But yours makes mine look like childs play. I guess if you look around you can always find someone more fucked up than you are.
I’m clean and sober 2 years now,after a 15 year habit of “fun” as you put it…you’re seeing first hand the evolving addiction process and how some people slide downhill faster than others…you’re displaying a bit more self control and interest in health and wellbeing right now, but as you can see from your girlfriend ,somewhere along the way, looking like shit doesn’t phase you and you lose interest in your appearance…the booze and drugs rob you of your judgement…stay on this path and i’d bet my next paycheck on where you’ll be ten years from now…i 'd suggest a tirip to AA or NA for both of you and then,when your head’s on straight and you can assess each other outside the fog of addiction you can figure out if the relationship is worth saving.
So, you were 23 and she was 29 when you first began dating. Now, at 32 she doesn’t look as good to you as the sweet young things at school, eh? Well, duh!!! Not to say that 32-year olds can’t look good or better than 20-year olds, but hey–there’s the thing about dating and marrying older women when you are really too young to be marrying anyone.
It sure doesn’t sound to me like you “love” her. More like you’ve gotten used to her to a degree, and it doesn’t even sound like you’re enjoying having her around much. You don’t like her behaviour, or her looks, and you say your eyes are straying. Go get yourselves straightened out, then assess your so-called relationship, and then figure out what to do.
Thank you everyone for your insightful comments and opinions. For the most part you are probably right. I need to treat my wife better, and to be fair it wasnt actually 50 pounds. So I am an ass, and honey if youre reading this Im sorry. Please–dont anyone be as stupid as I am. Never tell a woman anything negative about her appearance, no matter what.
How much of that 50 lbs. went to her tits???
Just f-in with ya man. Good luck. 
you’re NOT an ass because you at least worry about if you hurt her feelings or not. other guys should take tips from you on how to do that.
That’s some funny shit!! You actually told her you don’t find her as attractive as you used to? This is the woman you love? Use some common sense man.
If you really love her why don’t you start listening to her and treating her like the angel that women are? Stop thinking with your dick and relate to her feelings. If she’s gained weight maybe something’s wrong, but she’s probably insecure and needs you right now. Best thing is to be there for her. Since you check out other women and wish your lady looked like that, you’re eventually going to break her heart by cheating…